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Topic: Will You Still Love Her when she gets fat in later life ? (Read 472 times)

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Yes, for sure. I love her because she have a nice soul, not a hot body  Grin
newbie
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I have always believed that if you love someone, you should embrace everything he/she has, including shortcomings, or getting older. If I can be with a girl I love, then I will be more concerned about whether she can accompany me, not whether she will get fat.
newbie
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The way I see it is that when a woman gained weight during your relationship with her that means you are treating her right. That means a couple of things, First is that for sure you can cook better than her ex-boyfriends and that is why she loves to eat. Second is that, you have the means to treat her in a good dinning experience. She gained weight because you're a good man so I think that means as well that you love her truly.

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We all cease to be the same handsome people closer to old age, this must be understood first!
newbie
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Yeah, I will. I am Superman, and she will be my Loise Lane forever.
newbie
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Now it is no matter how she looks. We had an break up. I think love is only a word and it has no meaning. Love is wasting time.
newbie
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Yes, Love doesn't see in physical but depends on attitude.
newbie
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Everyone love and wish to have ideal, great looking girl as a girlfriend or wife.


Yeah, maybe in the beginning, she is ideal and perfect. Months, years down the road, she suddenly gets bloated up, fat.. Now ....


Will you still love her the same or even better ?

Or you may have doubt ??


Or what the heck...she is still the Diamond in my Eyes and heart, forever mine..


Any experience to share below ?


Even if she is fat - you can do walks everyday, this will help to lose weight, so it's not really a problem. It can be fixed.
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she is still the Diamond in my Eyes and heart, forever mine..
This what is important.
copper member
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Sure I will, my love for her goes beyond her physical appearance
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Everyone love and wish to have ideal, great looking girl as a girlfriend or wife.


Yeah, maybe in the beginning, she is ideal and perfect. Months, years down the road, she suddenly gets bloated up, fat.. Now ....


Will you still love her the same or even better ?

Or you may have doubt ??


Or what the heck...she is still the Diamond in my Eyes and heart, forever mine..


Any experience to share below ?




If you really love her, you will love her any! Fat or not, it doesn't matter.
newbie
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We fall in love with souls not bodies.
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Everyone love and wish to have ideal, great looking girl as a girlfriend or wife.


Yeah, maybe in the beginning, she is ideal and perfect. Months, years down the road, she suddenly gets bloated up, fat.. Now ....


Will you still love her the same or even better ?

Or you may have doubt ??


Or what the heck...she is still the Diamond in my Eyes and heart, forever mine..


Any experience to share below ?



Would love to ask you the contrary, would you still love yourself when you get old, fat, wrinkled af.  Cheesy

i found my sole partner when I was 21, we studied together, passed out the university and later got married. The word, since the day we are together, the point of appearance never ever stood in our way. we still treat each other they way we use to like the first year of our togetherness.
Emotions are not related to appearance, with time people understand that.
newbie
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Yes of course,  once I have loved her,it will continue forever even if she gets fat and obese .
newbie
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Of course, inner beauty my friend
newbie
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whatever form I will still love him because he has become my true love. I will live with him.
jr. member
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I would say generally yes, but there is a limit.  I wouldn't want to be with someone that is so obese that they lack self control and it would be a major hazard to their longevity.
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Of course, I will still love her no matter what size she is. I know every guy wants to have a good looking and sexy body girlfriend/wife. But then, Outside look will ever fade but the beauty inside will last forever. Whatever size she will be, I will forever love her unconditionally.
newbie
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dont leave her . U have to always love her. Help her to be better than to abunden her
newbie
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Yeah sure. I love the look and the soul of her. I do not care about her appearance.
newbie
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i dont care if she really fat later on just i love him the way she love him me im okay for that that relationship.
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Best option is to make yourself fit and do exercise daily if you do exercise daily she will also follow you because she will also want to be fit if she see her husband fit. So better to do exercise daily so both get fit so no worry about the future.
newbie
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If you truly love her, no matter what shape she will be after life you still love her.
newbie
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I Will always love her, but it's better to take her to gym
newbie
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Of course i do  i still love her because i really love her and that's only. No matter what happen to her even she's fat soon i still love her because i loved that woman because of her personality and attitude. So if you really loved someone no matter what happen you will accept that person.
newbie
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Yes of course, you love her for personality and attitude not on physical appearance.
newbie
Activity: 84
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Everyone love and wish to have ideal, great looking girl as a girlfriend or wife.


Yeah, maybe in the beginning, she is ideal and perfect. Months, years down the road, she suddenly gets bloated up, fat.. Now ....


Will you still love her the same or even better ?

Or you may have doubt ??


Or what the heck...she is still the Diamond in my Eyes and heart, forever mine..


Any experience to share below ?



I could sound like a jerk but I keep myself in the shape and my gf does it, it is crucial to feeling comfortable with your body.
Cant say that person, which has overweight happy and can have a nice sex.  

I will not stop loving her but come on I can help her to be happy about her body again.
newbie
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I have a girlfriend that i loved since the day i met her.

When the first time we met, her weight is about 45 kg, and now she turns 55 kg. Happily, i still love her without take a problem about her weight and we still both happy. Although she was sometimes got sad about her weight and she want to do some diet.

I don't care if she 45 kg or 55 kg or get more maybe, i loved her since the first day.
newbie
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I don't care how my love of my life looks like.. if I love - I love.
newbie
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If you really love a person, it does not matter what height or weight she has, we are the second half and there is a number that if she becomes fat to help her lose weight
newbie
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its easier said than done!! Many people will claim they will still love her if she becomes overweight. Though if one truly loves her, i do not think that should stop you from loving her. But its also advisable that women watch their weight always and do everything possible to avoid being overweight or obese.
newbie
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Everyone love and wish to have ideal, great looking girl as a girlfriend or wife.


Yeah, maybe in the beginning, she is ideal and perfect. Months, years down the road, she suddenly gets bloated up, fat.. Now ....


Will you still love her the same or even better ?

Or you may have doubt ??


Or what the heck...she is still the Diamond in my Eyes and heart, forever mine..


Any experience to share below ?




For me i will say yes, you like someone should not be just the nice outer appearance, although everyone like nice things.
newbie
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Yes i still love him.. when we meet he's fat already so what for later life?
member
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I will be happy if my life partner remains charming forever, but that is impossible, humans will be old and not beautiful anymore. it can not be denied.not only our wives are getting older, we too. when we are equally ugly and old I think it is very reasonable. now I am young and handsome, of course I will choose a young and beautiful wife, I may not choose old and ugly woman to be my wife
newbie
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I do't care if she's ugly or fat  I will love here always .
jr. member
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Not a problem for me, because I love not because of physical.
If slow love of the year will change but if sincere will remain immortal.
I will love him as first met and first love him.
newbie
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If you really love a person, it doesn't matter how she or he looks like
newbie
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If you love a person's soul, then a little chubbiness is insignificant. Love is not the problem. The problem is that we get bored. We want something new and exciting. That's just how things are most of the time. But weather you'll act on those shallow desires doesn't depend on your partner, or them getting fat. It depends only on what kind of person you are. Don't be a shallow person. Or rather, be whoever it is that you are, just be aware of that. If you are a shallow person, and you know that you are a shallow person, AND you are totally okay with that based on your views and belief system, then by all means, you do you, that is who you are.

And let me ask you this - will she still love you when you get fat?

Another interesting question for debate is - if you love her, and she gets like really fat, is she now a different person, a person that doesn't care much about their health, a person that is lazy and lacks will to self-control? And what have you done, as her partner that loves her, to try and stop her from destroying her health?
newbie
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it will not be a problem, because from the beginning we are with him, whatever his condition I will accept him as is.
newbie
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Of course! If I said I love her, it means that I will love her no matter what and whoever she will be Smiley
newbie
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Our body will get fat and old during our lifetime. Who stayed with you in sickness and in health is what counts. Smiley
jr. member
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ofcourse, once inlove is always inlove.. Cool
newbie
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Everyone love and wish to have ideal, great looking girl as a girlfriend or wife.


Yeah, maybe in the beginning, she is ideal and perfect. Months, years down the road, she suddenly gets bloated up, fat.. Now ....


Will you still love her the same or even better ?

Or you may have doubt ??


Or what the heck...she is still the Diamond in my Eyes and heart, forever mine..


Any experience to share below ?

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