Copy the wallet.dat from your armoury folder, and replace the one already it in your bitcoin-qt. Then your Bitcoin-qt will be using the the address of your armoury wallet.
No. Why would you give blatantly wrong information?
OP, there is an Armory subforum here: https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?board=97.0
If you move your thread there, you will probably get help from those involved with Armory.
The bitcoin is not in "limbo", that is not how Bitcoin works. Every coin is stored in the block chain, your private keys in your wallet allow you to access your coins on the block chain. The most important thing is to save those private keys (in other words, don't start deleting wallet files).
As some others have said, once you let BitcoinQt finish downloading the block chain, you can sync Armory, and then you will be able to see and access your bitcoins.
There are also other methods of pulling the private keys out of your wallet should you be in a hurry to access your coins, but these are more advanced user tasks and you should make sure you know exactly what you are doing before attempting them.
cp1 gave a good sequence of steps to view your Armory balances (and ultimately access the coins).