Topic: Women and deman. (Read 121 times)

I have a complete respect for a women , and i also understand  some of them are really a Gold Digger and some are an asshole that love spending men's hard earned money but we must understand that we are the one who should let them what to do and for me women should earn as well so the family balance will be there , they will spend their money and we will spend ours .
Women are tend to be protective with their own money .and so we should .

Let's not blame women for our own stupidity , you work for that money then why let them spend this?
and also really? you need to use SIGNATURE CAMPAIGN payments? what does this can do to your women? is this the only
way you are earning?why not tell us about your Monthly Job payment that they are spending? 

If you let women spend your money(for their own luxury and expenses) then you are spoiling them
because I let my wife spend my wages but because I knew that she was handling the money in rightful manner and that
is for the family , she cannot even buy for her own dresses( in which i am providing for her to show my appreciation to
what she is doing for the family).

Our Money , Our decision but this is if you do not trust your women , but for husband like us that
found a good and responsible women? we have no problem about that.

Your advice is a good one for a new start. I agree with all but partly with one, that is no. 1. In that a constantly demanding wife/girlfriend that care less about how her man makes the money tend to get lost in pride when sher starts making her own money to the point most men loss them when ever they think of starting a business for them.
Instead I would say "save money and start a business make your wife/girlfriend a worker or the manager of the business depending on the kind of lady you think you are with  than be the over seer of the business"

It comes down to the individual,  it's good to spend on a woman, maybe a lady that you love but not extravagantly to the extent of going bankruptcy, women will always demand, it's there nature, it's now left for you to cut your coat according to your size,  go for a woman who will help you build something, not a woman who will help you lavish the one you have saved, and another you should be able to tell your woman what you can afford and what you can't afford, everybody deserves a good life and expensive things but that doesn't mean you will spend all Ur savings on one,
To further avoid situations like this , get your woman something doing, maybe a job or set up a trade for her, so she can cover some expenses for her self and not depend on you for everything.

I do not understand how gender plays a part in whatever you are discussing here in your post

I do believe that family matters do have an impact on financial decisions but generalizing women and their relationship with money is not a good thing there are women working even married it is already 2024 and basically saying that your wives’ extreme demands are the reason for your poor financial decisions is very outdated i do not think you should be talking about wives and money when in the same post you mentioned about womanizing

OP so far as I know, women are mere helpers to man and shouldn't take full responsibility of the home just like the man even the sole reason why God created woman was to stand as a helper to man so it is a man's duty to take care and provide for them and not expecting them to share equal responsibility with you, even if they're too demanding it's in their nature as all you need is to apply wisdom while dealing with them.

Even if you start up a business for your wife in other for her not to be too dependent on you it still doesn't work that way as most women are always interested in their husband's money especially when it involves a man that is up and doing (a man that has an income). Women doesn't really get enough of what they want though not only women as human wants are insatiable so just as we keep wanting to make more money, that's how women are too no matter the amount they have they don't joke with their husband's money so it is our duty to provide for them regardless if they are too demanding or not.

Starting up a business or a startup isn't easy as what we're just telling that someone should do it. Not everyone's wife will agree to that idea and not everyone is a risk taker.

That's the important feature of a person when he/she should start a startup. The capacity to accept and adopt risk and also the passion that they have into starting it as a business.

I agree with most OP said but it is that not everyone can do all of those but they can start to learn each of it one at a time.

What's wrong with the title buddy, please change it to appropriate for the context you are talking about in the first post.

First of all, start saving for yourself then you may find someone to get married and this is the modern era both men and women are working and bringing revenue to the family so don't try to take all the control of finances which will do bad for your marriage.

Exactly! Anyone can be irresponsible with their finances not just women. lets not be so stereotypical It's on us to handle our money wisely. External stuff might play a part, but in the end, we're the ones calling the shots.

Woman should not be in the title mate because it is our money that we let spend for them so it is not their problem but ours right?
and also your advises is better for everyone  like how to keep our money safer and intact but also we should not blame to others why we are mistaking in life , it is ours to decide and work for it.

Some Women are always demanding to the extent that if you don't control your mode of expenses, you might get bankrupt. Most of us here who received payment from signature campaign and other financial source, faces one challenges or the other. Some might be from gambling expenses, drinking, smoking, womanizing and clubing. while some are  excecive demand from their wife. and some other factors which have made them to always take a loan before payment, or leaving a life of borow and pay and that usually lead to dippression and always thinking of quiting because it seam you are working hard and eating like ant.

This new year we talk about new year resolution and that can only work according to how you program yourself.

1. Save money and start up a business for your wife: if you are married. Women are one factor that makes a man not to achieve there Bitcoin journey. While I say this is because you as a bread winner of the house should first of all settle her sothat she would be self dependent and gives you the space or privilege to do some certing things which you have plan to come into accomplishments. If you chose not to start up something for them, they will have no choice Dan to put all there demand on you and definitely you will earn and spend and keep on the same circle every year and when the money has finished you will Start taking loan.

2. Develop the habit of saving. Not every time we need to spend money. Sometimes you let go off some things and it will be fine without your money. Thou women might demand alot but you can lock up and pretend you didn't hear just to save .

3. Control your addiction: because addiction is one thing that controls us. to get addicted is easy but to quit is difficult but when you practice it gradual it will definitely leave you because it's really a gradual process and not a by force.

4. Spend more money on bitcoin investment: inflation is bringing down Fiat currency but having it in bitcoin gives you hope of not being affected by inflation.

I have decided to adjust my expenses this year what about you?

You can add things you know can make people to meet of there crypto journey.