Topic: You misuses your opportunity when you are not afraid of your downfall. (Read 129 times)

It's also intriguing to explore the two men's differing points of view throughout the narrative. One appeared to be dejected, but the other appeared to be cheerful and optimistic. This emphasizes the necessity of having a good attitude in the face of financial difficulties. It's critical to realize that setbacks are a natural part of life and that you can overcome them and move on. It's also worth mentioning that the two guys appeared to have different ways to coping with financial problems. The person who was more pessimistic talked about gambling and fast solutions, whereas the one who was more optimistic talked about finding a means to establish a better financial future. This demonstrates how various approaches can have a very different outcomes.

I know exactly what that guy is experiencing right now, I know how it feels to have great achievements and after a while you just fall drastically as though the world turned its back against you. Trust me advise alone at that moment can't stop that feeling, they just have to give him sometime to blow off some steam, if he is sees that there is more to life than quitting over some challenge, he'll definitely get his shit together and try again. Some time the experience we encounter are the we are what we are today, your entire life is dependent on the choices you make.

My principle about life is to work hard and try in all conditions that I find myself to be stronger in my affairs, in my struggle, in my decision-making, and when you fail you should try as much as possible to fail forward. Having this singular mindset has helped me to manage all the downfalls that are attached to failure in life. Failing in life is constant just as it is for you to be successful. No matter how poor you are, no matter how dull you are in deliverables and accomplishments, you will  have some recorded successes. And no matter how efficient you are and result-driven you are, you equally record failures.

 Having to understand this basic aspect of life makes one to be more optimistic whenever you fail and to move out of your comfort zone because you know that all the battles, the roadblocks, the bottlenecks that you have ahead of you, you are likely to fail in the process. And when you fail, the best way to go about it is to fail forward, thereby ensuring that you leverage on whatever it takes, ensuring that you leverage all the opportunities you have to counteract the failure that you'll be encountering in your end of force.

So, the young man needs to expand his horizon and firstly accept failures, then to also look at how they can fail forward so that they can learn from their mistakes and be stronger in decision-making. Staying in one's comfort zone will only allow you to be bane and the only way you can counteract that poor mindset is by moving out of the comfort zone and that would be the antidote for the problem.

Just like Bitcoin price, nobody fit to accurately predict di future, you go give in your best, sometimes things go work out how you plan am, oda times e no go work out, so make we no mock who no make am, maybe dem try but e no work out for them. Di most important thing be say make we no give up because tough times don't last but tough people do, so if you try and e no work, na to go back for drawing board and start to plan again, because failure no suppose be option for person wey wan make am for life. We need to de sorounds ourselves with positive minded people wey go encourage us not to give up, no be people wey de give up after dem fail, everything wey we de enjoy today, di developers fail many times before dem get am right, don't give up.

When you are afraid to miss your opportunity, I don't think you will joke with any opportunity that will come your way and if you look at that story of those guys, you will see that one has concluded with his destiny for not afraid to loose any opportunity may come his way and he is not ready to make an impact that will make others people to be proud of him in the future.

 I came to discovered that those that their parents are wealthy, don't use to be afraid of miss opportunity because they know that if anything happen they can fall back to their parents properties and start using them to live their life, but those that came out from a poor family will stand strong to achieve every opportunity that will come their way.

The most important thing in life is opportunity,when u have it grab it ,in life never allow bad event and bad attitude take it away, because opportunity comes but once ,hold it very jealously like egg , because the must painful thing is death inside poverty,one need to be very scared of poverty, because it doesn't have care ,if nice and good opportunities have been misused ,I can never play with my opportunity, because I know where am coming from to whom it may concern never in any means missuse opportunity.

What you narrated was just a typical example of small mindedness and a person who hasn't been able to face the harsh realities of life. That's all there is to it. This person is on his way to making  bad decisions  and having a wrecked life.

If you're  contented with where you are, there's no wah for you to improve or develop.
Comfort zones are the  bane of development  and progress.
That guy is going to get hurt.

The story you just narrated is just the result of and comment of those that didn't make it in life. Those who have money they don't know or think much about village activities because they have all what it takes to leave a standard life but when things don't work out the way it ought to be, people start complaining and chanellellingbthe blame to any thing around them and seeing things in opposit direction. That is when you begin to hear this kind of words like " ogogoro is better than bear" Because ogogoro is cheaper. " No place like home" after many years of paying rent without meeting up in the city that is when you hear that kind of word. Another one Is " the city is for the already made not for people like me"

Sometimes the way we see this life it is not really how it is, many persons has misuse opportunity but at the end of the day they still get other opportunity am not saying that misusing opportunity is good but the point am trying to make is that what favour MR A may not Favor MR B, so in a nutshell opportunity should not be misused because we don't know the category we fall into, experience the day is a teacher but to me I don't believe that quote, I see experience as a bad teacher because you don't allow something to happen before you learn that why they word precautionary measure exist, talking about downfall is only a man without future that's is not afraid of downfall.

If you are someone who has plan for the future, you must be afraid of setback which is downfall itself, a man sometimes fall to stand back gallantly but it is better for you not to allow yourself to fall because in some cases you may not stand again and such is life.

every poor man you see on the street once believed he could make it to the top and become a wealthy and fulfilled person but the reality is that not all dreams end up coming true. Most of my even had mad plans and worked too hard towards them but end up not achieving half of what they've worked all their life for and at some point in time some of decide would normally give up on their dreams and retire back to the village to continue with the company of individual who only have stories on how they could have made it big if not for a sudden setback that strucked them on thier journey to greatness.

Life is very unpredictable and the future is always not guaranteed but the best thing is to remain fucosed and keep doing the right thing and investing into real asset during your youthful and productive seasons. Most of those guys that end up in the village once thing goes a bit bad are the once that refused investing into things when they were at their peak financially, some spent it all on frivolous things without creating a single alternative means of income during while they were still cashing out big time.

As long as life continues, the society would still be made up of the rich and the poor and what we do while we are at our prime determine the category we will end up falling into.

How people makes mockery and responsible for their downfalls.
I was in a bar during the weekend and two guys were sited closer to me while they discusses.
I heard one saying "I told you this thing earlier but you wouldn't listen" while the other guy responded that "leave that thing", "I am not the first in this situation neither would I be the last". "If the situation becomes unbearable I will leave the city and go to the village after all my papa's house is still there at least I will not pay rent and besides... "There are lot of people living in that village that I am not bigger than". "There is nothing new on earth and we can't change the unchanged". so he also said, "Infact, bet9ja and naira bets are sustaining people there in the village, so I don't see anything there as a big deal to handle".

The other guy replied "is this just how low your mentality is guy"? After all these while with all that golden dreams we were both architecting together so this is just how you want to end up?

At that moment I walked out from the bar because I literarily doesn't share my times with what doesn't has to do with me directly but while I got home, the scene kept flashing to my memory so worriedly and I began meditating on what could had transferred such conversation between them.
Without having an authenticated ideal, I just feel it is one of the funds misusages which one of them has run a bankrupt.
My instincts began to whisper me which I was imagining the state of an anticlockwise instead of the clockwise direction towards my financial portfolios.

How would it feel of going backwards instead of going forwards just after reaching a prosperous great height.

Such could actually insight suicidal thoughts and low personalities if the situation becomes unbearable.