Topic: Can divorced couple reunite?? - please share experience - page 2. (Read 655 times)

Marriage isn't as easy as people take it to be. It's a union between two different people with different characters coming together. For a marriage to last forever, both couple must learn to tolerate each other. There is no way issue won't happen but the ability to settle it easily make the marriage stay long. Love nowadays lack tolerance and endurance and these are reason we see alot of broken home this days. Nothing bad if a divorced couple reunite, so far they have learnt from their early mistakes and have decided to always try to tolerance each other.

This is just simple truth about divorce as you spoken 99% of my mind. I see  Divorce just as just a simple mistake, its error was  not corrected at the point of occurance. Person  who make mistake of divorce can't still correct it's error by reuniting as long they are both alive and have come to agree where they disagree.

It's possible for divorced couples to reunite and probably remarry, although I've not witnessed it personally, but I know that it can happen, maybe in the case where they've tried other relationships and come to understand that they're more compatible and getting divorced was a mistake. I believe the reason why it's not popular for divorced couples to reunite even when they realized that it was a mistake to divorce in the first place is due to pride, what will people say when they see them together again after publicly going their separate ways. So I believe that even when they realize that they shouldn't have divorced they'll still want to move on, in the hope of finding someone else that'll fill the vacuum that the divorced partner has created.

The answer is yes, divorced couple can still reunite depending on reason why they divorced, my uncle divorced his wife because of her bad behavior towards his family and himself but now they have reunite and come together because of their children.
No matter what happens between two couples if they want to reunite they can and no body will say anything about it

First, Is not forbidden.

Marriage is based on Understandings, Tolerance, Care and also Adaptation.
If you can't adapt to situations it weakens the marriage and lead it straight to divorce,
If you can't tolerate your partner,it also leads same way. Same goes to Understanding. They all work together, if 1 is lacking and not fixed,it will surely end in divorce in time.

For a couple to reunite,they should be ready and agree to put all these in check, else is nearly impossible.

So, for me... A single point to take into consideration is whether the relationship was at first healthy and respectful. If there has been violence, unfaithfulness, or other severe difficulties, trying to bring back the relationship is probably not an excellent idea. On the other hand, if the relationship was generally sound and the split was caused by outside influences, it may be worthwhile to give it another shot. However, it is important to assess whether reuniting as a couple would be acceptable to any new relationships. So maybe it's appropriate to reconcile with an ex is entirely dependent on the situation and the individuals involved.

Regarding divorce, my culture or tribal customary rules regulate that it is legal for a divorced couple to reconcile. In my traditional tribe, divorce can be called talak, which is regulated in my traditional tribe. If a couple wants to divorce by applying for a 1/2 divorce at a later date, they can still reconcile and unite again, but if the third divorce has occurred, in the traditional tribe I can't be together again, why does one partner file for triple divorce because there are elements in it such as hatred, very vengeance or really don't want to be together again in the future. It may seem strange but that is our traditional tribal culture. but I have also heard news that couples who have been divorced with triple talaq status are reconciled and have to go through methods that are very complicated in my opinion. for example, if a couple has divorced with the status of 3rd talaq and wants to reconcile for various reasons, then each husband and wife are required to remarry another person first within the specified time limit, then if they are already married. with other people, the time limit has been set, it could be 2 months/3 months, then they file for divorce again with that person. and in the end the husband and wife were able to reconcile even though they were divorced with triple talaq status. It may seem strange but this is true. In my opinion, marriage is only done once in a lifetime. God, I really hate divorce, but if the marriage is tainted by infidelity/deviation then there is no longer any tolerance. The conclusion is that if the husband and wife relationship can still be repaired, repair it. But if it can't be repaired, the only way is separation. My input for every married couple, if there is a problem in the relationship, solve it with a cool head and don't occasionally make decisions when we are controlled by emotions...

Divorce decisions are not permanent.  Couples who are divorce can always come together if they decide to come together.  People getting divorced doesn't mean they can't fall in love again to come together to live as husband and wife. I have seen some couples who got divorced but after some year they got united again.

As a patriotic citizens, we should be after the unity of others and contribute the best in our capacity to see that things work out for those around us from the little way we could renders help to them in seeing that our influence is felt in their relationship or marriage in a positive way, it is very bad in seeing that some of us are the reason behind some marriage break up, and all couple's should learn to have each other in mind and love continually to keep the marriage alive.

Most of the divorced marriages I have seen never come together again. Many of them are separate from each others and the children have no option than to start there own life without the guidance of the union of the both parents. A divorce is never an option and we should never think of it e en when we are having problems in our family which might have been triggered by misunderstanding most time. Most relationships that and went asunder was as a result of cheating partners which is the sole reason of crumbled relationships.
 

I've seen a few case of couple patching up after a divorce, more so if they have kids. But that percentage is very low. Some don't go back just because of the humiliation.

It is possible to reconcile with a divorced partner, if you don't realize the nature, accept each other, be open, of course there is use. Indeed, everyone has the same desire to be understood and loved, but there are conditions in which complement each other so that the debate does not spread to everything that has been passed together and pry.

In my religion during the 40 days of divorce it can be remarried to the same person or to another person, but the problem is in the selfishness of each of them to reveal and invite back, maybe you can say shame / prestige.

Marriage is to go through the routine of the house together, without humiliating and ridiculing each other because both of them definitely want to be considered as life partners not burdensome on someone alone. conversations are always there and of course if it is based on this, there will be give and take, there are questions and answers and some of them.

When you no longer have it, you will feel and see the positive side of good behavior is natural, separation is sometimes due to miscommunication that is too eager to be right. If it can be fixed, many people who experience this and can maintain the marriage even if it has to be twice

Of course, they can get back and live their life just like nothing has happened to them. I can give you a guarantee that such things are happening throughout the world right now and just because some partners get separated after marriage, they cannot be together again, no not like that because they can fall in love again just like last time and this time there won't be any misunderstanding because throughout their separations they have learned the truth about their partners. They will just simply consider it to be some kind of thing they need to forget and if they are in love with each other again, then they can reunite back and once again live a happy married life.

It happens but my opinion is better not to reunite with the one you broke up for the better of both of their future because they split due to the disagreement with their opinion then after a year or two one person wants the other back may not really be they want to be with them, it must be they can't find anyone else so they are trying to hookup with the one.

Marrying your ex-wife is not forbidden in any country/ religion, but you have to follow some rules before remarrying your ex-wife/ husband. In my religion, a divorced woman must get married to another person and the person willfully divorce her. Only then, she can remarry her ex-husband. In my country, there is a board specifically assigned for such cases. You have to get a written Fatwa (clarification) from an Islamic Scholar before the marriage.  This is the only solution. I have limited knowledge about other religions or countries. 

Yes, there's always a room for rehabilitation and reunion if two couples have issues and had separated for long, if they both can realized their mistakes and let go the past, then its very possible for reignition of their love back to the way it was before, making a reunion rekindles the love between the parties and one of the most dangerous courses to separation is the admission of a third party into a relationship, then tolerance.

Lol, it's a new fact to me. I know some religions have rules, like Christians have a rule that nobody can divorce.

When I open the news page, I see the story of marriage breakup. Reunion after divorce is very rare. However, there are different religious contexts on whether a divorced couple can reunite. I don't know about the rules of other religions, but as far as I know in Muslim society, a divorced couple is prohibited from reuniting. I'm not saying they can't reunite but there are rules - if a couple gets divorced. Then the divorced woman must be married elsewhere, then if the husband voluntarily divorces her or dies, then the previous husband can remarry her.

Personally, I don’t think so.

There is always a reason why couples break up it must be
a huge one if two people who had already promised and declared a lifetime to each other in front of the church, their family, friends, and even the government would want to take it all back.

They would have never broken up if things were working out in
the first place. Well, it’s better to get out of it instead of letting yourself live an unhappy life.

You don't step into the same river twice. Do you know this saying?

I know a few divorced couples and they usually don't even talk to each other. There's too much bad blood between them and they don't want to try to fix things bevause they had enough time to try it out and failed. They know each other well now and are aware that they're incompatible.

The only thing that often joins divorced couples are children.