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March 07, 2024, 03:25:10 PM
#88
I noticed that divorce is now a normal thing , people will get married today and in less than two months they are divorced already..I heard a story of how a man after seeing the wife's face without  make-up the following morning divorced his wife saying he was deceived that she is not as beautiful as he sees her before.
But our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?


At this point, the husband has all the necessary choices to divorce his wife if he wants to because he was clearly deceived and that is not a complicated reason to get a divorce. Unlike others who just divorce their wives out of boredom because they don't find any sweetness in them anymore they just simply divorce them which is somewhat find compared to the wives who are still sufferings and are chained to their irresponsible husbands. Sometimes divorce is not all bad because it can free the woman from the shackles of unwanted marriage.
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March 07, 2024, 11:39:00 AM
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When we follow up in building a relationship in the right and appropriate manner, then things are more possible in working out for us in marriage and we would have both been so used to each other right before the marriage, this is why it is also an important thing to go into courtship before marriage in a relation, this allows the two parties to get used to each other and have an interpersonal relationship in with each other in which they can both cope with after they got married
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March 07, 2024, 11:07:42 AM
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People in civilizations where trust is low and love is bought with money and material possessions are less likely to cooperate and more likely to engage in conflict. This may reduce the amount of love and trust in marriage and lead to divorce, especially if the couples are always busy and do not have time for each other. In today's society, men are more likely to look after beauty than character, and when they marry, they may regret and be unhappy, which will lead to divorce.
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February 14, 2024, 05:35:39 AM
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In social media recently there is being horrified by various cases of divorce from artists and others. Judging from the culprit, divorce itself is divided into two types. First, divorce divorce which means a husband's request to divorce his wife to the court to carry out the hearing as a witness to divorce. Second, is a divorce. Conditions where the divorce submitted by his wife or legitimate power at the court table. Pledge can be submitted to court by one perpetrator (wife or husband) by giving several reasons.
In divorce quarrels are the main causes. And the highest cause of divorce is then motivated by economic reasons. We don't know if in divorce who should be blamed. Maybe they also actually do not want if the household must be destroyed and ended in divorce. We cannot see from the next side and we have to see what causes those who have to be separated by the end. Those who are separated because divorce are also entitled to be happy for the sustainability of their lives.
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February 14, 2024, 05:03:54 AM
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Both are the problem to themselves,I don't see the need whereby you divorce after years of marriage.
What was the need of getting married at the first instance,I have seen a case where the woman just married the Man because of his money,later the Man goods was seized by Custom Service leading to the fall in the Man business then,the wife filed for Divorce you can imagine that.....that means some persons today get into marriage for material gains in order for them to escape poverty.
You even see celebrities divorcing,I think gone are the days marriage was sacred and fuel with love from both partners.
God should help our generation..
Love and trust should be built,and good marriage system preached in our society,not making divorce as the only remedy for marriage settlement.
And family avoid pressuring or forcing one to get married to someone they don't love either because of social status,power or some selfish Gain.
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February 01, 2024, 06:01:17 AM
#83
I noticed that divorce is now a normal thing , people will get married today and in less than two months they are divorced already..I heard a story of how a man after seeing the wife's face without  make-up the following morning divorced his wife saying he was deceived that she is not as beautiful as he sees her before.
But our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?


I will blame this man because before you marry there should all round scrutinization, you don't just marry like that, more especially for him that wants to marry because of beauty, he didn't act as a wise man earlier, he should have check his parcel when she was not wearing any makeup to know what she was made off.

The problem we have this day is individual wants, people desire for different things, they only care about themselves, sometimes I tag it immaturity because before you say that you are ready for marriage, you should no that it is a school that you can never graduate from, and you have to be ready for anything that may come, you prepare yourself yourself for means to solve those issues because if decide to quit you may meet the worst and regret your actions later.
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January 30, 2024, 03:04:37 AM
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In my country girls are mostly looking for a settled boy and for them age does not matter. No one is willing to struggle. Hence, if you go for a well-settled person, there might be no bonding between the individuals because the person she is marrying is already busy and might not give her the time she needs. Also, money is not everything in marriage. Once the money charm is over and people face the reality they divorce because of their different nature.
Similar problems exist in our country. Girls in our country also find settled boys for marriage, but if the boy is too old, they have no problem.The first goal of girls is whether the boy is established. But another attraction of our country is to find government job boys for girls. It is seen that girls are married at a very young age to older government employees. As a result it is seen that the man cannot give proper time to his wife due to busy work and as a result misunderstanding starts between them which leads to divorce of many families.

Due to another problem in our country or our society, the amount of divorce is increasing day by day and that is the dowry system. In many families, girls agree to pay dowry for marriage, but if they are unable to pay the dowry arrears properly after marriage, divorce ensues.
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January 30, 2024, 12:40:48 AM
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I noticed that divorce is now a normal thing , people will get married today and in less than two months they are divorced already..I heard a story of how a man after seeing the wife's face without  make-up the following morning divorced his wife saying he was deceived that she is not as beautiful as he sees her before.
But our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?
The trend of divorce is increasing day by day in our society and many families are getting wounded due to this divorce. Most of the reasons for divorce in our society are created by husband and wife without their own knowledge. One of the reasons for divorce in our society today is the lack of mutual respect and values of both the husband and wife for each other due to which divorces are constantly happening in our society. In the country where I live, divorce rates are higher in urban areas than in rural areas
Yes, the incidence of divorce in society has increased over the past few years. I am a citizen of Bangladesh, divorce is increasing in our country too. I was in charge of a region in the census survey activity conducted by the government in 2022, which provided information about every person in the country. Divorce rates have doubled over the past year in that survey. I have been able to observe many changes in the society by participating in the survey work. I have noticed that not only the urban areas, but also rural women are becoming part of a major economic role in the country. Female education rate is increasing a lot. Women are not hiding their faces as before, they are protesting a lot now, women have highlighted their position. Differences in mutual understanding are creating, resulting in increasing divorce rates. Whereas women send divorce letters more than men.

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January 29, 2024, 02:00:04 PM
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The rate of divorce in my society is increasing with every passing day. The plausible reason for this spike in divorce is higher expectations in marriage. In my country girls are mostly looking for a settled boy and for them age does not matter. No one is willing to struggle. Hence, if you go for a well-settled person, there might be no bonding between the individuals because the person she is marrying is already busy and might not give her the time she needs. Also, money is not everything in marriage. Once the money charm is over and people face the reality they divorce because of their different nature.
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January 29, 2024, 03:23:14 AM
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I noticed that divorce is now a normal thing , people will get married today and in less than two months they are divorced already..I heard a story of how a man after seeing the wife's face without  make-up the following morning divorced his wife saying he was deceived that she is not as beautiful as he sees her before.
But our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?
The trend of divorce is increasing day by day in our society and many families are getting wounded due to this divorce. Most of the reasons for divorce in our society are created by husband and wife without their own knowledge. One of the reasons for divorce in our society today is the lack of mutual respect and values of both the husband and wife for each other due to which divorces are constantly happening in our society. In the country where I live, divorce rates are higher in urban areas than in rural areas
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January 28, 2024, 02:33:12 PM
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Our ancestors didn't have many choices, before there was no internet, pornography, TV and other access that made them have varying standards of beauty. So the standard of beauty according to our ancestors was based on the area they lived in. compare it to today, with access at your fingertips. We have very broad fantasies and beauty standards, so nowadays it is very difficult to commit to marriage and respect the partner we choose in marriage, only strong people can. but yes, it depends on the person too. in my country the divorce rate is very low.
Also, our ancestors didn't have the alternative to divorce, with rare exceptions, because it was against the morals and laws during the ancient times. To be a divorced individual in past times was a curse, especially for women, who totally lost their values inside the society, so they prefered to remain married, even if unhappy, as after measuring the pros and cons, they reached to the conclusion it was more benefical to them to stay together, at least formally, in front of the society.

Nowadays the society doesn't see divorced individuals in a negative way anymore, so people don't feel socially prejudiced when deciding to abandon their partners. There isn't a punishment by doing so anymore. It's quite the opposite, they see this as a new opportunity to find someone new and better than the previous one. That is what we call "liquid love". They don't last for long, they aren't solid, they are volatile and in other cases highly artificial.

People just use each other and once they get bored, they go to the next one. It's the individuality trait of the "self" exercising full control over the individual, and demanding to be served by the world outside incessantly, without giving anything back in counterpart.
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January 28, 2024, 02:11:50 PM
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Our ancestors didn't have many choices, before there was no internet, pornography, TV and other access that made them have varying standards of beauty. So the standard of beauty according to our ancestors was based on the area they lived in. compare it to today, with access at your fingertips. We have very broad fantasies and beauty standards, so nowadays it is very difficult to commit to marriage and respect the partner we choose in marriage, only strong people can. but yes, it depends on the person too. in my country the divorce rate is very low.
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January 27, 2024, 07:43:15 PM
#76
I think the man is insane. Sorry if that’s extreme but how is it possible that you courted someone for at least months and you never got to see their supposed real face? No video calls? No visitations? For this to happen, it means that he didn’t court her long enough to know even basic things about her(her face), and now the next day, he wants to run away from it. I hope he tells his next wife that he got married for a night only and failed to hold his end of the bargain. 
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January 27, 2024, 04:35:55 PM
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Let's start to begin to take up the challenge in making relationship and marriage work out for those in it, we can do all out best in creating an atmosphere for learning on how to live together as partners forgetting about our individual difference and embrace tolerance, this can be organized through seminars, the aim is to help married people enjoy their marriages despite the challenges involved.
You can only take up the challenge to make your own relationship successful without problem of ever divorcing. Many relationships are facing problem if cheating that's why we are seeing frequent divorcee because of problem of compatibility. Before we get into marriage, it is good we first study our partner and see if we can endure the differences and that would never make us complain in the future when marriage is involved. Misunderstanding is keep set mist marriage on fire.
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January 27, 2024, 01:10:26 PM
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Nothing works as planned in this life. People nowadays tend to get bored easily and they just don't try to fix things rather ending up divorced. It's almost like there's a Divorce Olympics going on, with events like the "Argument Gymnastics," "Emotional Relay Races," and let's not forget the "Marathon of Misunderstandings." And the trophy? Well, it's a piece of paper that says, "Congratulations, you've successfully uncoupled!"
There are too many divorces in this recent time and the problem lies in fake love. Now many people fell in love not because they love you but because they really cares about money. People care about money than love and after they get married, either the male or female might determine that they are not interested in the relationship and ready to break up. Some women are always ready to break up with there husband just to cliam propertiee belonging to the man.

The main problem is that from here, the problem is created that there is no peace in the house, people are running after money nowadays so much that all the relationships are broken, the importance of money are more and relationships are going to end now, no one has any interest in them anymore, all the relationships are breaking, the main reason is money.  If you put aside what you have and take care of your relationships first, then all the relationships that you have will be established in their place and the system of divorce that exists in the society will also be reduced and you can live a normal life.
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January 27, 2024, 12:15:32 PM
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The problem here is both.  Today's women hide their real existence.  They are not satisfied with their appearance.  To hide one's real beauty and show another form is a kind of deception. And men are becoming worshipers of forms.  It is a disease.  No one here is happy with their real life.  Everyone is busy with their fantasy world.  So many other downfalls in the relationship for this
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January 23, 2024, 11:37:29 PM
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I noticed that divorce is now a normal thing , people will get married today and in less than two months they are divorced already..I heard a story of how a man after seeing the wife's face without  make-up the following morning divorced his wife saying he was deceived that she is not as beautiful as he sees her before.
But our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?


Point of correction, divorce isn't a normal thing as couples now a days doesn't actually understands what marriage is all about before they enter into marriage and what's causing this high rate of divorce cases is 1: entering into marriage with little or no knowledge of the commitment that's involved in marriage, 2: marrying because of physical qualities, 3: seeing marriage as one sided that is as a man's duty to make the marriage work, and lastly not being resourceful and productive.

Many a people, enter into marriage this days simply because their mates are getting married (peer pressure) or because they think they are of age to get married without thinking about the fundamentals of marriage, like those things that actually matters as marriage ought to be a lifetime commitment between the man and the woman to live together as husband and wife regardless of challenges and obstacles they may encounter.

The high rate of divorce this days is really a thing of concern and I think there should be a sensitization programs for couples in other to emphasize the needs why divorce shouldn't be an option to resolve marital issues as there are ways to resolve matters among husbands and wives without necessarily seeking for divorce because if this divorce cases continue to increase them am afraid people will begin to show little or no interest towards marriage because they will be afraid of the aftermath of their marriage therefore in other to prevent a divorce from happening after marriage, it had better be no marriage in the first place
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January 23, 2024, 06:01:26 PM
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I noticed that divorce is now a normal thing , people will get married today and in less than two months they are divorced already..I heard a story of how a man after seeing the wife's face without  make-up the following morning divorced his wife saying he was deceived that she is not as beautiful as he sees her before.
But our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?


Its the society. Now in this world, we have social media and in the first glance it seems as if we can get a life partner very easily and that allows us to move away from our old relation. Tiktok, insta, social media, shows us so much glamour that we don't get much interest in our partner as they can't be perfect, no one can. They don't have 6 pack, or jawline, ferrari and other stuff and that makes us loose the interest in them, believing that we can find someone better easily but there we are so wrong.
People should understand why they are getting into marriage because if this is not defined, it usually lead to confusiona that do make marriages to break due to so many reasons. The love for fashion and exploration had made men and women to think that if they are stressed in there marriages, they have the option to lead and go and find a better home somewhere.
Most celebrities we are seeing divorcing thinks there partners are not good enough and they can get someone better which is very wrong.
As mentioned many things with mostly this happening due to lack of communications which is most important for the marriage and in case we lost this no one can stop with I check few things around us this generation is having problem with doing decisions very quickly and not thinking about the consequences as well which are going to ruin their life after doing wrong decision as many cases around me already but now no way of going back to normal which is also killing.
We can avoid this all, but we need to be had some patience and better understanding which need some time so just keep cool and try to give time every thing with all can be sorted out without any tragic decision even now divorce ratio is coming down but still need some good work to do about this all.
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January 23, 2024, 05:45:16 PM
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I noticed that divorce is now a normal thing , people will get married today and in less than two months they are divorced already..I heard a story of how a man after seeing the wife's face without  make-up the following morning divorced his wife saying he was deceived that she is not as beautiful as he sees her before.
But our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?

Both are at fault. In this our generation of people with erratic character, People marry one another for the wrong reasons:
#1. They marry out of pity. After months or years of marriage, they find themselves fed up and find it hard to give their partners the love they deserve.
#2.  Some women these days marry men because of money, men they do not love, sometimes men old enough to be their fathers. And in the course of marriage these women indulge in infidelity, and when they are fed up pretending, they go for their pay day. They file for a divorce and acquire 50% of the man's property.
#3. People marry without knowing the true meaning of love and sacrifice.
#4. People marry without getting to know their partners really well.
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January 20, 2024, 04:05:30 PM
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I noticed that divorce is now a normal thing , people will get married today and in less than two months they are divorced already..I heard a story of how a man after seeing the wife's face without  make-up the following morning divorced his wife saying he was deceived that she is not as beautiful as he sees her before.
But our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?


Its the society. Now in this world, we have social media and in the first glance it seems as if we can get a life partner very easily and that allows us to move away from our old relation. Tiktok, insta, social media, shows us so much glamour that we don't get much interest in our partner as they can't be perfect, no one can. They don't have 6 pack, or jawline, ferrari and other stuff and that makes us loose the interest in them, believing that we can find someone better easily but there we are so wrong.
People should understand why they are getting into marriage because if this is not defined, it usually lead to confusiona that do make marriages to break due to so many reasons. The love for fashion and exploration had made men and women to think that if they are stressed in there marriages, they have the option to lead and go and find a better home somewhere.
Most celebrities we are seeing divorcing thinks there partners are not good enough and they can get someone better which is very wrong.
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