Topic: All my social media friends don't want to reply me lately, dafuq is going on rn? - page 2. (Read 491 times)

it’s a common thing for internet friends to not reply to you
since they know that they won’t see you in real life
thus there’s really no repercussions if they ignore you

there might be a lot of reasons for why they are not replying to you though:
1. they might be busy
2. they can no longer access the account/it was hacked
3. or maybe they just don’t want to reply it happens

There's a saying in my home town that "when a rich man is sick, a poor man (a friend to the rich man) always calls and goes to visit and check up on the rich man, asking him how he is faring, but when the poor man is sick, the rich man may not notice because he is too busy and knows that the poor man (his friend) is not very important and helpful to him in any way."

This simply means that if you add value to your life and develop yourself to become important to people around you, they will definitely have your attention any time you seek it because they know you are important, but if they see that you are not helpful to them in any way, that's only when they can ignore you. I remember when I was in school, there were a few of my relatives, and I only asked them for money all the time. It got to the point where they all ignored my message because they knew that any time I reached out to them, I was asking for some money. Note: I am only giving an instance. In conclusion, if all your social friends are ignoring you, then something is wrong, and you should try to fix that thing.

Things like that happen on social media with lots of spam messages that look like they are from some evil bots, AI, strangers, or from people who want to take advantage of others. People also could ignore or find you suspicious if you are a crypto person due to the much scams that take place via cryptocurrencies, or the attribution of cryptocurrency to scams . Part of the solution to this is try to be different or try not to send messages that feel like such spams. Send the kind of messages that friends or family members would send to people they have strong relationship with... more like messages that show you know the receivers really well or have intimate relationships with them.. If this does not work, then it could be that they are avoiding you because you are nolonger like them or you exist in different reality they find threatening or strange. It's more like what politicians or popular people do to people they hate. They cancel them. The main reason they do this is to prevent those they cancel from influencing them or exposing things they share with "families" or people in their groups. Other reasons is to isolate you and hope you die or suffer alone from the isolation since they perceive you as enemy doing things that go against their interest. Well, that is how things work in their world. It's either you're fully part of them as slave or they oppress/torment you till you join them or die.
This is what they do to many people or countries that refuse to be fully part of the system they control.  You are either fully part of them or part of the opposite system they can't defeat. And they can get you wherever you are, through family members, friends, relatives or people who typically feed on thesame/similar information they feed on.

Please don't ignore me I'm very serious about it, I got manipulated and I'm being target by bad actor, I know it is hard to believe but someone must believe me I have no one to look for me when I'm in troubles I'm all alone, I'm unable to survive on my own, I need help, I need your help, please don't ignore me, I know you can't believe me no matter how hard I try, I had build up too much bad karma, no one would believe a person like me, but please under current extreme conditions, I need everybody else help, admin please don't ignore me, please bitcointalk admin, I beg you I'm about to be destroyed, I need you to know I'm on unable to move all on my own, I would upload photo as proof, now I'm typing on my phone but mg leg is failing me, it is frightening, I had no one to help me, I had to stand up on my own with my failing leg, I don't have much strength left on my leg before the complete failure, you need to listen to me admin please, I upload photo as proof, it is my leg it is failing, I need to keep walking on the failing leg, I had to look for me...

for most social media friends, you should not expect them to even care for you. basically, they are just for a show in your long list of so-called friends or connections.
try getting out of these platforms, and see if anybody will remember you even your birthday. i guess, no one will bother to greet you as most of them are just relying on what you post to these channels. they don't really know you as a person.

I don't know what social media you are referring to, because at this time the virtual world has many kinds of social media. and I also have accounts on various kinds of social media. which are indeed some social media that are crowded and some social media that are quiet. For example; in the last few years I was very active in using social media, namely Facebook, where I often greeted friends there and often chatted, discussed by commenting and exchanging messages. However, because conditions have begun to change where many young people have switched to other social media such as Instagram, TikTok, Twitter and so on. It made me also take the same step, so that I could continue to chat with them through social media. because if I continue to stay on social media in the form of Facebook, then I will never be able to chat with my friends who are on social media. And at this time, social media in the form of Facebook, most of those who fill it are parents who are new to social media. which is where their chat is not suitable for me.

I don't know the meaning of the social media friends. Whether you became friends with them through social media or they're your friends whom used to communicate through social media. If they're friends found through social media, then there is nothing to feel down. It is all because they've got someone else on the social media to communicate. If they're your friends who communite through social media then you might've done something wrong and the entire friends could've discussed on it. Everything is just an assumption, right way is to meet a person and try to know the real reason.

A few years ago meant more than a year, and I think what happened is normal because some people definitely experience and friends will experience changes when they haven't seen each other for more than a year. And this includes being indifferent if you only say hello or ask ordinary questions, because there are no important questions.
And they are just friends, not best friends. If they are your best friend, maybe they will reply or answer your messages even though they are busy.
Don't be sad just because of things like that, you have to keep thinking positively even if there is disappointment because thinking positively will make you fine. And there are times when we have to change, including what you are experiencing, even though you can't accept it because it makes you confused, you have to accept it. And that's okay because that's life, sometimes there are things we don't realize and vice versa. And we have friends or companions not only in the real world, but also in cyberspace or on social media who don't need to make us feel annoyed.

It is truly they all advice me wholeheartenedly to do something with life, for years, they keep trying to tell me the same advices, it was the time we could have any topic to talk about, but there is nothing can be done for loser like me, I even hate myself for being so bad ass, I can also tell my attraction level probably drop to the ground, nobody would attract to me anymore, they don't even want to talk to me or help to lift me up again. Honestly I don't have the plan to be in crypto for far too long, I was gonna dump soon and begin to rebuilld my life from scratch, I have enough of how rotten I'm right now in their eyes, I feel disgusted of myself.

tbh, I had commited greatest sin could possibly be, I personally took down the entire stock market forum, I thought it was fun but I didn't really think much about the consequence, I was real asshole and go around telling them they are all gonna get rugged just like the wsb, tbh now I feel full of remorse, I didn't know it was fun and better when we are having stock market, although we make all the bad and losing trades but it was fun despite we all loss a lot of monies, idk I think I am very wrong to destroy them completely.

No doubt I had been quite asshole lately to them, I was emotional, and I know I'm trying to play a game with them, we are just having fun, but the fun is over when the entire stock market crash and burn, I was the one of the many who bring the entire stock forum, it is very bad I even feel guilty about it, Idk I think I'm too unforgivable now, what a big sinner I'm for rattle them the entire world for fun.

People lose interest in a person over time and you are talking about social media friends so I assume highly that my assumption is the reason. But it doesn't to be a cause for concern according to me, if they don't give attention to me then I would say f**k them and move on with my life because I got my life to lead and I am not gonna waste even seconds for someone who doesn't care about me.

You will get used to it and to get rid of it just make new friends over the same social media and avoid connecting with them emotionally.

Fine, I get it now, I'm too selfish, too calculative, don't get me wrong, I would be generous very soon, it is just I'm being forced to switch mode constantly, what do you think should I begin to be generous to them from now on, obviously I was too harsh on them after they poke me real hard for fun, please let me discuss this I beg you, don't ignore me please!

It is quite unbelievable that no one on your social media friend list would want to chat or associate with you.  And it is also quite impossible for something bad to have happened to them all. There is definitely something wrong somewhere.

Before they ghosted all ghosted you finally, how has your mode of communication with them been? What kind of topics and conversation do you bring up? Probably,  there is something you do that is a big turnoff for them and over time, they became bored. You can go through your previous chats with few of them, just maybe,  you might find answers to your questions. You can try calling them if you have their phone lines just to satisfy your curiosity. If you can't get any concrete reason for their change of attitude towards you, why bother about people who clearly don't want to be friends with you? You can't be friends with everyone. Move on and be with those who want to be with you.

lmao, too bad, out of 1000 added friends in the social media, zero of them reply me, not even once, is it the time to delete all of them? lmao, honestly I find the social media itself very stupid from the very beginning, never once I thought it had grown to a monsterous quickly, btw it might be the time to finally give it a BIG left.

But last but bot least, I won't stop receiving dating letters, they are basically hinting me they enjoy it since I'm giving them a good night, omg I'm nearly bleeding my nose now.

i think it's what they call user-friendly.
they can only be there when they need you and use you when you have something to share with but in the times when are down, they avoid you.
happen all the time to people who are unsuspecting of someone's intention. in the trying times, the closest friends of yours who come to help are the true ones and without condition.

heh, I think you are trying to say, when the tough time arrived, you would know who is the friend within the group of beehive, when good time everybody trying hard to get near and befriend you. It reveal the ugly of human nature! They come to you for problems, they run away when your are troubled. Now they don't even give a damn to waste time on replying you despite all it cost them is just a few second of keyboard input.

Don't give them attention if they are ignoring you. Not everyone deserves your attention. Don't kill them with kindness, kill them with silence. If you keep pushing them to talk to you, they will see you as a desperate person and will try to take advantage of it. Just remember this, a boy becomes a man when he realizes that no one will come for his help. You will have to walk this path all alone.
Instead of focusing on what is past, focus on your present so that you can build a strong future. When you become successful, you won't have to worry about friends anymore. They will come to you.
Or am I getting the whole topic wrong? Is it because they are successful right now so they are avoiding you? Well this things happens. Don't take everything personally. Move on with your life.

It's tempting to believe they're ignoring you on purpose, but there might be other causes. Changes in people's life, such as increasing obligations or personal issues, might absorb their time and energy. Alternatively, group dynamics or interests may have shifted. Rather than leaping to conclusions, consider approaching someone directly to voice your concerns and inquire about the group's present situation.

It could be that they are all just busy or you annoyed them all lol people tend to dislike friends who comment on topics about Palestine or Russia. It's like the cancel culture is everywhere. It creates tension in friends and it breaks families apart.

Post some jokes and memes, they tend to engage when scenes are happy as it brightens someone's day. And when they react like thumbs up, that's the time you ask if you can loan $50.