contradict to popular belief, after getting married, life become twice more lonely, because all friends leave me immediately, and my wife and kids basically treat me as stranger, I become super lonely although on my social page I post a happy family group selfie, but deep inside me I crave that loneliness so badly that I need validation from you I'm not alone, I have a big family in the picture to show you I'm not ALONE!
There are factors that make your friend move on and also your family treats you like a stranger.
Possible Reasons why your friends left you1. You are married and have responsibilities to catter for. Perhaps you dont have that time you spend with them anymore. All you think of now is family. In Your discussion with them, you often talk about your wife and children and it makes your friend jealous of you especially when they haven't got married. Or dey prefer still being single and never want to be boderd about marriage issues. Rather thinks of flet.
2 it might possibly be that your wife doesn't give your friend space to come in, after you both got married. And her reasons might be that your friends should limit coming close to you because you have more responsibilities like never before. And then coming close to you might be a bad influence to you. Because women always think alkwardly. Forgetting that most of those friends who she never want close to you where there for you before marriage and possibly the reason why you got married do to their advices.
3. Maybe you also dance according to your wife tone. When you fail to control a woman, she controls you. And when a man is controlled by a woman he doesn't know that he's been controlled. because we men always ditest the word control. When your wife tell you to do this or do that, and you do without given it a thought it's a sign of control. Thought I don't know what you define as control, but in Africa that is how we define control by a woman. she doesn't want to see your friends around and you also tell them that your wife doesn't want them anymore, or you avoid them indirectly it's a sigh of being controlled by a woman. So check yourself.
Possible Reasons why you are married and still lonely.1. it could be that you married your wife but don't understand her. Women love attention and affection, you might be a married man and also a boring husband. Sometimes make out time to go out for fun. Give her attention or pay a listening👂to her. To know what she likes and what she doesn't like.
2. Stinginess is also another thing women hate. If you are always hand tight of releasing money or always monitoring every activity in the house it causes problems. Sometimes you should also be romatic in bed. Those things cause problems but you will never know.
3. For peace to rain 🌧️ in your home, wake her at 12:am in the morning and ask her what is the problem? And tell her to open up and tell her you want to make amendments this year and allow her speak on her grieviences then you both can resolve.
