Pages:
Author

Topic: 34 years old and still eating mom`s food? (Read 297 times)

full member
Activity: 1092
Merit: 117
March 25, 2019, 04:55:19 PM
#22
I'm 34 years old and still eating mom`s food because of no money to buy anything, everything goes to our "working" company's bank account. Basically in a poor person. That`s why I want Tesco, Jusco, Aldi in my home country.
It sad to see that at 34 years old you are not able to support yourself financially but it seems that you are going through some hard times with the company where you are working so at least you have an excuse. But since you are 34 you should have been able to keep some money for urgency moments like this, that could support you for at least 1-2-3 months at least, didn't you do that right?
hero member
Activity: 1063
Merit: 502
RIP: S5, A faithful device long time
What do you mean by "working company's bank account"?

I just trying to say; cafe, lunch, sandwich. Everything costs money. It is much cheaper than, for example, many places in the city area.
sr. member
Activity: 882
Merit: 269
I think poverty is not a respecter of person,  place or family but it moved away from those that are ready to develop a strong mindset,  work hard in developing their skills and knowledge and are ready to sacrifice current pleasure for future gain.
member
Activity: 189
Merit: 11
What do you mean by "working company's bank account"?
jr. member
Activity: 50
Merit: 2
 I just want Yang to win so I can finally make my Neetbux. However it’s gross that a 34 man is still living off his mom
newbie
Activity: 9
Merit: 0
I think its time for you to get up and start working. Even though Asian countries are a family oriented type of people you are already a full grown adult. Get your ass up and start working.


Ya man !!! Asian countries are a family oriented type of people. Even after having a job also they live together as a group families.  Any how it mainly depends on cultural things.

Wanna fly like a free bird ? Get a job and live like a FREE MEN.
hero member
Activity: 3066
Merit: 629
Vave.com - Crypto Casino
It is not easy to be living with your parents at the age, sometimes you may feel some sort of worthlessness. Life is not easy when plans fails, imagine you cant even marry or date peacefully at that age when you are with your parents and that is kind of scary for everyone who wants to have their privacy.
In some countries, due to the culture it will make you feel that way. But in some other countries, this is a very accepted thing. It's fine to stay at your parents whether you have a family or don't have even you're at your 30's.

As a man, you'll feel the shame and you have to initiate something to make you feel that you're worth to them by providing some of the needs of what a provider do.
member
Activity: 235
Merit: 10
BountyMarketCap
It is not easy to be living with your parents at the age, sometimes you may feel some sort of worthlessness. Life is not easy when plans fails, imagine you cant even marry or date peacefully at that age when you are with your parents and that is kind of scary for everyone who wants to have their privacy.
jr. member
Activity: 126
Merit: 1
Don't you have your own family at this age of your life
hero member
Activity: 3066
Merit: 629
Vave.com - Crypto Casino
Nothing wrong with that but it would be a problem if you dont have initiative to return the favor for her.  Smiley
legendary
Activity: 3906
Merit: 1373
Mom owns a restaurant.     Cool
newbie
Activity: 136
Merit: 0
I have the same situation, I live entirely at the expense of my parents. I can't find a job
jr. member
Activity: 518
Merit: 1
I mean, if mom's okay with you coming in and eating, why not ?
if you could see that mom's financial side is bad, I would change something in my life.
legendary
Activity: 2590
Merit: 1882
Leading Crypto Sports Betting & Casino Platform
Do not worry, every day there will be an opportunity that you can take advantage of, and many would like to have a mother to continue sharing with her, so be happy about that, you can go looking for ways to create a family, because when you have more responsibilities, your brain will automatically look for new opportunities where you did not believe you have them, being the head of a family, your life will change for the better.
legendary
Activity: 2030
Merit: 1569
CLEAN non GPL infringing code made in Rust lang
I'm 34 years old and still eating mom`s food because of no money to buy anything, everything goes to our "working" company's bank account. Basically in a poor person. That`s why I want Tesco, Jusco, Aldi in my home country.

So Finland has unemployment problems? How about working online? Your internet is surely one of the best.

If your mother is happy feeding you, i don't see what the problem is. Good for you, one less thing to worry about...

PS: Japan is too expensive a country, don't even think about it... Unless you already have a good job position there.
full member
Activity: 602
Merit: 100
I'm 34 years old and still eating mom`s food because of no money to buy anything, everything goes to our "working" company's bank account. Basically in a poor person. That`s why I want Tesco, Jusco, Aldi in my home country.
Dude seriously don't let it get to you. So long you're still helping with the house chores, and in your mind you're planning on making it soon, it's okay. We make living harder and that shouldn't be so..
full member
Activity: 364
Merit: 127
I think its time for you to get up and start working. Even though Asian countries are a family oriented type of people you are already a full grown adult. Get your ass up and start working.
legendary
Activity: 3374
Merit: 1824
I'm 34 years old and still eating mom`s food because of no money to buy anything, everything goes to our "working" company's bank account. Basically in a poor person. That`s why I want Tesco, Jusco, Aldi in my home country.

I think that you should change your life.
Obviously, you are not happy now.
Try to find new friends, maybe some ''soul mate'' your partner for life.
MOve from your parents.
As other suggested, find a job or even move to other country.
member
Activity: 616
Merit: 30
I'm 34 years old and still eating mom`s food because of no money to buy anything, everything goes to our "working" company's bank account. Basically in a poor person. That`s why I want Tesco, Jusco, Aldi in my home country.
Find you own job,make your own family and live a life

Your living style now is still an old school when a son/daughter is still feeding by a parent

In our region we don’t tolerate this kind of foolishness because we live to work not to be feed
hero member
Activity: 2842
Merit: 772
Probably depends on culture. There a lot of culture in the world wherein it is family oriented. And even you are in the ripe age to have your own family and kids, still there are people who are still with their mom.

Personally though, I'm old enough to have my own work, family kids, house and living good. All is because of my mom. But she past away when I was about to graduate in college and didn't see her fruit in me.

Anyways, I think there's nothing wrong though, appreciate them as well while you can and don't forget her when you have a decent job in the future.
Pages:
Jump to: