It's never worked with girls for me. Whenever I pretend to be indifferent, they go off with another guy. Smiley
..was that a joke Jet cash? Haha. You make me laugh.
Anyway pretending to be indifferent doesn't make sense actually. It is better to become natural that shows your uniqueness than pretending something and end to nothing.
The same thing for merit , when someone is active in the forum and post everywhere, gives his opinions, helps some users. then he/she will be visible and may attract everyone's attention.
It is not about being active and making post everywhere you can possibly make a spam comment, it is all about making a quality post.
( For example: nullius)
In fact, he/she should not searching on merit points and must be indifferent.
Nullius is not indifferent but a unique or totally different. Being different naturally than being indifferent is far better indeed.