Topic: Advice when you are going a bit far in gaming and betting - page 11. (Read 7732 times)

Where I'm from there is a saying for this type of things: "He who doesn't get advice doesn't grow old" and that is very applicable to casinos and any situation in life, because that's always the case when we are in a casino. We always do everything possible to do well in everything and to win, there are many people who always want to win and it is normal, it is what we all want but we must also be conscientious people, casinos are always the best option to do so, but we must know that they will always have the house advantage and that is what makes the casinos always win, so before playing we as players have to consider that, because it always has to be seen the way that we have to see it from the point of view that we do not everything is insured in a casino, there will always be a way to take advantage of the touches of luck to be able to have some profits, and obviously the first thing is to withdraw the money, because if you risk that money you can lose and lose more than normal , as in many glasses it has happened to several players.

It's difficult, as I said, when they are novice players, because novice players are always people who have a lot of hopes, illusions and a lot of things to offer them to win, and that's what they always think about, so personally before betting Many things must be done, such as allocating the allocated money to putting it in the casino, and after that not risking any more because that is where the problems begin, because money is committed that should not be risked, and it is money that is useful for other purposes. things, and if it is a person who is the head of the family and who has a family to take care of, it is better that he does not even go near a casino, because it may be that at any given time the person does not control himself and thus ends up without money and that is very bad, because after that where are you going to get more money? It is impossible, and lending money to try to pursue those profits is not the idea.

As simple as that- truly the excess of anything is bad no matter how positive that thing is immediately abuse infiltrate into the use of it it turns bad and that's excat what gambling addicts experiences with gambling they do it excessively without a limit. The best practice to use in avoiding going to far in gambling is not to allow yourself to excessive gambling. You don't have to be regular at the gambling house or online there should be intervals and when it's time to gamble it should be with a budgeted amount and time not exceeding it whether you're winning or losing, whether the friends you went with to the gambling hall are yet to leave or not when the stipulated time and amount you budgeted for yourself elapses be disciplined to leave and you won't have troubles with addiction.

What is important is that they can gain something useful from knowing other people's experiences so that they can avoid having the same experience. They can also be more alert when gambling and always remember what they need to avoid. They will not act rashly by taking promotions that seem too heavy for them, so they only gamble for fun.

By knowing other people's experiences, they can determine what actions to take so that they can avoid any problems. In gambling, if a person can gain more experience, both from himself and from others, it can give him the vigilance to be able to protect himself.

That's because they are not ready for whatever will happen to them. They are able to gamble with a lot of money but cannot afford to lose a lot. Actually, if that's the case, they don't need to gamble, and it's better to save their money so they don't have to lose. And they should be able to think that gambling is not a place to make money but just to have fun.

Actually, as a gambler, just feeling that you want to recover what you lost while playing gambling is a characteristic that is not a good sign to continue betting. This is where we should be aware as gamblers.

It's just because of the high desire to catch up with our losers that the amount of money we put into the casino is increasing, which we should stop doing instead. This is the severe pain of a gambler, in fact, that should be overcome by each of us, not only in the field of crypto gambling business.

They can take other people's bad experiences to be used as lessons for themselves, so they can know what things to avoid to minimize losses, but if they don't want to learn it's okay, because the losses that will occur will also be felt by themselves. It's only if other people are affected that is unnatural.

Determining the attitude in gambling also has a big influence on gambling, where if someone responds to gambling wrongly then they can become heavily addicted so that they cannot remove gambling from their minds and gambling becomes the main thing in their thoughts.

Many gamblers cannot accept their defeat because they feel disadvantaged, even though those who get losses are not only them, there are still many other people who experience defeat but some of them respond well, so they do not become severely addicted. If they can accept reality well, maybe they won't experience big losses regularly.

Everybody Gambles,but the extent to which one goes in gambling is what makes some people gambling addict, while some are not because they are able to control their emotions.Gambling with caution is very essential for any one who wants to begin or start gambling,he must bare in mind that excess of everything is bad, therefore,the moment you see yourself getting too much involved in gambling,or going extra mile to gamble,the best thing to do is witdraw yourself from those group of friends that lure you into gambling,if there is no body pushing you to gamble,then you have to avoid the casino hall you visit regularly.This is the only way you can help yourself.I am able to say this because this was what helped me.

But for sure to those people who do become responsible are to those people who had been able to witness and experience addiction temporarily.It did really just turn out that
they do able to make those realizations along the way or on the time that they had encountered out such learning in the process and this is why they do really end up on having those kind of
steps to make themselves more better. We are just humans and greed is really something that being part of ourselves or in each person. There are ones who do successfully be able to
control it and there are ones who do really fail on doing so. This is why certain conditions might that be worst on some, and there are ones who are really just that
fine because they do know on how to handle up risks.

Responsible gambler will do the opposite of what a gambler addict do.  Responsible gambler always prioritized important things.  Gambling is always the last on their list because they knew that if the lose control and put their funds on gambling will have the possibility of them suffering lack of finances in the future.  So responsible gambler is careful in dealing with gambling activities.  They won't gamble if they have no free funds for it and gamble only if they have the fund they can afford to lose.

It is true that people who prioritize gambling activities over other important matters often become addicted to gambling and later will have financial difficulties that will lead them to debt and selling their assets.  I hope these kinds of gamblers realize the reality before they get drowned to debt and suffer financial ruins.

Lots of love and attention from the people closest to them by providing advice for recovering addicts so that they can recover from their bad behavior is very important and very valuable for addicts, so that they can return to living a good life as before. and besides, there are some of them who can appreciate the advice. and there are also those who still ignore it, from here it depends on each addict whether they still want to change or not.

Which most of the time gets neglected by those who already suffer from heavy addiction if they only realize the care that those people who love them so much, people who are willing to extend hands to help, though those who manage to appreciate even they are already drawn to their lust and desire with gambling, are willing to adjust and accept the help that is being provided.

they are the ones who manage to quit and recover, as they value the time and effort of their loved ones who take extra care for them.

Learning the experiences of other gamblers is very useful for all of us because we can learn and know what we should do if we were in that situation. At least we can think about what steps we can take to overcome something or what we should do. By studying this experience, our knowledge will increase and we will be able to act wisely towards gambling and not use gambling excessively. Many people don't want to learn from other people's experiences and tend to belittle them by saying it's their experience and not ours so we won't experience it. But who knows, one day we will also experience the same thing as them.

From learning about other people's experiences, they can find out that actually, when playing gambling, there is no need to chase victory because that will only make things difficult for them. Moreover, we know that it is not possible to win in gambling and we have to sacrifice a certain amount of money to be able to win, but that also does not guarantee that we can win. We can still try, but that's where we get deeper into gambling and have the possibility of experiencing gambling addiction. This risk will exist as long as we continue gambling, let alone gambling too often, so we must be able to avoid it by implementing restrictions


The important thing is that we can have experience while playing gambling because that helps us to know every situation that occurs while we are gambling so that we can determine our attitude. By adding the lessons we learn and experiences from other people, we can avoid what is not necessary so that we can enjoy gambling as it should. Experienced gamblers often share their experiences with people in the hope that novice gamblers will not have to go through the same experiences as them and can avoid making mistakes like them. Continuing to learn from other people will make them gamblers who are wise in gambling and will not chase win.

Chasing after defeat will only increase the number of losses so much that they will not be able to accept it. This has happened to many people so they have to be really careful when gambling, especially when spending money on gambling. We should not gamble carelessly or excessively because this will clearly have an impact on our emotions which can increase because of the results we will receive. The losses we have experienced must be accepted and forgotten because it can make us annoyed and sad and want to recover from the loss by continuing to gamble. That can clearly increase the number of losses to be greater and can use up all the money we have.

This is completely obvious advice and I hope this is what most gamblers do.  However, there are some players who, indeed, as soon as they receive at least some money, immediately begin to play, hoping to increase their small capital.  And of course they lose in most cases.  I would not call such players sick with a gambling addiction, but of course such impulsive behavior and the inability to stop and wait a little is definitely a step towards a serious, painful gambling addiction.  Although such a player himself may not realize this for some time.  And the most unpleasant thing is that rarely the family members of such a player manage to wean such a player from gambling immediately after he got money from somewhere.  I can’t even imagine how some families still manage to do this.  But there are probably some opportunities to resolve this issue simply through a sincere conversation and a serious conversation.  But I'm not sure about that.

Someone that goes to the casino just after they got paid is showing a total lack of impulse control and it would not surprise me if they eventually get addicted to it, in my opinion gamblers should strive for the opposite, they should first pay for all of their obligations and the expenses their family may have, save some of that money towards an investment, and only then they can set aside some money they can later use to gamble.

Let the awareness of budgeting sink into minds of gamblers. Its a precursion that must be taken seriously. If a man recieves his wages or salary and  walks into  a casion with it, the only saving grace he has will be that information on budgeting else, he'll come out of the casino with an empty wallet. It has beome that bad, it is therefore necessary for advice to be given to gamblers

the most important thing is the intention and determination to try to stop. If we don't have the intention and determination it will be difficult to stop because the only thing that can stop a gambling addiction is ourselves. Ourselves have an important role in the activities we do, the role of other people is not there useful to stop gambling activities if you don't have the intention to stop.

Excessive fear due to thinking too much about what impact will be received after stopping gambling is an unreasonable fear because these friends certainly don't really care if you stop gambling, it's just that your feelings or desire to gamble arise because you are tempted to return to the activity. gambling again, it's useless if you have the intention to stop gambling, but if your friends or your environment is still full of gamblers then you will still be addicted and continue doing this activity, the most important thing to be able to stop is the intention, avoid environments that surrounded by gamblers, managing finances, keeping yourself busy with other activities, then you can stop slowly.

Basically, for someone who has experienced addiction, it is very difficult for him to change his behavior well even though he uses various alternative methods such as advice from his own family, he will not be easy to carry out this advice if he does not have a strong belief in himself to change, and this This often happens when an addict realizes that he has behaved badly and wrongly when he experiences a disaster in his life, and as a result the people closest to him will stay away from him.

Yes, that's right, therefore there is nothing wrong if we listen to other people's advice, maybe with that advice we will become people who behave well in order to avoid risks in gambling and avoid a bad life.

Your statement is very correct, I quite agree with your assumption, the fact is that it is not easy to take any prevention even for some people it might be easy to do but for people who have entered the addiction phase the situation will be different again, as you said that taking a break will never be an option, and if anyone chooses then I think only a few are able to do it. Their only option is to win so they will only be able to stop when they have exhausted all their money in every session they do.

Gamblers who are already addicted have a different mindset from other gamblers, especially those who are still in the safe zone. Basically and the reality is that they want to win but object to losing or even don't want to lose, and if they lose then obviously it's not the end of the world, they will do anything just to gamble, borrowing has become an alternative that they do if they have run out of money and none other than that all to catch up on previous losses. On the other hand they think that losing is a form of sacrifice, and it's useless even if you advise them I don't think it will have any effect. This is the bad impact of gambling if you have entered into addiction, there is no better end result except losing again, because even if they win then they will act greedy.

What you said is true, that it is one of the characteristics to know someone whether someone is a gambling addict, or not.
Although it is indeed very difficult to get out of this condition, but this is not the only basic reason for us to stop trying to try to control ourselves over gambling or decide to quit this activity.

And perhaps it is not the difficulty that makes us afraid to make an effort, but it is precisely the fear that makes it difficult for us to take a step. Because we are often frightened by an anxiety, that we will find it difficult to find other pleasures other than playing gambling, and we are also often afraid that when I stop playing gambling, then I will lose friends, because most of my friends are gamblers. It is thoughts like that that sometimes continue to haunt us and overshadow us. Even though we know that when this gambling cannot be controlled, then this will only result in a significant loss.

The dangerous part about gambling is that people can spend unlimited amounts of money on it. When we go out for a night of drinks, or to have dinner in a restaurant or watch a movie, we already know roughly how much money the night is going to cost us and if we can afford it with our monthly budget. With my family we allocate some money for eating in our favourite restaurants 2 times per month, more than that is just too expensive. Now with gambling it's a completely different story, because we can be winning or losing money during a night and need to always keep our bankroll in mind. What has helped me a lot after learning all the basics in gambling is to remind myself that the same type of games will also be around the next day. There is no need to place all my money in a single night, because I will have the exact same chances of winning the next day as well. I had the problem in the past to feel like I need to reach a certain profit before stopping to gamble and it barely worked as I mostly lost money the longer, I played. In the end it took me a long-time to recover those losses again and avoid doing the same mistakes all over again. Having good friends can be really helpful in such a case, because they have a better feeling of what is going on when they see us gambling recklessly. That is why I am always trying to listen to my friends and value their opinion when they want to tell me something.

This only happens when the person involved is not an addict, if he eventually becomes an addict taking a break can never be an option, instead he or she will even go further to do anything to satisfy him or herself, addicted gamblers don't see losing as anything because the believe that they can win anytime, when they lose, they strategize and go for more, I think at this point there is no adding that's going to be useful to this person, unless God is involved to salvage the situation if not, you being the adviser might end up having issue with him or her, the question might come from him to you, he might say is the money your own, why not allow me to do what I like, I think this situation is complicated.