Well, perhaps they feel you bother them so much without it being productive in the end, that's why they don't even bother to reply.
You OP, should be able to introspectively scrutinize yourself as to why such is happening. Maybe you haven't leveled up to their stand and don't intend to in the nearest future.
Let me tell you a secret, once you get to invest in cryptocurrency mostly BTC as you earn, with a steady DCA strategy, am sure in a couple of years, these same friende would be the ones to call just to hear from you.
Crypto is decentralized and personal to a very long extent, and the way you earn or make profit from it either by trading or HoDling, would guarantee your independence from these friends.
Topic: All my social media friends don't want to reply me lately, dafuq is going on rn? - page 3. (Read 558 times)
December 05, 2023, 10:31:28 AM
December 05, 2023, 10:05:09 AM
review your topics of conversation. scrutinise your conversations.. look at where your topics have not been part of the main conversation. look at where you have tried too many times to trigger a topic they have not wanted to discuss but you kept pushing
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funny part is i do not ass-kiss people on this forum. and yet even after years certain adversaries still want to comment and get involved in conversations with me. its actually difficult to get people to ignore me because deep down they know my topics have substance and they spend time "trying" to overcome my points
they might end up just slinging insults instead of providing proof. but they still engage because the topics are worthy of discussing even if opinions differ
so look at the topics you discuss and see your history of peoples responses and see where you may have gone wrong and bored people to death or poked at them with topics of irrelevance, learn to fund topics of worthy converse, topics of depths that can promote discussion
the only real topic that would break friendships would be if you try to inform your friends of your similar experiences and comparisons between you and them of romantic acts YOU have performed on THEIR spouses.. definitely a friendship killer
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funny part is i do not ass-kiss people on this forum. and yet even after years certain adversaries still want to comment and get involved in conversations with me. its actually difficult to get people to ignore me because deep down they know my topics have substance and they spend time "trying" to overcome my points
they might end up just slinging insults instead of providing proof. but they still engage because the topics are worthy of discussing even if opinions differ
so look at the topics you discuss and see your history of peoples responses and see where you may have gone wrong and bored people to death or poked at them with topics of irrelevance, learn to fund topics of worthy converse, topics of depths that can promote discussion
the only real topic that would break friendships would be if you try to inform your friends of your similar experiences and comparisons between you and them of romantic acts YOU have performed on THEIR spouses.. definitely a friendship killer
Well the long post is honestly spot on, no doubt I had sink into ridicule instead of having mind provoking thought when answering. Part of it is due to I'm getting quite drained of energy, if I was to go through one by one reply with deeply thought reply, it is insane, I'm not superman, I would have to be died to overthinking myself to dead just to please the readers, but it is disturbing, despite I'm hinting I would not entertain some unworthy reply but it is still spammed with countless reply which I couldn't do nothing about, it is here to wearing down me or it is just want to harm me idk, don't blame me for low grade reply, I am very drained to answer one by one honestly, I am also a lot less healthier now, you must know I need to be healthy to think deep, cheers!
December 05, 2023, 09:26:01 AM
Can you tell me what's been going on in your life lately? Have you been having any financial problems? When people find out about your financial struggles, some may not be able to help you and ignore you, while others may not want to help you even if they have the means to do so. Some people may be too busy with their own lives to lend a hand. I consider myself lucky because I know that if I'm ever struggling, there's someone I can turn to who will listen to me, even if they can't solve my problems. Having someone who will lend an ear when you need it is important. If you want to be that person for someone else, make sure you're willing to listen and support them, not just help them because you need something from them.
December 05, 2023, 09:07:13 AM
review your topics of conversation. scrutinise your conversations.. look at where your topics have not been part of the main conversation. look at where you have tried too many times to trigger a topic they have not wanted to discuss but you kept pushing
...
funny part is i do not ass-kiss people on this forum. and yet even after years certain adversaries still want to comment and get involved in conversations with me. its actually difficult to get people to ignore me because deep down they know my topics have substance and they spend time "trying" to overcome my points
they might end up just slinging insults instead of providing proof. but they still engage because the topics are worthy of discussing even if opinions differ
so look at the topics you discuss and see your history of peoples responses and see where you may have gone wrong and bored people to death or poked at them with topics of irrelevance, learn to fund topics of worthy converse, topics of depths that can promote discussion
the only real topic that would break friendships would be if you try to inform your friends of your similar experiences and comparisons between you and them of romantic acts YOU have performed on THEIR spouses.. definitely a friendship killer
...
funny part is i do not ass-kiss people on this forum. and yet even after years certain adversaries still want to comment and get involved in conversations with me. its actually difficult to get people to ignore me because deep down they know my topics have substance and they spend time "trying" to overcome my points
they might end up just slinging insults instead of providing proof. but they still engage because the topics are worthy of discussing even if opinions differ
so look at the topics you discuss and see your history of peoples responses and see where you may have gone wrong and bored people to death or poked at them with topics of irrelevance, learn to fund topics of worthy converse, topics of depths that can promote discussion
the only real topic that would break friendships would be if you try to inform your friends of your similar experiences and comparisons between you and them of romantic acts YOU have performed on THEIR spouses.. definitely a friendship killer
December 05, 2023, 08:42:16 AM
The silent is frigthening me, they was very active some years ago, but rn the last few weeks I try to chat with them, they don't even reply once but I swear they read my chat, but they do not reply, not even once, idk why they suddenly all turn, turning COLD, colder than ice, THEY basically GHOST me!!! Is something happens to them that they are so busy that they can't even reply once? I mean ALL of them, not just one or two or them, IS ALL OF THEM, it is like complete silence!
Do you mean all your followers or friends on social media platforms don't give you any response to the messages you send to them, like on your Facebook or Messenger accounts? If your answer is yes, it means that there seems to be a problem or something wrong with you.
When you know they have read your message and only seen zone or no comments, it means either they don't want to talk to you or they may already know the reason why you chatted with them. It's like all your friends are weird and don't want to replay you; wouldn't you be surprised? Won't you think about what you did that they saw in you that they didn't like something like that?
December 05, 2023, 08:25:32 AM
How is your financial condition recently, if you are experiencing financial difficulties, it means they are avoiding you. The true nature of a friend will be seen when you are experiencing financial hardship or difficulty, those who only use your money will avoid you when you are in trouble. Stop trying to chat with them, let them sleep in silence without any chatter from you. Prove it to them with success, they will regret ignoring you when they see you are more successful than them.
December 05, 2023, 08:19:35 AM
If people don’t have time to reply to you then they are not worth bothering with. People who love & care for you will always find time to respond to your messages. If you feel like you’re getting ghosted then it might be time to assess your friendship circle & make some changes if required.
December 05, 2023, 08:18:57 AM
The silent is frigthening me, they was very active some years ago, but rn the last few weeks I try to chat with them, they don't even reply once but I swear they read my chat, but they do not reply, not even once, idk why they suddenly all turn, turning COLD, colder than ice, THEY basically GHOST me!!! Is something happens to them that they are so busy that they can't even reply once? I mean ALL of them, not just one or two or them, IS ALL OF THEM, it is like complete silence!
That’s normal especially if you havent done anything to make them distant from you. Are they your close friends? Consider thinking deeper. Well if they really are your friends and there is something going on thats why people arent messageing then they shouldve told ypu.
But usually, people might be caught up in stuff. Give it a bit, and they might pop back up. If you're really curious, maybe drop a casual message to see what's going on.
December 05, 2023, 08:06:17 AM
Let me tell you this in case you don't know, things don't just happened like that without having a reason behind it, now you're so worried of their non challant attitude to you, yet you're not busy concerned about what may be the reason for taking such actions altogether on you, but for someone like me, i will first suggest you look into these possible reasons and make research on them.
1. You might have offend them unknowingly to you
2. Your account might be once hacked and they ignored the scammer
3. They might have heard something wrong about you they are displease with and acted upon
4. Try reachout to other people and check for the same reason if it continues that people keep ignoring you
5. If you're less important to some people, they try to ignore you, things might have changed very much from how you left them.
1. You might have offend them unknowingly to you
2. Your account might be once hacked and they ignored the scammer
3. They might have heard something wrong about you they are displease with and acted upon
4. Try reachout to other people and check for the same reason if it continues that people keep ignoring you
5. If you're less important to some people, they try to ignore you, things might have changed very much from how you left them.
December 05, 2023, 07:18:35 AM
..., it means there's something wrong with you...
Do you means you have no such problems? So everybody else social media is as busy as usual, it is just me that is the wrong? May be it is just mine is wrong, not you not him or not their social media.
...try to approach them nicely and say ...
I swear I approach them exactly just like how we usually do some years ago, even in the same tone and manners, even the topic that we used to banter non stop years ago, but I didn't see any reason why they decide to be complete silence, it was all the same chat just like years ago they should be able to effortlessly answer it, but they ignore it instead.
December 05, 2023, 06:49:18 AM
The silent is frigthening me, they was very active some years ago, but rn the last few weeks I try to chat with them, they don't even reply once but I swear they read my chat, but they do not reply, not even once, idk why they suddenly all turn, turning COLD, colder than ice, THEY basically GHOST me!!! Is something happens to them that they are so busy that they can't even reply once? I mean ALL of them, not just one or two or them, IS ALL OF THEM, it is like complete silence!
Just take some consideration since not everyone is active on social media so maybe they are busy on their own hustle and didn't bother to go back those messages they read online.
Also try to approach them nicely and say that your intention to approach them is not to ask some loan or credit and just want to say hello for them. Since usually people will not reply if they know the intention of people.
Extend more your patience since maybe they have other things that needed to take care for and answering you is not in their priority but later on maybe you might get an answer from them.
December 05, 2023, 06:47:47 AM
they didn't reply because
1. they are tired and they are on diet thus couldn't active no more
2. they find my chat is lower IQ than lukewarm water temperature and un-interested, thx to particularly years of debooking and anti-work and redpill
3. they are too busy answering calls, who want to use chat, want to reach me then call me not text me! Text me would be ignore automatically
4. they only reply to something interest them, so far all my topic is too broad thus they do not know how to reply, they just ignore them. I had to be specific when texting
5. their device is broken, or the internet is broken, or the text didn't reach them for unknown reason, censorship?
1. they are tired and they are on diet thus couldn't active no more
2. they find my chat is lower IQ than lukewarm water temperature and un-interested, thx to particularly years of debooking and anti-work and redpill
3. they are too busy answering calls, who want to use chat, want to reach me then call me not text me! Text me would be ignore automatically
4. they only reply to something interest them, so far all my topic is too broad thus they do not know how to reply, they just ignore them. I had to be specific when texting
5. their device is broken, or the internet is broken, or the text didn't reach them for unknown reason, censorship?
December 05, 2023, 06:45:44 AM
not all people will nice to you, but if all of them not nice to you, it means there's something wrong with you.
December 05, 2023, 06:22:13 AM
The silent is frigthening me, they was very active some years ago, but rn the last few weeks I try to chat with them, they don't even reply once but I swear they read my chat, but they do not reply, not even once, idk why they suddenly all turn, turning COLD, colder than ice, THEY basically GHOST me!!! Is something happens to them that they are so busy that they can't even reply once? I mean ALL of them, not just one or two or them, IS ALL OF THEM, it is like complete silence!
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