Jeff is one of my new connections on LinkedIn professional network. He is an amazing writer, Ghostwriter, Speaker, and Inc. Magazine Contributing Editor.
Among other things, it reminds that we all get "lucky breaks" from time to time. Most people don't recognize, appreciate, or take advantage of them and simply let them pass by.
I wish DNotes fell on my lap ten years earlier but instead of wishing what I cannot chance I consider it as my luckiest break of a life time. If it is being reflected that way, it is because I believe that it is. As Henry Ford said, “Whether you think you can, or you think you can't--you're right.”
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Jeff HadenInfluencer
Ghostwriter, Speaker, Inc. Magazine Contributing Editor
Ten Choices You Will Always Regret Making
Hindsight is a funny thing. Look forward and the path seems uncertain, the future unpredictable. Look back and all the dots seem to connect... except the dots that mark the choices you didn't make, and the risks you didn't take.
Here are choices you will someday regret having made:
1. Choosing not to be brave.
Being brave doesn't mean you aren't afraid -- in fact, the opposite is true. Courage without thought or meaning is simply recklessness. Brave people aren't fearless;they've simply found something that matters more to them than fear.
Say you're scared to start a business. Find a reason that means more: creating a better future for your family, wanting to make a real difference, or hoping for a more rewarding and fulfilling life.
Once you find a greater meaning, you also find courage. See fear not as something to shrink from but as something to overcome -- because that's all it is.
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https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/ten-choices-you-always-regret-making-jeff-hadenThis quote from his article resonates with me. Once I set myself on a path and have determined I am going to do something, I won't stop until it happens.
3. Choosing not to say, "I will."
A boss once gave me what I thought was an impossible task. I said, "OK. I'll try."
He told me trying didn't matter--as long as I didn't quit, I'd finish it. Trying didn't enter into it. Persistence was all that mattered.
Often we say, "I'll try," because that gives us an out. Our egos aren’t on the line. Our identities aren’t on the line. After all, we're just "trying."
Once you say, "I will," your perspective changes. What previously seemed insurmountable is no longer a matter of luck or chance but of time and effort and persistence.
When what you want to do really matters, don't say, "I'll try." Say, "I will," and then do everything possible to keep that promise to yourself.