No one enjoys losing in gambling.Losing brings our hopes down, it ushers in emotional pain and grumpiness whereas, winning elevates our mood, bringing happiness and excitement. There are games where I have won and after withdrawing my winnings, I am so happy that I give gifted some of it to people around me. This doesn't last for long once the it is out of my hand and minds. I am curious, how long does this joy last after a win or a loss—does it linger until your next bet, lasting the whole day, just 20 minutes, or perhaps 2 hours?
Well done cheerful giver! I can see the reason why you feel the way you feel, you take gambling as though is nothing, forgetting that when you make money lawfully, it is irrespective of the source, you have to take it seriously and not spend it anyhow. You must have gifted the winning money out simply because in your mind you thought it was free money, as though it is nothing to you. But actually, this is not free money, it is just the way you thought about it and the excitement of that time that made you behave the way you did. What if you lose the bet? So, you need to change this psychology, and this will not last, of course, it is just about the hormone at work at that time, you can correct it next time.
To me, if I win in gambling, I treat it as a business, just like I do when I trade the market or invest money, I don't waste the profit just because I am excited. Will you because you do business and gain and started doling out money to people anyhow? You need to have that good psychology about gambling, that is why you will not feel so excited when you win or lose, you just continue with the mood of a gambler, that's all. Don't get me wrong, it is your money and you can use it the way you like but just establishing the point about your feelings. It is you who should readjust your orientation about betting, and if done, you will feel almost the same way after winning and not a doused one after much initial excitement.