Isn't that statement contradictory? Cause for example, if a person can afford an expensive phone like an iPhone 13pro for example or any expensive car like a Lamborghini then definitely such a person can not just only be capable of feeding himself but his family and friends!
So am not sure I understand the point your trying to make except that you deviated from what I could suggestion as the intent of the thread which is " it's better to acquire more assets than liabilities", and not the other way round as you just unsuccessfully tried to confuse me.
This is why their situation won't improve because of this poor mentality. When we already have a phone or something that is still functional, it is not necessary to purchase another one or the latest model but instead let us prioritize things which are more important or use the money instead for assets/investment.
But then again there is mind set - the attitude which helps people to grow ant that urge is very important. However - some people live their whole life struggling and get nothing at the end.