Topic: Being hesitant could make or break you. - page 4. (Read 1202 times)

I agree that we need to balance when our hearts and minds are not too sure about the decisions we will make, because if we force to use big money in doubtful conditions it will cause us to lose big money, even though we may have luck, but the decision on that is very rash and bad as a responsible gambler.

I am a person who does that before seeing the final result as expected will definitely be very worried and afraid, using unusual money to gamble or the amount is quite large than usual it will give a very crazy mental pressure, and we will be afraid of losing, usually feeling chaotic, I have also been in such a decision and it gives mental pressure.

Take the decision to bet but make a bet that can make us calm, because it will provide enjoyment in betting rather than being filled with fear from decisions that are still undecided.

I think that OP forget the main meaning of gambling. When you don't know the outcome of an event but you feel you can predict such an even is what is gambling and that is what most of do in gambling and the only thing that guide us is the stats and the performance of the game. Who would have thought Spain will trash England by such defeat, maybe they could if we are to judge by their last 5 games in the tournament but anything could still go wrong and England might have win the game.

Just bet what you can afford to lose and if you get what you expected, you will be rewarded based on how the odd was measure and that's what I think that guy really did and it favour him. Even by the odd, any simple person that gamble will know that best team in a tournament are less favour with less odd and team that didn't performed well in their previous match get high odd and he went for Spain that were good in the EURO and they won, not like he did magic.

I don't follow any guidelines when placing bets and I am purely emotional in my decision making. I can say that most people do the same. There is only one thing we need to pay attention to when betting. It is to bet with a balance that we will not be upset when we lose. This is the most important detail, the rest is not important to me. Especially if I am betting for entertainment purposes, I usually make surprise bets. If you hesitate when betting, you are likely to make wrong decisions and therefore your decisions should be clear when betting. Because there is only one responsible when you will win and lose, and that is yourself.

A gambler should know how much he can gamble. That would put you in a state of calmness because you can absorb the impact even if the money is lost. Calculate your salary, how much you are spending for necessities, your bills, and others. What's left could be your gambling money or you can spend it with something else.
At that price you are not hesitating because you already completed what is needed to be paid and you won't have to worry about anything anymore even if the bet goes to hell. If they took the bet for Spain then good for them. That was one heck of a game though.

Actually in time of betting caution is must important thing to take care of because betting is between happiness and sadness, sometimes having confidence in a particular game is quite okay but hope shouldn't be put completely because anything can turn outside down, at least he should put 70%  winning and 30% losing for a game he's confident about, unlike the recent final between Spain and England, I personally supported England which I want them to win but inside me am not too sure of their victory because I know what Spain played from the being of the competition.

I thought the story would be even more detailed because there are screaming and probably problems that have involved gambling. But it is just about being hesitant and The first part where there are screams probably shouldn’t even be there because it’s not related to the issue.

I think having a balance of being decided and confident with your bets and risk is the important part. Being balanced would make it easier for yourself Because you wouldn’t worry too much if you gambled too much.

Just balance your risk and I think you would be okay.

That's possible, but actually if we are talking about types of gambling that really depend on luck, especially some games outside of sports betting, then it doesn't matter, even if, for example, we bet carelessly in the sense that it is based on desperation or doubt, it doesn't mean we will completely lose or will experience more losses than wins, because of course the results depend on how lucky you are when running the session.

So that's why it's better for us to focus on risk management, such as prioritizing caution and various wise actions, because of course it is much better to minimize the amount of loss than to continue chasing wins which is beyond our abilities as gamblers. On the other hand, gambling will always be an activity that leads to one of two possibilities at the end of the session between winning or losing, you can win but you are also very likely to lose, while there is nothing you can do to ensure victory, therefore yes you I also said a good thing above that since we start it is better to assume that we will lose, it is useful to minimize the possibility of emotions occurring.

Nothing is certain in life.
Uncertainties are the key factors that makes a thing interesting and worth it and I can relate with your story because I know how everyone around there would have blasted those guys but the funny thing is that, a lot of them if given thy same opportunity, maybe would have even made a more worst choice.
There is nothing like overcoming certain in gambling because no one can be certain of the outcome of a game until the game is over and even in some so called fixed matches, no one would be still certain because an slightest mistake could alter the outcome and result of the game.

In conclusion, one should always take their time to bet on a game and if you lose an opportunity to make a win, you shouldn’t regret but rather take a lesson from it.

In my opinion, when a person enters the game of chance, the first thing that person needs to do is leave feelings aside, if that person has doubts and fear when making a bet, then that person should not make any bet. , that person should give up making sports bets or should give up getting involved in gambling. He can only return the day he manages to control his emotions. Because what happens when a person puts emotions into betting is that that person loses control of themselves and starts to despair whenever they lose in a bet. If these young people were betting with an amount of money that they could afford to lose, then they would not have had any doubts or fear about making that bet. Unfortunately, many people fail to understand that if we only use money that we can afford to lose, then we can bet without fear, without thinking about what will happen if we lose and we don't despair when we lose.

This is a situation that many people go through:



but fortunately there are ways to cure this, for example these points mentioned in this article:


There are many cases of people who are getting involved in sports betting because they are having financial problems, these people think that they can win a lot of money consistently in games of chance, something that is not impossible, but it is something very risky when the person is using money that You can't afford to lose, but unfortunately desperation leads people to not think correctly. That's why I always advise people who are going through psychological or financial problems not to get involved with gambling, when they heal they can play.

Indeed, we should bet with the money we have and not money to be used for other more important things. Apart from that, when the bet you have made has ended in defeat, don't ever think about going back to betting using money you shouldn't have in the hope that you "might" win, it is not recommended because there is no clear certainty of winning, when you have experienced defeat it is better take a break by going away from gambling and coming back another day, maybe luck will give us a win because even if we bet with a small bet amount, if we are lucky we could get a big win. so we must be able to try to control ourselves and be patient.

When I'm going to make or place a bet and I have doubts in myself, I think it's better to stop and do research first by gathering confidence so that there are no doubts, apart from that, you have to be able to accept results that tend to be disappointing. Doubt will result in something that is not good, but just like anything else, doubt will not guarantee that we can win in a bet, so think about everything carefully, don't make the wrong move.

In as much as what you said seems too good to be true, it's actually the opposite of the reason why they wager in the first place; If you've got really tough problems to solve with money, you can't dare to risk out what you have - especially if it's just the only thing left with you. A gambler doesn't reason like that; he's always vying for the most unpredictable moments to secure a win with the little he's able to wager on every ticket - he's not after what he's gonna feed his family with etc, but what he stands to lose if he doesn't wager at all... that's exactly the reasons why most of them get indebted.

"I've witnessed stories that have actually crippled a long term relationship just by trying to act smart, pulling a stunt with a people's money and not being able to refund in time"

People should not be betting with money that is too big for them to lose, they should not also be using money they are supposed to use for something else like for feeding or paying their tutor fees to gamble. If they had use a small amount of money they would not be bothered if they lost the money but it is because they use a very big sum, that is the reason why they got scared when the game is not looking like it is going to favour them and then cashout in the middle of the game then they lose the opportunity to win big. Bets are supposed to be seen throughout the game and win or lose depending on how the results of the game is. You do not have to be hesitant, you should know which side you will be betting on before you open the sportsbook to bet. If you procrastinate, you might mess up the teams you wanted to choose or the game you want to play. Do not give yourself room for having a doubt on the team you want to support.

There is no best and most effective way when you are in an uncertain situation, in this case based on your post.  If someone is plagued by doubts, then he will feel indecisive. hesitation to choose, speculate and determine the ideal value to bet on. The only choice you can decide when facing doubt is not to bet, but if it matches your predictions then don't regret it. on the other hand, if the doubt has a bad impact then a person will not lose his money. fortunately, in this case the person won the bet despite doubts and debates among his friends.

Well, in fact, we often feel or experience this situation when we decide to bet. a phenomenon that often occurs in gamblers, regardless of the type of betting. Usually, when we are faced with complex choices, we will experience doubts about making a decision. especially, if in this context it is between betting on Spain or England. where both teams have star players who may be the bettor's favorite, or other factors could be the cause. This is a common thing, usually I will look for other options besides choosing one of the teams to choose as a bet. or, don't bet at all.  but in this story, it is a crucial match which is the final between Spain and England.

Exactly, there is nothing wrong with gambling as long as we can really treat it properly and according to our abilities, and I think if someone only takes decisions that do not exceed their abilities then there should be no doubt in them to execute those decisions. On the other hand, of course, gambling is always full of uncertainty regardless of where you gamble, which means that the results at the end of the session can never be fully known.

This means that we should not be too hopeful or confident about the results that will occur, even if, for example, from the start you are sure that your prediction will most likely be correct, or for example, you are very sure that the team you choose will be able to win the match, because after all, certainty in gambling is when the game is finished where the result is about winning or losing, therefore this is why we must always imagine and think about what if in the end we lose at that time, that is what we must pay attention to and think about from the start.

But unfortunately, even though they have bet with money that is ready to be lost due to doubts at the beginning, and then the result is a win, but what is very unfortunate is that they regret about not getting the maximum win. In this case of course they become greedy and if it is casino gambling then they will easily continue betting by increasing the money at stake and if that happens, then ofcourse they will very likely lose everything.

But yes, because they only bet on sports matches and these regrets will not make them lose everything,  because they will not easily get good moments in sports matches like that. But the point is, betting with doubt would of course be right to bet with money that is ready to lose, but when the result is winning then you don't need to regret it.

If you place a bet in desperation or hesitation, there are more losses than wins. I have never won a bet to date where I was disappointed or upset. When it comes to placing bets, the gambler has to make careful decisions. It is not a good policy to cash out again in the middle of a bet but if many want to minimize their risk it is entirely up to them. There is no guarantee of winning or losing in betting so the gambler should bet with the assumption that he will lose. Gambling is not suitable for those who worry about gambling after placing bets. Those who are thinking about betting on sports betting must be prepared to accept any outcome.

Go for amounts you can risk and still remain at ease, that's the best way to avoid unnecessary mental stress and panic when placing bets. It is necessary that gamblers gamble with a stable mind and some level of concentration and not under any form of pressure from some spectators or friends. This stability cannot be achieved if gamblers decide to gamble above what they can handle. I can only imagine what the reaction of the young man would be if he had lost his bets. Every gambler would actually be fine if they can actually go for risks they can handle, but greed won't let them stay within their limits.

Most times it's just good to be careful when it comes to issue of money and gambling, because who knows if this person had gambled more than he could afford to lose, you never can tell, he probably would have lost his bet if the game ended draw. Because he is not the only one who was skeptical about the game, as even I myself was also confused on who to stake my bet on, of which I went for Goal-Goal, and lucky for me, I won as England scored its equalizing goal at 73 minutes by "Cole Palmer", of which I must confess, that was really a happy moment. So when it comes to determining the amount to wager while gambling, the truth of the fact is that their is no best way to determine amount to gamble with, just follow your instincts.

This suggestion is valid because the only reason why we hesitate on our bet is because we are considering the amount of money we are putting on the bet in regard of the risk involved.

I think no one will hesitate to place a bet even with a high odds pick if we are just using a penny since we don’t care if the result will turn to lose or win. It’s easier to place a bet if we will use an amount that we can’t afford to lose but of course there’s always a dilemma with this since our natural greed will always want to bet high to win high too in able to satisfy us even though the amount is already out of our comfort zone.

The best way to overcome uncertainty and hesitation is to have a limit decided for each bet based on your betting strategy, and your strategy should be based on how you increase or decrease the bet after a win or a loss. Betting a large amount on a single game thinking it's going to be a win for sure can put you in a difficult situation in case the side you choose loses the match. So it's never a recommended practice to bet amounts that you can't afford to lose in a single game.

It's true that if you win the bet where you have a large amount at stake, you will be extremely happy and joyful because the amount will be larger than the wins of your multiple games combined, but you also need to think about the negative aspect of doing that as well, in case you lose, you are going to regret your decision a lot and there is no point in doing that.