There is a list of many crypto wallets here on (Link removed).
There are better sources than the one you mentioned or perhaps shilled. It's just a list.
The Bitcoin Hole compares the most important features of both software and hardware wallets in a much better format.
Electrum Wallet is good which I am using it with error foe years now. The transaction fee is very small and it is not up to a dollar so it is affordable at all time of transaction. But when the mempool is congested then the fee will be high. But it is one of most secure wallet to store bitcoin. Bluewallet transaction fee is high than Electrum. So you choose your choice.
It seems like you are allowing your wallet to tell you how much to pay in fees. That's not how it's supposed to work. Both of the wallets you mentioned allow you to enter transaction fees manually. You are supposed to check the current state of the network and then enter appropriate fees into the software.
Electrum wallet is also an online wallet, so it may not be the best for long term storage of a large amount of BTC, for that either use a hardware wallet or run Electrum in an airgapped device.
As you know, Electrum can also be coupled with popular hardware wallets so it stops being a hot wallet in that case.
In my opinion, the best option is the Electrum mobile wallet.
Why limit yourself exclusively for the mobile variant of Electrum when the desktop version is better and more feature-rich? Personally, I would always pick Blue Wallet on mobile over Electrum.