I would agree something like Shamirs secret sharing would be the best option for splitting up your words.
Lets say I have 12 words.
example :
horse cart battery staple world spent locked secret shares hidden coins forever
for this example we will use the online demo page for SSSS
(DO NOT USE THIS FOR LIVE FUNDS NEVER SHARE YOUR SEED TO ANY ONLINE SITE!)
http://point-at-infinity.org/ssss/demo.htmlLets say I chose a recover threshold of 2 shares from a 4 share split.
I enter the seed above into the SSSS tool and I am given 4 shares
1-3e0f282a2bf76286d1d3188cbc7e239b94a51e2640003be96fc16b8aa0eba4666bfb1e948dd68782194225571d48de621d888b9908ac82d7f1f6a30e694e467c60a93a113513ce56adc06bf7295125
2-97a7cec1b9189b697c0d17be038b117cb8e5370774a4101216867cdd820cc09d41cd9818303aab097f9eeaf3751d707a1e613b0b6d8147560181412701f0ba05b0fb8ea70fee64d22aac0c85bffbcd
3-0f3f9367374233cc18b8ed506927ff21a3252fe798c7f6bb3e448e109c51e33458201a63a49eb08fa22aaf90ad2e158de0c654854e9a042951ac1f3fd99aee2d00ca1d3519bafd51a877d1abcd9c6a
4-c4f603169cc768b627b109db7c6174b2e06565451dec47e4e4085273c7c2096b15a095014be2f21fb22775bba5b62c4a19b25a2fa7dacc55e16e8575d08d42f6105ee7cb7a1531db2474c26092ac04
Now there is no way for someone to recover the seed words without 2 of the above shares 2 / 4 to recover the seed.
if you pick any 2 of the above and enter them into the decode tool and recover the seed words.
I picked shares 1 and 4 to make the recovery.
You can set any amount of share or any threshold to recover them.
If you decided to do this I would recommend downloading the source code for SSSS and running it in a offline environment.
And again DO NOT enter your seed with funds to the demo page of SSSS only use it as a reference.