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i use software called NetLimiter to limit the upstream available to the bitcoin client (amongst other things)
Thanks for the tip, I'd use my router QOS feature if I was concerned. Just wont be running it.
You won't see me running a node until I can
at least control the number of connections.
(for obvious reasons, one of them being; not able to use my home connection reliably)
Also, It's not written
anywhere what port it is using, although it has a "Map using UPnP" feature which nobody security conscious should be using.
Oh and the "Help" menu provide no help whatsoever. Not that I needed any, apart for knowing what port I should forward. (8333, I know)