I’ve had exchanges take routinely over two weeks to get me my cash from a small coin sale. Your information superhighway has some very large Los Angeles style traffic jams going on every day.
No doubt about that. But I'm not too concerned. Anyone touting the Bitcoin protocol as some perfect, instant or cheap/free system is simply wrong. That's the cost of decentralization; it's a simple decentralized messaging protocol. Every message comes with storage, bandwidth and propagation costs.
I hear you. This was, however, a byproduct of the ecosystem that Satoshi foresaw as well. Mainstream adoption of a deflationary money necessarily means the cost to adopt it will increase, especially in the context of decentralization, where every transaction adds costs to the system.
There are systems that can interact with Bitcoin's protocol that can significantly lower the costs and delays associated with it -- with potential security and privacy trade-offs. Lightning and sidechains are both a reality now. It'll be interesting to see how their adoption affects on-chain traffic, especially since interacting with them requires on-chain transactions.
I'm cautiously optimistic, but I won't lie. I am genuinely disturbed by the greed and cult-like behavior we see in this "community." I think that we can build a better future with decentralized tools like cryptocurrency, but I'm almost looking forward to a bear market where the price doesn't dominate all discussions.