I said "no" but it's also not clear to me what the question means.
Last time I used USD to buy coffee instead of a card was probably over twenty years ago-- okay maybe I used some pocket change a couple times in between-- is USD a failure because of that?
USD is a worse money than Bitcoin from several different perspectives, so in general I try to get rid of it ASAP-- and that means spending it preferentially and preferring to be net short it (e.g. by having a zero interest rate credit card balance for a month). By comparison, Bitcoin is better so I prefer to spend it last unless its uniquely good properties are called on.
These days Bitcoin isn't a great match for spending a couple bucks on coffee-- and no I don't mean transaction fees (since obviously lightning is a good fit for that usage)-- but because it has disadvantageous tax treatment: spending time to account for and report cap gains for a $1 cup of coffee would be absurd. But so what?
The question is to know what matters to people more, "Paypal" or censorship-resistance. I believe many posters in the forum still hasn't understood why Bitcoin was designed the way it was designed.
I think it's even simpler than DooMAD's answer: For the most part they don't run nodes themselves (otherwise ... they probably wouldn't be big blockers!) and admitting that the absurd resource costs even at current load levels is a factor would crush their arguments, yet they're already suicide-pact committed to blocksize-go-up and so to resolve the dissonance they take the position that it doesn't matter how resource intensive it is because people shouldn't be running them.