So when a gambler wins a bit on the site, it's polite for an investor to tell one to "yolo that shit" and of course after the gambler ends up losing (s)he is naturally laughed at in the chat by other users and moderators? This is exactly the idea I got on the chat. It's not my only bad experience with the site. I am not going to be returning the site and I don't want to give it a positive review just because of the image the moderators of the chat gave me.
Oh gosh, sweetie. You've known the individual for over a year who said that to you - I would assume you know how he jokes.
You were offered condolences on your loss, but you appeared to be rather upset about losing your BTC; however, you chose to gamble, and you cannot place the blame on the individual who said to YOLO it. You weren't laughed at, and I'm sorry you feel that way.
To be honest, it seemed like you were more upset by bumping into a particular individual that you didn't like, and the way you acted about your loss was a bit off-putting. I believe that people were trying to lighten up the chat - especially since you were starting to get into a fight with one of the Super Users, and began to use personal attacks against him regarding something that he's been working hard to fix.
I'm sorry you didn't enjoy your time at BitVest. Should you chose to, the faucet is always available to you to try and win back your loss.
Best wishes.