There are scalability workshops next month and in December. Perhaps the core devs will decide to increase the blocksize afte that. meanwhile, miners are voting to implement their own solution. The situation will come to a head sooner or later, probably in the next 12 months if not before.
Yes, this is how I am feeling as well. I hope that there will be some consensus reached in these workshops. After all, I guess that's why they are organizing them. Will the XT people, Gavin and Heart attend these workshops as well?
Meanwhile, the price is headed up again. I guess that everybody are slowly getting over this problematic. In my mind, after reading a lot, Bitcoin of the future will either accommodate everybody, with large blocks and a space for all of the transactions, or it will be left for only some part of financial services, since the blocks won't be big enough and its use will be scarce and limited for niche markets, if we leave the blocks where they are.