Yea your words gladdens my heart the way you place them which is exactly true, the type of wife or the choice's we make in marriage affect us either positively or negatively and no doubt about that. Marriage is another responsibility that may affect a man's accumulation process, and if not handled properly it will really affect him. Surely there was a time when a man was not married, and did better in there accumulation process and was unable to do it when the got married simply because they are new to the system of marriage and may be tempted to make their partner happy by spending much on them which may become problematic, because women easily get addicted to how you treat them from the beginning. One of the problem men face is that when they got married newly with a woman, they are too quick to spend much as a kind of showing love and affection and the woman may get accustomed to it and may be a problem when man want to adjust to make his accumulation process a better one. And by them the woman may think the man is not a good man because he chose to adjust. Though there are factor that affect a man accumulate process by the type of wife.
1 marrying a wrong partner who does care about your welfare but only what pleases her
2. Marrying an extravagant woman
3. Marrying a good woman but indirectly currupt her by over spending.
conclusion
My advice is that when you are newly married, don't over spend from the beginning of your marriage if you know you are a holder. Because it will definitely affect you. How it affects you has been explained above. When you start over spending from the beginning without a child, definitely when you both have a child or children you may not be able to accumulate any longer. But if you have learnt to adjust from the beginning even when you have children you will be deciplined to know how you can be able to accumulate without Given up or dip diving into your discretion. because the more you have more children the more difficult it is to accumulate expecially when your source of income may not be as big as you expect.
I have an advice that will truly gladden every man's heart if they are lucky enough to have it happen to them!
- Find a very rich girl to marry and love her like she's the only woman left in the world!
I believe if you could do that, you will probably have no problem looking for capital to deploy for your monthly DCA or Buy the DIP strategies.
She doesn't have to be beautiful, just rich is enough.