If you do not increase the max block size, it makes it possible to spam the blockchain with traditional transactions so that not even SegWit transactions make it in.
One could do that using multi sig transactions today, and no-one does. It's an attack that costs alot of money compared to it's effectiveness, hence it doesn't happen in practice. Filling every single block with nothing but attack transactions would cost a fortune, the attacker would push the Bitcoin price to the moon all by themselves in order to pay the fees to do it. Only the ultra rich could do it, and it seems they're not interested to throw that amount of money away.
But if you do increase the max block size to make that harder, then it is possible to spam the blockchain with SegWit transactions that are really heavy on the witness data causing blocks that take a lot more space. For example with the current 1MB blocks you could craft SegWit transactions that result in 4 MB of actual data, which is far greater than what most people are currently proposing.
That attack is possible now. The ratio of signature to tx-data can be expanded massively in a regular 1MB block, DoS'ing block space from people who wnat to use it benignly. Segregating the signatures doesn't alter an attackers ability to do this at all. It falls into the same category as the attack in your first paragraph, far too expensive to do, except for the ultra rich.
You should try to understand Segwit better before you make such ill-considered assessments.
If instead of segregating the witness data to become part of the coinbase, you use something like FlexTrans - then when you set a max block size, that is the actual max block size whether the transactions use FlexTrans or not.
There are huge problems with FlexTrans that you've demonstrated already you prefer to ignore. Let's not forget that FlexTrans was designed by the same incompetent who gave us xThin block propagation, which carried not 1 but 2 fatal bugs, 1 of which was recently exploited to BU's demise.
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