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Quote from: BitMaxz on December 07, 2015, 05:03:53 PM

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Guys what do you think for you that what cab be causes of the gambling?

My wife and her family broke(poor) in this gambling because my wife addicted on some gambling
called binggo, she's addicted in that game and she can't control by her parents and also her house and lot sold
to use it to play binggo again.. but still lost it..
For now she is still suffer about this and looking for another way to get it back all her losses...

sorry to hear that, that's a very sad story, bingo has very low expected return, which means very high house edges, unless a very very few lucky guys who can win the jackpot, ordinary people don't have luck on it. if she likes betting on sports betting or blackjack, that's will be a different story, maybe she will be rich from sports betting or blackjack

Yeah i agree with you but she's addicted in binggo and even a i explain it much. it will not work..
maybe someday she can realize what her doing before.. and someday she realize that the money is important in our life..

this kind of games like bingo, lottery are wasting money games, so does keno or other similar lottery games, the house edges are high, a few people can win that, only 0.0001% lucky guys, so i never play that, i only play sports betting or blackjack, slots, which can be profitable.

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My advice is to leave your wife before you're going to be in a lots of quarrels and fights. She is a proper sane person, she would have stopped when the financial situation is already being broked..

Don't do this instead help her to recover and to remove her addictions in gambling. maybe it can help if you having a vacation.
make a money from signiture campaign and save it for this december 25 and make it happy. It can help to forgot the gambling..

There is no use of helping if the person doesn't wants to get helped.
any matured mother/wife would have cared about her family and stopped this shit when it got serious or affecting .Leaving her would be a wise choice i would say as gamblers could go any lengths to gamble .

It's his wife, not just a girlfriend. Who knows how long they're married for. There's history there. Leaving her would still leave her with a gambling addiction. How is that helping?

i agreed. it is easy to say if you are not the actual person. how is it easy to leave a person if you loved her so much and you have been with her for more than half of your life and maybe even have children etc.

well , I see the problem of third world mind. giving her a lecture it is not going to help her in any way other than just fooling yourself around her.
addict gamblers don't care for their's or family's life. It wont take long before she sleeps with some one who funds her addiction.
I wouldn't ask him to to carry this thing anymore.

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Quote from: BitMaxz on December 07, 2015, 01:23:25 PM

Guys what do you think for you that what can be causes of the gambling?

My wife and her family broke(poor) in this gambling because my wife addicted on some gambling
called binggo, she's addicted in that game and she can't control by her parents and also her house and lot sold
to use it to play binggo again.. but still lost it..
For now she is still suffer about this and looking for another way to get it back all her losses...

she's became very addicting for gambling i think this is very difficult situation and she must have willingness to stop do a gamble because even though she regretting all behaviors it could be useless if she still do a gamble

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Indeed just leaving her out of nowhere will not help, in fact it may put her into a depression and a downward spiral of even more gambling ruining her family as well as other people and even suicide, so you don't want to do that. She needs professional help, you can't do much by yourself other than search for this help.

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Quote from: LuckyYOU on December 08, 2015, 09:06:39 AM

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Quote from: UnknownUsername on December 07, 2015, 05:41:59 PM

My advice is to leave your wife before you're going to be in a lots of quarrels and fights. She is a proper sane person, she would have stopped when the financial situation is already being broked..

Don't do this instead help her to recover and to remove her addictions in gambling. maybe it can help if you having a vacation.
make a money from signiture campaign and save it for this december 25 and make it happy. It can help to forgot the gambling..

There is no use of helping if the person doesn't wants to get helped.
any matured mother/wife would have cared about her family and stopped this shit when it got serious or affecting .Leaving her would be a wise choice i would say as gamblers could go any lengths to gamble .

It's his wife, not just a girlfriend. Who knows how long they're married for. There's history there. Leaving her would still leave her with a gambling addiction. How is that helping?

i agreed. it is easy to say if you are not the actual person. how is it easy to leave a person if you loved her so much and you have been with her for more than half of your life and maybe even have children etc.

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Quote from: asuryan180 on December 08, 2015, 08:39:52 AM

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Quote from: UnknownUsername on December 07, 2015, 05:41:59 PM

My advice is to leave your wife before you're going to be in a lots of quarrels and fights. She is a proper sane person, she would have stopped when the financial situation is already being broked..

Don't do this instead help her to recover and to remove her addictions in gambling. maybe it can help if you having a vacation.
make a money from signiture campaign and save it for this december 25 and make it happy. It can help to forgot the gambling..

There is no use of helping if the person doesn't wants to get helped.
any matured mother/wife would have cared about her family and stopped this shit when it got serious or affecting .Leaving her would be a wise choice i would say as gamblers could go any lengths to gamble .

It's his wife, not just a girlfriend. Who knows how long they're married for. There's history there. Leaving her would still leave her with a gambling addiction. How is that helping?

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Quote from: crairezx20 on December 08, 2015, 05:12:53 AM

Quote from: UnknownUsername on December 07, 2015, 05:41:59 PM

My advice is to leave your wife before you're going to be in a lots of quarrels and fights. She is a proper sane person, she would have stopped when the financial situation is already being broked..

Don't do this instead help her to recover and to remove her addictions in gambling. maybe it can help if you having a vacation.
make a money from signiture campaign and save it for this december 25 and make it happy. It can help to forgot the gambling..

There is no use of helping if the person doesn't wants to get helped.
any matured mother/wife would have cared about her family and stopped this shit when it got serious or affecting .Leaving her would be a wise choice i would say as gamblers could go any lengths to gamble .

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Quote from: UnknownUsername on December 07, 2015, 05:41:59 PM

My advice is to leave your wife before you're going to be in a lots of quarrels and fights. She is a proper sane person, she would have stopped when the financial situation is already being broked..

Don't do this instead help her to recover and to remove her addictions in gambling. maybe it can help if you having a vacation.
make a money from signiture campaign and save it for this december 25 and make it happy. It can help to forgot the gambling..

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Quote from: bitlancr on December 08, 2015, 04:28:43 AM

That's sad to hear this. It sucks to be in that kind of situation. You can only help her for so much and so long. I would say to keep trying to help her but it comes to a point where enough is enough. You can't let it get that far where you're suffering from her addcition. To get back from her losses she should just get a regular daily job that prevents her from gambling again.

well if it is an addiction, she will be curving to play. so even get back normal job, the carving is still there when she finish her work and she will now even gamble bigger cause she has more cash. the key is to stop the addiction and it is gonna take for a long period of time. so u really have to be patient.

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Leaving her is the worst possible thing that you can do. She became your wife for a reason. I'd say fight for it, you can help her, go to group meetings sorta like AA meetings, go to those kind of things with her and support her in the best possible ways that you can. At the same time, you can't let her gambling effect you in a negative way, you need to take care of yourself as well. Don't let it get to the point where you and your wife become bankrupt.

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That's sad to hear this. It sucks to be in that kind of situation. You can only help her for so much and so long. I would say to keep trying to help her but it comes to a point where enough is enough. You can't let it get that far where you're suffering from her addcition. To get back from her losses she should just get a regular daily job that prevents her from gambling again.

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Quote from: UnknownUsername on December 07, 2015, 05:41:59 PM

My advice is to leave your wife before you're going to be in a lots of quarrels and fights. She is a proper sane person, she would have stopped when the financial situation is already being broked..

Leaving the person won't be a solution for her, you need to help her control or other thing invite the family to join to stop gambling.
If she doesn't litsen than, I also might be going to leave her, but I would still try to help her addictions.

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Quote from: elizabethqueen on December 07, 2015, 08:05:18 PM

it was terrible story Cry

, since she is your wife and i think its must be your responsible to control your wife as you are her husband.
also dont let this thing happened deeper and deeper, take some time to vacation and fresh your wife mind.
gambling causing my friends lost their job, they have a debt and take a loan , lost and repeat in the end they broke and fired.

I think vacation is a good idea. I will planning with it on this december.
I will bring her to somewhere that she can relax her self and to stay away from gambling. and I will tell her about the
Situation and our problem. But the problem is i dont have money to bring her somewhere..
Maybe i need to find another way to earn a bitcoins for our vacation....

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Quote from: BitMaxz on December 07, 2015, 01:23:25 PM

Guys what do you think for you that what can be causes of the gambling?

My wife and her family broke(poor) in this gambling because my wife addicted on some gambling
called binggo, she's addicted in that game and she can't control by her parents and also her house and lot sold
to use it to play binggo again.. but still lost it..
For now she is still suffer about this and looking for another way to get it back all her losses...

http://www.helpguide.org/articles/addiction/gambling-addiction-and-problem-gambling.htm could be a page to start to learn about gambling addiction, but from your description, she is having very serious gambling addiction already and it is time to get some professional counselling face-to-face or over phone http://www.ncpgambling.org/help-treatment/.

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it was terrible story Cry

, since she is your wife and i think its must be your responsible to control your wife as you are her husband.
also dont let this thing happened deeper and deeper, take some time to vacation and fresh your wife mind.
gambling causing my friends lost their job, they have a debt and take a loan , lost and repeat in the end they broke and fired.

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Quote from: BitMaxz on December 07, 2015, 01:23:25 PM

Guys what do you think for you that what can be causes of the gambling?

My wife and her family broke(poor) in this gambling because my wife addicted on some gambling
called binggo, she's addicted in that game and she can't control by her parents and also her house and lot sold
to use it to play binggo again.. but still lost it..
For now she is still suffer about this and looking for another way to get it back all her losses...

There are many possible factors that causes one to be addicted to gambling and everyone has different reasons.
Your wife addicted to bingo may be because the excitement that she get when she is playing, IMO. You should tell her to stop wasting her money on bingo gambling and asked her to play with her child (if she has one) instead.

Just my 2 cents.

PS: I'm sorry to hear that...

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many things that cause people to gambling, which has become a hobby of the person, or need a lot of money in a short time, there are many more reasons but I know only two reasons alone

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Quote from: BitMaxz on December 07, 2015, 01:23:25 PM

Guys what do you think for you that what can be causes of the gambling?

My wife and her family broke(poor) in this gambling because my wife addicted on some gambling
called binggo, she's addicted in that game and she can't control by her parents and also her house and lot sold
to use it to play binggo again.. but still lost it..
For now she is still suffer about this and looking for another way to get it back all her losses...

Why is your wife is the only one with money? make sure you have your own money source at all times.
Addictions take time to overcome. Try to find out the reasons of her gambling? is it money? is it the thrill? don't be judgemental just research.

Gambling is fun but she shouldn't depend her life on it.

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Quote from: BitMaxz on December 07, 2015, 01:23:25 PM

Guys what do you think for you that what can be causes of the gambling?

My wife and her family broke(poor) in this gambling because my wife addicted on some gambling
called binggo, she's addicted in that game and she can't control by her parents and also her house and lot sold
to use it to play binggo again.. but still lost it..
For now she is still suffer about this and looking for another way to get it back all her losses...

Sad story.

One thing I see is the winning experience and so called beginners luck. In my case I don't get easily attracted to any kind of gambling until I won and decided to continue.

In case of your story, bingo is really addictive because of high chance of winning especially playing with your neighbors when you are against only at a few numbers of players and the card has cheap price so you can buy a quiet large numbers of card to increase success rates. But if you played at the big bingo stations, you really need a large money to play for hours because every piece of card is somehow expensive than the cards outside the bingo stations.

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Quote from: BitMaxz on December 07, 2015, 01:23:25 PM

Guys what do you think for you that what can be causes of the gambling?

My wife and her family broke(poor) in this gambling because my wife addicted on some gambling
called binggo, she's addicted in that game and she can't control by her parents and also her house and lot sold
to use it to play binggo again.. but still lost it..
For now she is still suffer about this and looking for another way to get it back all her losses...

I'm feel sorry to your wife man, you should tell her to stop for your future children. it's not good habit for your wife and your family. a bit shock when heard woman addicted gambling, better take her to conseling.

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