It just makes it a shared problem, so that when hashing power goes down, it goes down for all blockchains. When Bitcoin and Namecoin mining are merged, the total hashing power will still be driven almost entirely by Bitcoin profitability (because you would be getting an equal amounts of bitcoins and namecoins, and bitcoins are much more valuabe). So any scenario that would make Bitcoin hashing power drop suddenly right now (pick your favorite), would cause merged hashing power to also drop, causing problems to both chains.
It's true that merged mining would fix the current problem Namecoin is having, but only until Bitcoin faces similar issues.
It's not such a big deal with Bitcoin. There are significant market exit barriers to Bitcoin mining. With Namecoin there are not, because every Namecoin miner used to mine Bitcoins until the "dreaded" tvori chart appeared that said "go mine Namecoins, it's more profitable" and a lot of people (though not everybody, and this is important) switched. After the difficulty change it was easy for everybody to just go back to Bitcoin mining, leaving the young and undeveloped Namecoin chain to starve.
With Bitcoin, what else is there to do? Even if a more profitable method came along, it takes some time for people to switch, due to market entry barriers. Namecoin for example had the problem that there was (and is, afaik) no nifty GUI client, you had to generate a valid address first on the command line, plus no USD/NMC exchanges yet, even more volatile than Bitcoins, etc. etc. That protected Bitcoin from an instant drain of mining power, even though homo oeconomicus would have switched mining to the more profitable (at that time) Namecoin.
So what we would see with Bitcoin mining is a slower decrease in hashing power, dragging the time until the next difficulty change a bit but not too much. Adding to that is the fact that there are a
lot of Bitcoin miners at very different profitability levels. You will see people dropping out one after the other. Heck, my energy cost is equivalent to $.30/KWh and I'm still mining! Until it hits the level where, say, $.07 per KWh is too expensive, there will be no "collapse". Bitcoin could technically survive on just one machine generating blocks. Although that would mean certain death in terms of acceptance. But the only real problem with a dropping difficulty is that people might have to wait longer for their confirmations.
That means that a block generation time of 15 minutes might not be unheard of, but I highly doubt that that's enough "lag" to drive people away. 30 minutes or more, sure, maybe. But we are currently not at the point where it matters much how long you have to wait for confirmations. Even with POS systems, they are looking for ways to be totally independent of block generation intervals, so in the long term it won't matter at all, I guess.
tl;dr summary: Bitcoin mining will not collapse for the market exit barriers, thus people will not have to wait for blocks for longer than usual and won't quit Bitcoin altogether.