You can either secure your house with a $10,000 steel vault door, or a $20 plywood door that anybody can kick in. Pick your option.
This isn't a binary choice, you know. There are in-betweens that are reasonably priced and reasonably secure.
The problem is that first of all it is not the house that the lock protects. The lock protects your TV and maybe sofa from theft. Not the house itself. Even if somebody enters and burns the house down, you still have the land. Moreover, you need only to worry about local thieves. For the Bitcoin network, the danger is the the whole world. In case of the house, it's the law system that gives you most of the protection. I'm not sure if it will work for Bitcoin. In my opinion, given Bitcoin rules, malicious block reorganizations would probably be perfectly legal.
I do agree though that Bitcoin transaction fees suffer from a tragedy of the commons situation that hasn't been resolved yet. However, it will take decades before this becomes a serious problem, and it won't become a problem overnight, so this will give us plenty of time to think of a solution.
I'm not sure what you mean by "tragedy of the commons" but I understand that fee problem is such that miners protects the whole Bitcoin value. But fees are paid only by those who make transactions. Hoarders who gain most from this protection do not have to pay a dime. Why hoarders gain? Because BTC value is related to the stability of the payment system. If the system gets unreliable, there are double spends, unconfirmed transactions and all kind of mess due to >50% attacks, the value of BTC will drop and drop hard if it becomes the norm. And there is no easy (or probably any) solution to this problem. Do you really think that hoarders will voluntarily start to pay fees to keep it running? If I were a hoarder I would sit and relax and let others pay my share.
A statement "free market will sort it out" is true but it will sort it out probably simply by driving the Bitcoin value to the ground. And then nobody will care about bringing down the Bitcoin network. Knowing ahead of this problem will not help if the Bitcoin Nash equilibrium is for Bitcoin to bite the dust.