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peter0425

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Quote from: eXPHorizon on May 10, 2021, 06:23:08 AM

I think to keep the fire going you both need to do things that ignite the fire in you both, like excitement etc. try to feel like an Teenager again and explore the possibilities . That is my take

But how can this be possible if you are raising Kids?

how can you make things like a teenager when you have to feed, cook ,wash and bring to school your children?

i think this will be applicable for those who are in Mature married life meaning at least 15 and up years of being married?

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Quote from: JonWilliams on May 05, 2021, 08:55:24 AM

Look around the animal kingdom, few if any have this social construct.

Humans aren't that animals you think. Humans were created to have a soul and spirit being like God. That's what the Bible talks about at the creation of Adam - to make man in the likeness of God. I think the issue of divorce is mostly man's crave for satisfaction at every little frustration. That of the Gates takes the crown and beggars disbelief.

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Quote from: hilariousandco on May 05, 2021, 12:46:01 PM

Don't get married. Problem solved.

hahahaha, so true. Shocked

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Quote from: cryptospy eye on May 12, 2021, 08:05:52 AM

Be faithful to your partner simply.

this is a two way effort mate because even how faithful you are but if your partner does not then what is the sense?

you must put your children in center of the relationship and always consider the feeling of each other.

we are not deciding for our self but for the whole family as one.

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Quote from: BADecker on May 14, 2021, 04:37:48 PM

Sometimes it becomes murder when it's stopped.
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Divorce, how can we stop it.?

Sometimes it becomes murder when it's stopped.

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Quote from: decodx on May 14, 2021, 07:07:27 AM

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Quote from: Ucy on May 12, 2021, 11:34:50 AM

No one should divorce in the first place except a partner commits adultery.
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Seriously? Not even in cases of physical or mental abuse? What about cases of child abuse?
No matter what background you come from, I find it odd that adultery is the only valid reason for divorce that you mentioned.

Better to get counseled by qualified marriage counsellor (I recommend counsels from true servants of the CREATOR of Humans and the marriage institution).
If it doesn't get settled, the couple could stay seperatey, without getting married to another people, maybe until they are able to reconcile, forgive each and continue living as family.
It's also important they stick together for the sake of their kids

And who are the true servants of the CREATOR? Can you name some?

They are basically people annoited by the CREATOR of Heaven and Earth (GOD) to serve HIM. You serve GOD by doing things that pleases HIM always or by obeying HIS Law of Love and doing his Will

How to know HIS true servants : By their fruits, you shall know them.
*Fruit = their deeds

True servants of GOD do not produce bad fruits. They produce good fruits always. Once you find such people, investigate their lives more properly to make sure they do what pleases the CREATOR always...then you could pay them a visit for free of charge counseling.

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Quote from: Ucy on May 14, 2021, 04:12:43 AM

Quote from: decodx on May 12, 2021, 02:08:58 PM

Quote from: Ucy on May 12, 2021, 11:34:50 AM

No one should divorce in the first place except a partner commits adultery.
/cut/

Seriously? Not even in cases of physical or mental abuse? What about cases of child abuse?
No matter what background you come from, I find it odd that adultery is the only valid reason for divorce that you mentioned.

Better to get counseled by qualified marriage counsellor (I recommend counsels from true servants of the CREATOR of Humans and the marriage institution).
If it doesn't get settled, the couple could stay seperatey, without getting married to another people, maybe until they are able to reconcile, forgive each and continue living as family.
It's also important they stick together for the sake of their kids

And who are the true servants of the CREATOR? Can you name some?

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Quote from: Nickbryan10 on May 05, 2021, 08:31:31 AM

For many years many have wondered the real cause of a divorce could it be cheating, money, name them. We have sen it all.
Human beings are insatiable and the human mind? Hmmm, we can't figure out the working mechanism of it. With the recent divorce of bill and Melinda gate, many are wondering what could be the solution to divorce. For a couple as rich and educated as bill and Melinda gates to divorce I don't no who can say the perfect plan to end divorce Is this.

It's somehow strange, at this age being married for almost 27 years what could probably course a divorce like this. Where and who are you going to start a relationship with. But to stop a divorce It's essential to recognize that fight-or-flight pattern in yourself and stop reacting. Your goal is to be the mature, kind, and loving person your partner fell in love with, not the anxious, angry person in survival mode.

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Quote from: decodx on May 12, 2021, 02:08:58 PM

Quote from: Ucy on May 12, 2021, 11:34:50 AM

No one should divorce in the first place except a partner commits adultery.
/cut/

Seriously? Not even in cases of physical or mental abuse? What about cases of child abuse?
No matter what background you come from, I find it odd that adultery is the only valid reason for divorce that you mentioned.

Better to get counseled by qualified marriage counsellor (I recommend counsels from true servants of the CREATOR of Humans and the marriage institution).
If it doesn't get settled, the couple could stay seperatey, without getting married to another people, maybe until they are able to reconcile, forgive each and continue living as family.
It's also important they stick together for the sake of their kids

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Devorse is something nobody can stop. It has been there right from the beginning. It's something that can happen to anyone. Nobody knew there would be a divorce in his/her marriage. If people See's divorce in the future of there marriage, they won't go into marriage.

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Divorce will always exist, because not all marriages can work well, and sometimes divorce is inevitable. Sometimes the original character of
our partners is only discovered after marriage, therefore getting married too quickly leads to a high percentage of divorces. We need to get to
know our spouses better before deciding to get married, so to reduce the percentage of divorce.

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Quote from: Ucy on May 12, 2021, 11:34:50 AM

No one should divorce in the first place except a partner commits adultery.
/cut/

Seriously? Not even in cases of physical or mental abuse? What about cases of child abuse?
No matter what background you come from, I find it odd that adultery is the only valid reason for divorce that you mentioned.

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No one should divorce in the first place except a partner commits adultery. Once you are joined together, you're bonded to become one body/flesh. Only thing that can seperate this bond is death. Why it's even allowed to seperate adulterous partner is because the bonding has been shared and won't be as strong as it was in the marriage..

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Be faithful to your partner simply.

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Quote from: eXPHorizon on May 10, 2021, 06:23:08 AM

I think to keep the fire going you both need to do things that ignite the fire in you both, like excitement etc. try to feel like an Teenager again and explore the possibilities . That is my take

and the best way? is to treat your Wife always being Courted , Give flowers and always ask Her permission in everything so the Heat will remain forever.

eXPHorizon

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Precision Beats Power and Timing Beats Speed.

I think to keep the fire going you both need to do things that ignite the fire in you both, like excitement etc. try to feel like an Teenager again and explore the possibilities . That is my take

peter0425

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Quote from: boyptc on May 07, 2021, 02:58:46 PM

Go these two countries that has no divorce.

--> https://www.abc.net.au/news/2018-10-09/the-philippines-is-one-of-two-countries-where-divorce-is-illegal/10332600

Yeah there is no Divorce here mate but there are tons of separation happening Grin

it is not the law that will prevent people from separation or divorce mate , because i can vouch for that Grin

Chato1977

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me and My wife almost come to Divorce way back , but we manage to make it better and now staying stronger more than before.

i think it is not about the laws or something but educate people to know their partner better before they got married so they will have proper understanding of each other to stay strong in marriage life.

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