Do you feel shameful for being a gambler? - page 17.

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Quote from: OshiHugo on December 21, 2016, 01:15:03 AM

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In many cultures and countries is gambling consider as a bad thing which only the poorest and silliest ones do. Many gamblers try to hide that they gamble from their friends and families and feel really shameful for that. Do you consider gambling as a bad thing? Do you feel shameful or proud for being a gambler? If it is shame what you feel what do you about it? How do you hide you're a gambler and who do you hide it from?
Let others know!

Before when l start to gamble l am very shameful because l feel like little bit like an ant. That l can't do anything but to gamble. Until I don't care what people say because they don't give me money to bet or anything else. But when time came lm always a loser, l have so many debts and different people looking at me for my payment .Im so much shameful being gambler. That's the biggest lesson in my life that I shouldn't go back.

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Quote from: quality.crypto on December 04, 2017, 10:11:07 PM

Some are making through gambling and some are making through trading. You are making money because some where some are loosing money. As gambler we should not feel any shy for making money through gambling.

If that is the case then we should be proud, but the reality is most of the gamblers are losing money that is why we are ask if we are shameful or not. The answer is very simple, it depends on your purpose, if you are gambling for fun then definitely you understand that losing is the amount of money you spend to get the entertainment, and if you are having fun then there is nothing to be ashamed of.

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I think it is not a shameful thing do gambling. But depend on the culture of country or area, people might see that as a shameful or unsuitable thing. Some people identify gambling as a illegal thing, done under the coverage of police and when they get caught and get beaten by police kind of thing. But gambling is available in legalized form and with a clear set of rules.

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Some are making through gambling and some are making through trading. You are making money because some where some are loosing money. As gambler we should not feel any shy for making money through gambling.

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There is nothing wrong with being a gambler for as long as you are using your own money to gamble and you are a responsible gambler. Know your limits always and do not let gambling control your life. Gambling is fun when you know how to properly enjoy it.

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Quote from: Khristian on October 29, 2017, 08:49:08 PM

for me it is not ashamed that that i am a gambler becouse i have money for gambling. It's a shame that I did not have that money and sell everything that you have your being addicted in gambling left you your family I'm so embarrassing you do not want to be ashamed you stop gambling for a good reason..

Yes. me too, being a gambler is not need to be ashamed unless you steal something just for your gambling needs. As for me i always threat gambling as my pastimes and self amusement to release stress and i am happy of that because i am always not after come of winning.

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Quote from: benmartin613 on December 03, 2017, 11:56:18 PM

No, I dont feel any shame at all for being a gambler, be ashamed if you did something wrong just to gamble like getting loan or selling something that you own just to play, its not a good habit for a gambler to do that and that is very shameful.

In real life, our reputation will be ruined if are a gambler and we have a lot of debt and we have too many unfed mouths. But if you are not like that, then never feel ashamed about your gambling habit.

Some gamblers I think can't feel anything, even if you tell them that "hey, your sons and daughters are not yet eating and yet you have a money for your vice". That thing should be shameful, but an addict never feel that, they are numb or just want to ignore.

Gambling is already considered bad by most people, so actually being a gambler is a shame because it is considered bad by most people. But the degree of shyness of people must be different, so there is a shame to be a gambler, some are not.

For your information, gambling is not a shameful thing. If you're really a gambler, you really don't mind to those people around you especially those judgemental people. It's your passion, no one can change of who you are nor stop you from gambling. And as for me, I really don't care what other people think about gambling. But of course, when you gamble, you have to make it sure that you can never harm anyone.

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Quote from: CryptosapienZA on December 04, 2017, 11:20:42 AM

Absolutely not. Gambling is a personal choice, the opinions of others have no bearing on how I choose to live my life. I don't judge others based on what they choose to do as extracurricular activity. So I should not be judged either. When I do get judged, I don't care. If someone doesn't help pay my bills, I don't care what they think of me and what I do.

And there's nothing to be ashamed of when you gamble. Things are lighter when you are gambling with peace and the money you are gambling isn't owned by others. As you mentioned judging, we can't please other people if they can't help themselves to judge us, let them judge us so that they'll get what they wanted. Just gamble without worries.

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Absolutely not. Gambling is a personal choice, the opinions of others have no bearing on how I choose to live my life. I don't judge others based on what they choose to do as extracurricular activity. So I should not be judged either. When I do get judged, I don't care. If someone doesn't help pay my bills, I don't care what they think of me and what I do.

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Quote from: Joriecoinbit on December 04, 2017, 09:41:11 AM

Yes, you're right! Everyone should mind their own business. As for me, it will only make you feel shameful if you harm someone or you didn't do your obligation to your family (this is intended for those people who have a family). You really have to know your priorities, and family should comes first before gambling. And as long as you fulfill your obligations to your family and you don't feel guilty when you gamble, then there's nothing to be shamed of. Do whatever makes you feel happy or satisfied in your daily lives.

It is about everyone to mind their own business but dont forget that when you have no more money or needs someone else's help, people could be saying that back to you. If people are giving you an advice especially a good advice for you to follow then appreciate it even if you dont want to follow it but again you should be showing good attitude

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Quote from: benmartin613 on December 03, 2017, 11:56:18 PM

No, I dont feel any shame at all for being a gambler, be ashamed if you did something wrong just to gamble like getting loan or selling something that you own just to play, its not a good habit for a gambler to do that and that is very shameful.

In real life, our reputation will be ruined if are a gambler and we have a lot of debt and we have too many unfed mouths. But if you are not like that, then never feel ashamed about your gambling habit.

Some gamblers I think can't feel anything, even if you tell them that "hey, your sons and daughters are not yet eating and yet you have a money for your vice". That thing should be shameful, but an addict never feel that, they are numb or just want to ignore.

Gambling is already considered bad by most people, so actually being a gambler is a shame because it is considered bad by most people. But the degree of shyness of people must be different, so there is a shame to be a gambler, some are not.

For your information, being a gambler is no need to be pay attention of other people to make you shy because it is your passion and nobody can change of who you are.

In general its none of their business if we do play gambling as long we are not making bad things into other people then it should be fine and as long other people cant see you broke or do have big problem because of gambling then theres nothing to be shy of. We do play gambling as long we do know our responsibilities and the things we should prior rather than on gambling.

Yes, you're right! Everyone should mind their own business. As for me, it will only make you feel shameful if you harm someone or you didn't do your obligation to your family (this is intended for those people who have a family). You really have to know your priorities, and family should comes first before gambling. And as long as you fulfill your obligations to your family and you don't feel guilty when you gamble, then there's nothing to be shamed of. Do whatever makes you feel happy or satisfied in your daily lives.

But still seeing on the situation on reality which there are really selfish people or gambler who do decide to play gambling without minding on their responsibility or the things that might happen ahead if they would decide to play too much or engage with it with severe addiction. Even though we do say some advice but yet they do neglect it but well its their own money and their own life which they should able to handle the possible consequences later on.

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Quote from: benmartin613 on December 03, 2017, 11:56:18 PM

No, I dont feel any shame at all for being a gambler, be ashamed if you did something wrong just to gamble like getting loan or selling something that you own just to play, its not a good habit for a gambler to do that and that is very shameful.

In real life, our reputation will be ruined if are a gambler and we have a lot of debt and we have too many unfed mouths. But if you are not like that, then never feel ashamed about your gambling habit.

Some gamblers I think can't feel anything, even if you tell them that "hey, your sons and daughters are not yet eating and yet you have a money for your vice". That thing should be shameful, but an addict never feel that, they are numb or just want to ignore.

Gambling is already considered bad by most people, so actually being a gambler is a shame because it is considered bad by most people. But the degree of shyness of people must be different, so there is a shame to be a gambler, some are not.

For your information, being a gambler is no need to be pay attention of other people to make you shy because it is your passion and nobody can change of who you are.

In general its none of their business if we do play gambling as long we are not making bad things into other people then it should be fine and as long other people cant see you broke or do have big problem because of gambling then theres nothing to be shy of. We do play gambling as long we do know our responsibilities and the things we should prior rather than on gambling.

Yes, you're right! Everyone should mind their own business. As for me, it will only make you feel shameful if you harm someone or you didn't do your obligation to your family (this is intended for those people who have a family). You really have to know your priorities, and family should comes first before gambling. And as long as you fulfill your obligations to your family and you don't feel guilty when you gamble, then there's nothing to be shamed of. Do whatever makes you feel happy or satisfied in your daily lives.

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Quote from: benmartin613 on December 03, 2017, 11:56:18 PM

No, I dont feel any shame at all for being a gambler, be ashamed if you did something wrong just to gamble like getting loan or selling something that you own just to play, its not a good habit for a gambler to do that and that is very shameful.

In real life, our reputation will be ruined if are a gambler and we have a lot of debt and we have too many unfed mouths. But if you are not like that, then never feel ashamed about your gambling habit.

Some gamblers I think can't feel anything, even if you tell them that "hey, your sons and daughters are not yet eating and yet you have a money for your vice". That thing should be shameful, but an addict never feel that, they are numb or just want to ignore.

Gambling is already considered bad by most people, so actually being a gambler is a shame because it is considered bad by most people. But the degree of shyness of people must be different, so there is a shame to be a gambler, some are not.

For your information, being a gambler is no need to be pay attention of other people to make you shy because it is your passion and nobody can change of who you are.

In general its none of their business if we do play gambling as long we are not making bad things into other people then it should be fine and as long other people cant see you broke or do have big problem because of gambling then theres nothing to be shy of. We do play gambling as long we do know our responsibilities and the things we should prior rather than on gambling.

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Quote from: diegz on December 04, 2017, 02:20:55 AM

Quote from: benmartin613 on December 03, 2017, 11:56:18 PM

No, I dont feel any shame at all for being a gambler, be ashamed if you did something wrong just to gamble like getting loan or selling something that you own just to play, its not a good habit for a gambler to do that and that is very shameful.

In real life, our reputation will be ruined if are a gambler and we have a lot of debt and we have too many unfed mouths. But if you are not like that, then never feel ashamed about your gambling habit.

Some gamblers I think can't feel anything, even if you tell them that "hey, your sons and daughters are not yet eating and yet you have a money for your vice". That thing should be shameful, but an addict never feel that, they are numb or just want to ignore.

Gambling is already considered bad by most people, so actually being a gambler is a shame because it is considered bad by most people. But the degree of shyness of people must be different, so there is a shame to be a gambler, some are not.

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Quote from: benmartin613 on December 03, 2017, 11:56:18 PM

No, I dont feel any shame at all for being a gambler, be ashamed if you did something wrong just to gamble like getting loan or selling something that you own just to play, its not a good habit for a gambler to do that and that is very shameful.

In real life, our reputation will be ruined if are a gambler and we have a lot of debt and we have too many unfed mouths. But if you are not like that, then never feel ashamed about your gambling habit.

Some gamblers I think can't feel anything, even if you tell them that "hey, your sons and daughters are not yet eating and yet you have a money for your vice". That thing should be shameful, but an addict never feel that, they are numb or just want to ignore.

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Quote from: benmartin613 on December 03, 2017, 11:56:18 PM

No, I dont feel any shame at all for being a gambler, be ashamed if you did something wrong just to gamble like getting loan or selling something that you own just to play, its not a good habit for a gambler to do that and that is very shameful.

As long as we are responsible in gambling then there is nothing to be shamed, it's our money at risk and we have the right to spend our own money.
Let the people judge us because we will not listen to them anyway, gambling is for risk takers and open minded people, when we know how to take risk we have a chance to improve our financial status in the future, it could not happen in gambling but I am sure we will learn a lot in gambling.

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I felt ashame a few times while I was looking to keep gambling and my friends weren't
sadly I turned to be a sick gambler on my early 20's on today's date I'm very happy that I quited
gambling on casinos, right now I do only make a few sports bets or play not limit holdem.

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No, I dont feel any shame at all for being a gambler, be ashamed if you did something wrong just to gamble like getting loan or selling something that you own just to play, its not a good habit for a gambler to do that and that is very shameful.

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Quote from: Raja_Salman on August 29, 2017, 10:29:14 AM

Actually embarrassed because our work can be considered junk or not in value because in some countries gambling is a game that is prohibited. but there are still many people who are proud to show off their gambling results

it is just the matter of how your actual environment works .

when you live in a place where gambling are something usual then why you should be shame? people talking about betting here and there freely , joking about that etc. op just have a bad place to gamble openly. move from that place if you feel not comfortable , pretty simple.

it has always been like that in what environment the person grew up in and that has become great factor in his or her attitude and characteristics. Probably people become ashamed because they can't control themselves in gambling or probably they just don't want relatives knowing that they are gambling.

For what reason do you feel terrible? Do you know the genuine importance of awful? Since you don't know how to bargain life and every one of these diversions and so forth since you are new to these sentiments I might want to state that you should need to enhance a few missteps since everyone gain from their oversight like that you will learn too so be persistence to each terrible emotions.

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Quote from: JL421 on August 14, 2017, 07:29:27 PM

Yes now i feel shameful not from others but from myself i stopped looking myself in the mirror. I was addicted to gambling for a long time i always spent every single bitcoin i earned on bitcoin when i realized how much i had lost it was almost late and then i decided to block myself from gambling forever

Regrets comes later when someone has lose everything. In the end, people are going to make sure that they win some money but they are just going to lose for more if they keep on playing. There is nothing to be ashamed of however if you actually feel guilty or whatsoever then you could stop, it is your choice afterall

you will feel sad and even guilty but what to do there is no way you can get a profit or somehow rectify that mistake the only solution is forget and move on if you try to cover your losses you will end up nowwhere and just keep increasing your losses more and more

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