Topic: Do you often take offense? (Read 175 times)
Yeah I'm not offended , I think no offense should be able to forgive and live with a good heart to live so it's easier
Make yourself positively, don't make a lot of negatives thinking rooted in your sense. Each person has an ability to differenties which one who will make his life better and which one who will make his life far from the better word. Maybe you have to move with your environment now and find an evironment who will make your life grow up positively.
You should control it before it gets too late. Accept that we sometimes are wrong and we should take offenses but not in a bad way. We should take offenses of other people in a good way so we could have a positive life.
For example, I`m very touchy .. And I do not know how to overcome it
It is part of our adamic nature to pick offences and that is why we need to work hard to keep our mind in check. Many good thinkers has said this " work on your mind and you have work on your life" I think our mind tent to go the way we did not want it go and that is why we are afraid of change.
No, I just don't care about this kind of things and I move on because I dont want to waste my time and create unnecessary problems when everything could have been avoided. You just have to don't give a damn fu*k about anyone that wants trouble with you. Ignore them and eventually they will stop doing because what they want is attention.
You need to grow up.
Personally though, I was also very touchy when I was young, but when I reaches around 12 years of age, I don't know my outlook suddenly change so I became a better person and didn't take take any offense as quickly as before. Maybe it will come with age, so don't you worry. Once you mature and take life seriously, you will change your outlook including taking offense from other people.
Personally though, I was also very touchy when I was young, but when I reaches around 12 years of age, I don't know my outlook suddenly change so I became a better person and didn't take take any offense as quickly as before. Maybe it will come with age, so don't you worry. Once you mature and take life seriously, you will change your outlook including taking offense from other people.
Rarely, even though I am a proud person.
You overcome it by building up a tolerance, keep exposing yourself to things that offend you till you are numb to it.
It's the same as building confidence, where you just build a resistance to embarrassment, 'cept you train yourself not to take things personally.
You overcome it by building up a tolerance, keep exposing yourself to things that offend you till you are numb to it.
It's the same as building confidence, where you just build a resistance to embarrassment, 'cept you train yourself not to take things personally.
Not anymore. I've grown out of it. Used to be a hothead when I was younger, though.
There is no reason why you can start to be offended by another person.
Such emotions are not permissible because they only harm you.
P.S. always pass offense by yourself ...
Such emotions are not permissible because they only harm you.
P.S. always pass offense by yourself ...
It is okay if your attitude is like that but you just need to know on how to act accordingly.
For example, I`m very touchy .. And I do not know how to overcome it
I think you have to make an effort to try to change that, because it can bring you many problems, you must be more sure of yourself, of having your self-esteem a little higher so that small things do not affect you, we live in a world where the important thing of all is to know how to tolerate, there are people of all kinds who must deal with them.
I get irritated if someone tries to "control" or
raise and argument with me. These people
especially who have no clue about the subject
they are talking about, yet they ask me so many
stupid questions.
I only accept smart questions.
raise and argument with me. These people
especially who have no clue about the subject
they are talking about, yet they ask me so many
stupid questions.
I only accept smart questions.
For me, it depends on who and why. If I feel like there is a bad intention, I take offense but I think I know how to make fun of myself or be my own critique.
Well, I think it will pass by itself, with the development of your personality, you will understand that no offense is not worth your nerves, health. Just do not communicate with those who offend you, or do not let them do it
Life is too short to worry about small things, just let it go.
I realize this, but I can’t do anything with myself
Nah, just ignore it coz it would just stress the hell out of you! Stay positive!
Life is too short to worry about small things, just let it go.
Yes, not only because of bad words but also because of bad ways of saying things. I can offend very quickly.
Do not allow yourself to be offended by others because only you are suffering from this and not your offenders.
Do not communicate with people who do not understand you and offend.
Do not communicate with people who do not understand you and offend.
Not really, unless the other person is starting to grow his voice with no reason and almost scream at me.
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