in today's era marriage is like a business transaction.
because with everyday marrriages are growing like business.
and in that business poor people are crushing between that stupid business strategy.
so we should not treat the marriage like a business.
but we should respect that relation in which two families and two people and two hearts are joining forever.
Topic: Do you see marriage as a business transaction? (Be honest). - page 3. (Read 3338 times)
For me its not. It should be a true love for each other and this material things is only second. But in todays time, most are materialistic and marriage is like a business transaction.So, if its a business transaction, the woman as a commodity? hope not.
Topic: Do you believe a majority of society sees marriage as more of a business deal, and not really a document proving love?
Question: Why would you get married? Do you think you need a piece of paper proving your love for someone? Do you want equitable distribution of the assets if you ever choose to separate? Are you looking for more cash benefits? Opportunities from the other person? Interested in free food? Perhaps massages? Etc? If you marry someone for nothing but "love", you might be marrying for the correct reasons but if you're marrying for the entitlement and services that come with it, do you think it's justified?
I believe so that most of this days marriage is just more about money, properties, position of work in short all about the person's wealth as per what movie says security. For me it is really hard to stay with the person whom you dont really love but as others would say you will learn to love that person.. Question: Why would you get married? Do you think you need a piece of paper proving your love for someone? Do you want equitable distribution of the assets if you ever choose to separate? Are you looking for more cash benefits? Opportunities from the other person? Interested in free food? Perhaps massages? Etc? If you marry someone for nothing but "love", you might be marrying for the correct reasons but if you're marrying for the entitlement and services that come with it, do you think it's justified?
That was a little graphic and an unnecessarily disturbing way to put it. As I do know, marriage views have kind of been the same way since the beginning if I'm not too mistaken.
Man up.
Even people who are still living treated marriage as as much of a duty as the fulfillment of their dreams. You stuck with it no matter what. These days it's gone too far the other way and people don't seem to be arsed enough to put any actual work in. I don't think either is a healthy way to live life.
Marriages are marriages and not a business transactions.
However few people are treating it in a business was which is not good for the society.
However few people are treating it in a business was which is not good for the society.
That was a little graphic and an unnecessarily disturbing way to put it. As I do know, marriage views have kind of been the same way since the beginning if I'm not too mistaken.
Man up.
Even people who are still living treated marriage as as much of a duty as the fulfillment of their dreams. You stuck with it no matter what. These days it's gone too far the other way and people don't seem to be arsed enough to put any actual work in. I don't think either is a healthy way to live life.
It certainly used to be a much more practical proposition than it is these days. I think introducing the concept of love into it has totally fucked it up.
It made sense when we were sturdy farmers looking for plump womanfriends to operate the house and squirt children out. These days you'd have to be fucking certifiable to do it.
The idea of betting your financial future and roof over your head on how someone you probably didn't know until relatively late in your life feels about you is nuts.
That was a little graphic and an unnecessarily disturbing way to put it. As I do know, marriage views have kind of been the same way since the beginning if I'm not too mistaken. It made sense when we were sturdy farmers looking for plump womanfriends to operate the house and squirt children out. These days you'd have to be fucking certifiable to do it.
The idea of betting your financial future and roof over your head on how someone you probably didn't know until relatively late in your life feels about you is nuts.
It certainly used to be a much more practical proposition than it is these days. I think introducing the concept of love into it has totally fucked it up.
It made sense when we were sturdy farmers looking for plump womanfriends to operate the house and squirt children out. These days you'd have to be fucking certifiable to do it.
The idea of betting your financial future and roof over your head on how someone you probably didn't know until relatively late in your life feels about you is nuts.
It made sense when we were sturdy farmers looking for plump womanfriends to operate the house and squirt children out. These days you'd have to be fucking certifiable to do it.
The idea of betting your financial future and roof over your head on how someone you probably didn't know until relatively late in your life feels about you is nuts.
I will marry someone I love. You know, after marriage, we will live in the same house with our spouse, so we need love to handle the house and the family.
IMO, the paper of marriage is the proof of our marriage. so people know and there will be no affair outside the marriage, no third person who annoy our relationship.
But if you actually divorce then she is entitled to equitable distribution of the assets. I'm not saying it's a business transaction, but there's paper work that deals with money and property. IMO, the paper of marriage is the proof of our marriage. so people know and there will be no affair outside the marriage, no third person who annoy our relationship.
I will marry someone I love. You know, after marriage, we will live in the same house with our spouse, so we need love to handle the house and the family.
IMO, the paper of marriage is the proof of our marriage. so people know and there will be no affair outside the marriage, no third person who annoy our relationship.
IMO, the paper of marriage is the proof of our marriage. so people know and there will be no affair outside the marriage, no third person who annoy our relationship.
If life partner considered as business transaction then answer is yes.
If better half is considered as business transaction then answer is yes.
If you feel both of them can lead a life and do good of family, society and world as a large then answer is yes.
If better half is considered as business transaction then answer is yes.
If you feel both of them can lead a life and do good of family, society and world as a large then answer is yes.
I see marriage as a business transaction. Why? We're investing in our furure. we pick people who would be perfect for us. We have our strategy plan and calculate everything. Even buying an engagement ring is kind of deposit, you can choose a perfect one http://www.kushdiamonds.com.au/ and she'll be giving you percentage (services, love, tenderness). I can show you more examples of this thing, but I guess you hat the point. Love, marriage is a huge investment. And you never know if this inverstment will be profitable or not. 
Some poeple have business when there is marriage. But for me, marriage is the time where u gonna settle with someone deserving that can give you care love and time to enjoy from all the day jobs.
There maybe some jokes about marriage but on the bright side we need someone when we growup. And i need to expand my bloodline.
There maybe some jokes about marriage but on the bright side we need someone when we growup. And i need to expand my bloodline.
I do not see marriage as business. Till sex and lust you can see marriage as business transaction, but from the love we get our next generation which is not coming with money, only with God's grace. So, marriage is to get our children. Our child are beyond any money or business.
The government certainly does, and they want their cut. Including their right to own the children. Government involvement in marriage should be abolished. They have no business being involved in it and have only caused the destruction of families by creating financial incentives like no fault divorce, alimony, and all kinds of state assistance for single mothers without a man in the house. The modern marriage laws have become little more than a system to subjugate men into a lifetime of servitude for little to nothing in return. All a woman has to do is poke a hole in a condom to own your earning potential for life.
Some ones bitter. Know a lot of people that think this way and usually can draw from life experience to validate their reasoning.
Had a boss when I was starting out in the trade ask me if I was married! He felt married men where more reliable,what it meant to me was these men had already been broken and would not be any issues. Would look around the lunch room and listen to dudes talking about their wives and how they where either thinking she was cheating or she never worked a day since they where together.
Was kind of messed up and left a lasting impression on me for what to look out for.
Quite often I can gauge a female by how she responds to my work. If she suddenly becomes more interested I know she is looking for a pay day and I am not the one. Or she looks disinterested she wants more and again I am lucky to dodge her.
I know people say its a conversation starter but it always feels odd when they find out I make decent bucks and the interest suddenly increases. Hate that.
My post agreed with him,funny how one line throws everything else out the window. But as you wish,back to badecker,techshare and what ever other loop you want for a closed debate.I want to show you some thing and I am not trying to be a dick. Read TecSHAREs post and this is not a dig at TecSHARE I know he can handle his own in this forum,but a attempt to show you are choosing to nit pick with me specifically. Say I am a female taking offense to what he states at the end for arguments sake.
Quote
All a woman has to do is poke a hole in a condom to own your earning potential for life.
You let this go but get bent about me stating his mood,seems fishy to me!Telling me how to act in the forum is really none of your concern,I will state what I have to say and if you have a problem thats fine.
But I do not have to listen,just like you have the choice to block my posts. You can not censor people because you do not like the color of my posts,its ridiculous.
Will respect that you asked me even if it does make little sense. If you have issues with me by all means hit me in private message and I will listen and hear you out. Sorry to hijack but that felt weird and I had to get at the issue.
The government certainly does, and they want their cut. Including their right to own the children. Government involvement in marriage should be abolished. They have no business being involved in it and have only caused the destruction of families by creating financial incentives like no fault divorce, alimony, and all kinds of state assistance for single mothers without a man in the house. The modern marriage laws have become little more than a system to subjugate men into a lifetime of servitude for little to nothing in return. All a woman has to do is poke a hole in a condom to own your earning potential for life.
Some ones bitter. Know a lot of people that think this way and usually can draw from life experience to validate their reasoning.
Had a boss when I was starting out in the trade ask me if I was married! He felt married men where more reliable,what it meant to me was these men had already been broken and would not be any issues. Would look around the lunch room and listen to dudes talking about their wives and how they where either thinking she was cheating or she never worked a day since they where together.
Was kind of messed up and left a lasting impression on me for what to look out for.
Quite often I can gauge a female by how she responds to my work. If she suddenly becomes more interested I know she is looking for a pay day and I am not the one. Or she looks disinterested she wants more and again I am lucky to dodge her.
I know people say its a conversation starter but it always feels odd when they find out I make decent bucks and the interest suddenly increases. Hate that.
My post agreed with him,funny how one line throws everything else out the window. But as you wish,back to badecker,techshare and what ever other loop you want for a closed debate.I want to show you some thing and I am not trying to be a dick. Read TecSHAREs post and this is not a dig at TecSHARE I know he can handle his own in this forum,but a attempt to show you are choosing to nit pick with me specifically. Say I am a female taking offense to what he states at the end for arguments sake.
Quote
All a woman has to do is poke a hole in a condom to own your earning potential for life.
You let this go but get bent about me stating his mood,seems fishy to me!Telling me how to act in the forum is really none of your concern,I will state what I have to say and if you have a problem thats fine.
But I do not have to listen,just like you have the choice to block my posts. You can not censor people because you do not like the color of my posts,its ridiculous.
Will respect that you asked me even if it does make little sense. If you have issues with me by all means hit me in private message and I will listen and hear you out. Sorry to hijack but that felt weird and I had to get at the issue.
The government certainly does, and they want their cut. Including their right to own the children. Government involvement in marriage should be abolished. They have no business being involved in it and have only caused the destruction of families by creating financial incentives like no fault divorce, alimony, and all kinds of state assistance for single mothers without a man in the house. The modern marriage laws have become little more than a system to subjugate men into a lifetime of servitude for little to nothing in return. All a woman has to do is poke a hole in a condom to own your earning potential for life.
Some ones bitter. Know a lot of people that think this way and usually can draw from life experience to validate their reasoning.
Had a boss when I was starting out in the trade ask me if I was married! He felt married men where more reliable,what it meant to me was these men had already been broken and would not be any issues. Would look around the lunch room and listen to dudes talking about their wives and how they where either thinking she was cheating or she never worked a day since they where together.
Was kind of messed up and left a lasting impression on me for what to look out for.
Quite often I can gauge a female by how she responds to my work. If she suddenly becomes more interested I know she is looking for a pay day and I am not the one. Or she looks disinterested she wants more and again I am lucky to dodge her.
I know people say its a conversation starter but it always feels odd when they find out I make decent bucks and the interest suddenly increases. Hate that.
My post agreed with him,funny how one line throws everything else out the window. But as you wish,back to badecker,techshare and what ever other loop you want for a closed debate.Topic: Do you believe a majority of society sees marriage as more of a business deal, and not really a document proving love?
Question: Why would you get married? Do you think you need a piece of paper proving your love for someone? Do you want equitable distribution of the assets if you ever choose to separate? Are you looking for more cash benefits? Opportunities from the other person? Interested in free food? Perhaps massages? Etc? If you marry someone for nothing but "love", you might be marrying for the correct reasons but if you're marrying for the entitlement and services that come with it, do you think it's justified?
Question: Why would you get married? Do you think you need a piece of paper proving your love for someone? Do you want equitable distribution of the assets if you ever choose to separate? Are you looking for more cash benefits? Opportunities from the other person? Interested in free food? Perhaps massages? Etc? If you marry someone for nothing but "love", you might be marrying for the correct reasons but if you're marrying for the entitlement and services that come with it, do you think it's justified?
I think that still most people marry because of love, not money.
Be realistic, most people are not reach and can't give any money or wealth to his/her partner, only love and care.
Maybe you watch to much American TV?
Believe me, this is not reality in most cases today, anywhere in the world.
Why to marry?
It's spiritual commitment for believers and also you show how serious you are about this love and your partner.
Words are empty without concrete action to prove it.
Topic: Do you believe a majority of society sees marriage as more of a business deal, and not really a document proving love?
Question: Why would you get married? Do you think you need a piece of paper proving your love for someone? Do you want equitable distribution of the assets if you ever choose to separate? Are you looking for more cash benefits? Opportunities from the other person? Interested in free food? Perhaps massages? Etc? If you marry someone for nothing but "love", you might be marrying for the correct reasons but if you're marrying for the entitlement and services that come with it, do you think it's justified?
Question: Why would you get married? Do you think you need a piece of paper proving your love for someone? Do you want equitable distribution of the assets if you ever choose to separate? Are you looking for more cash benefits? Opportunities from the other person? Interested in free food? Perhaps massages? Etc? If you marry someone for nothing but "love", you might be marrying for the correct reasons but if you're marrying for the entitlement and services that come with it, do you think it's justified?
I think that still most people marry because of love, not money.
Be realistic, most people are not reach and can't give any money or wealth to his/her partner, only love and care.
Maybe you watch to much American TV?
Believe me, this is not reality in most cases today, anywhere in the world.
Why to marry?
It's spiritual commitment for believers and also you show how serious you are about this love and your partner.
Words are empty without concrete action to prove it.
Jump to: