Topic: Does a modern woman marry for love or for securities(money and the likes)? (Read 466 times)
March 25, 2021, 02:43:29 AM
I think there are many issues to consider when getting married. If a marriage is only based on love and no material, then love will be consumed under the pressure of life. But if there is no love in a marriage, it is even more terrifying. Because no matter how rich you are, you will not feel happy.
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March 25, 2021, 05:44:47 AM
Maybe those women want to secure their life by loving the rich man. Especially we are still in the pandemic which many people need money to survive. They can not be blamed and think that is normal, but that will not be good if somehow, that man becomes poor and loses his money because that woman can leave him and search for the other rich man. I am not sure about that but I believe that woman marries a man because of a love feeling inside of their heart, and no matter what their condition, they will always try to survive and pass it together.
March 24, 2021, 11:00:35 PM
It depends on whether two people really love each other. If she loves you enough, no matter if you have money or not, she will marry you, but it does not rule out that there are many realistic girls. If she can’t give her what she wants, she may not marry you. , After all, getting married is a lifetime thing
March 24, 2021, 09:06:24 PM
I don't even know now why do they marry because there are people who goes into a relationship for securities not because of love.
But I think there are still some who commits because of love not just for money or other necessities.
But I think there are still some who commits because of love not just for money or other necessities.
March 24, 2021, 06:33:20 PM
Marriage these days have been hitting the rocks, hence the need to investigate the real cause. Anything built on love is known to stand the test of time, but these days, nothing lasts. Please share your opinion, i will like to be educate, so i can make a better decision before i get married. Thanks.
the reasons people get married of course vary...some are married for love, some are married because of age or matchmaking and some are married for money. Basically, everything has a reason and if you think that getting married for security reasons you are not also wrong.
March 24, 2021, 04:12:25 PM
We need to love everyone (you need to come to this conclusion yourself through your experience), but devote yourself to only one person (or a man can marry several women, depending on what traditions and your way of life in the place where you live). As far as I understand, marriage is not love, but an agreement from love, in order to become even better, in order to raise a new generation in love and care. It is clear that not everyone thinks in this way, but I think that you need to strive for spiritual purity, for high ideals in everything.
September 09, 2020, 05:44:55 AM
It is depending upon the women nature, and preferance. If a women have real heart, no matter she is modern, she is marrying only for love care and respect. If a women have realistic preferences then women marrying for securities, property, money and bank balnce
September 09, 2020, 02:24:19 AM
It really depends. You should probably know tho, since I'd assume you guys have been dating for a while before you decide to get married. Marriage should be built on love, that's the foundation. But, we do live in reality, so financial security comes a long as well
July 13, 2020, 10:43:36 AM
Love and money are both important in marriage.Love is the ultimate
May 25, 2019, 06:58:33 PM
I guess it depends on the culture, and maybe we will never really know? The reason lies within the people who are involved. How stupid can you be if you think a person is marrying you only out of his/her benefit? Assess your partner or whomever you are about to be in. Do you think you’re both ready to be in it for the long run? Are you dating him/her just for fun? Or because you see your future with this person? A lot of cases for divorce and annulments due to miscommunication or maybe they weren’t supposed to end up together. When a couple breaks up or falls apart, it’s not a one-way situation, and it’s two way. No one is to blame but both of them. I’m not an expert these are all just theories and assumptions from people I’ve seen that have been through this.
May 23, 2019, 07:12:11 PM
Let us say somw women looking for a man for security reason they want there lives to be secure mostly in financial matter.but we also know not all women will marry a man just for security reason.they marry a man also for love and I believe that many women marry for love not just for money.
May 22, 2019, 10:15:45 AM
How to call these kind of women. 
“Pocket woman “I guess?lolYou mean golddiggers?
Woman that only look on how much you have in pocket before deciding to like you or not 😔
May 22, 2019, 03:15:38 AM
Of course, you will not receive due female attention if you don't have the money. A man must earn money. It is a fact. The more money the better. But initially you need to look for a woman for whom money is not the main thing. In the family the main thing is love and understanding. Look for a loving woman. For this, all the ways are good. Dating on the street, interest clubs, online dating sites (for example, https://www.flirt.com/ is good) and more. Yes, it may not be easy. You have to find exactly your woman who will become your wife.
May 21, 2019, 08:51:32 AM
A really hard topic to face for the rich people out there .
They wouldn't know if the love that their partner gives is true or just wants to be sweet to them because of their money,
If you really look at the current generation you would find that most of the people are willing to be in a relationship for
financial securities.
They wouldn't know if the love that their partner gives is true or just wants to be sweet to them because of their money,
If you really look at the current generation you would find that most of the people are willing to be in a relationship for
financial securities.
May 21, 2019, 05:51:42 AM
And secondly, about security point of view, you can have body guards, actually, husband can't give you security, but he will give you name and i think it is more powerful for you happiness and society point of view.
I believe it is about financial security.
One thing I believe, love can be learned. That is why, I believe most women get married for security then they will learn to love. There is some exception of course but most of the time one can't be together with who they loved and end up with who is available at that time. How can they marry someone they loved when the guy does not loved them at all? It is actually a complicated things
As the saying, Quote
Man does not live by bread alone
so does a relationship can't dwell on love alone. 
May 21, 2019, 02:20:37 AM
Marriage these days have been hitting the rocks, hence the need to investigate the real cause. Anything built on love is known to stand the test of time, but these days, nothing lasts. Please share your opinion, i will like to be educate, so i can make a better decision before i get married. Thanks.
I was surprised that you are asking this thread for yourself.
But anyway i will reply you, Firstly you should marry and better to choose which one you like most. Because you have a lot money and you could easily choose anyone, SO it is not a problem.
And secondly, about security point of view, you can have body guards, actually, husband can't give you security, but he will give you name and i think it is more powerful for you happiness and society point of view.
May 20, 2019, 11:46:29 PM
Well this is a topic that can only be in your decision, but I will help you, if you choose to marry for love, you will have all the possibilities of being happy, because your beloved will take care of you and accept you as you are, she will accept you until in coexistence and believe me is not easy, it is a delicate issue, at first everything is good, but afterwards it is difficult because the games of tolerance begin and it is very necessary that she is very much in love with you to accept all your things included with your mistakes and yours and the two can train each other, so it is good to marry with love, and when having children, it is something that totally changes life for the better, only when there is love, or there is love, because in the bad she will accompany you, however when you marry knowing that she seeks money or similar causes everything changes because the focus and the degree of tolerance on her part changes, she will not have the same acceptance towards you , if you have a to bad position, it is possible that infidelities begin to arise, if there are children a divorce is very ugly, but if the case is for love and if you have money, I think they will be very happy.
May 20, 2019, 12:31:03 PM
How to call these kind of women.
“Pocket woman “I guess?lolYou mean golddiggers?
May 20, 2019, 12:26:01 PM
I don't think "modern women marry for love"! We can see that by visit those Facebook group that deals with women as their discussion is security and money completely. If you don't have money your chances of merry a woman of your choice are very slim and since men understand that they also are focusing of making money to married beautiful woman.
May 20, 2019, 09:58:31 AM
Love and marriage are also became two different things in this modern world,people start loving the good and caring people but when it comes to marriage they will pick the person with huge bank balance even if they are a bad person.
As much as we hate to hear it, women nowadays are looking for those who has deep pockets. Doesn't matter how old the man is, as long as his bank account has 8 or 9 or 10 figures, then women can easily fall in 'love' with that man.Though I disagree on this one but it’s an obvious thing that in liberated countries money is all that matters for most of woman but in some religion countries,they still value the love that they felt than the money that they saw
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