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November 29, 2017, 12:40:01 AM
“The heart wants what the heart wants” is a cliché that couldn't be more accurate. We truly can't help with whom we fall in love. Love doesn't care if someone is older or younger, but we certainly do.Society holds a negative stigma regarding age differences, which causes people to obsess over it. And, that is why when we start developing feelings for people outside of our age brackets, we think our feelings are wrong.We often put up walls and flee for the mountains, but before shutting the door on the chance at love, think about your potential lover's maturity level.
If you both are on the same level of maturity, don't let the attached age number cloud your decision.Maybe you met an older lover when you were still immature. Each person we meet has a purpose in our life.Maybe this person isn't meant for you during your years of evolution, but you'll come back to each other when you each hold the same mindset. Or, maybe this person was in your life at the wrong time to teach you something. Whatever the case, it may have happened for a reason
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November 28, 2017, 08:27:02 PM
Age signifies so much more than just a number: it can reflect your maturity, your stage in life, and your experience.  At the same time, age can be deceptive.Does  it matter if men date younger women? If so, how much of an age gap is an acceptable one?
in some situation age matter in a relationship . Men can date any women he wants but he can not have a relationship with a women that is not the right age. This day even the couple is nit in the right age , as long as they say they love each other it ok. Love is the strongest feeling a man can feel with his opposite sex . In relationship one must have the patience ,and the other muat support his/her partner. Age nowadays with couples are not necessarily matter at all.
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November 28, 2017, 08:08:28 PM
Age signifies so much more than just a number: it can reflect your maturity, your stage in life, and your experience.  At the same time, age can be deceptive.Does  it matter if men date younger women? If so, how much of an age gap is an acceptable one?
Yes.  Age becomes society's basis of maturity and capability of the person to handle the relationship. It is also the basis of security and success of a person.  If a person in a relationship were both mature it would probably work.  If both immature,  it will surely break up.  If they have a large age gap, it can be fun and exciting but I don't think they would really work out.
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November 28, 2017, 08:01:08 PM
Age signifies so much more than just a number: it can reflect your maturity, your stage in life, and your experience.  At the same time, age can be deceptive.Does  it matter if men date younger women? If so, how much of an age gap is an acceptable one?

as long as you are not being deceptive, age is just a number. My wife is 9 years older than me. at times she is way more immature and brat'ish than me...at times i'm sure she'd tell you the opposite!
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November 28, 2017, 07:47:01 PM
For some young women who marry an 80 year old millionair age matters very much, because it is related with life expectancy. If the 80 year old millionar lives until 100 however all plans have to be changed.
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November 28, 2017, 05:35:11 PM
Age signifies so much more than just a number: it can reflect your maturity, your stage in life, and your experience.  At the same time, age can be deceptive.Does  it matter if men date younger women? If so, how much of an age gap is an acceptable one?

For me as I think as long as long as you are not old enough to be the parent of your partner would be okay. I guess roughly 15 years gap still works for me. But over that is sickening. Most men nowadays prefer younger ladies for the obvious reasons and it's the same for the old timers. They simply want fresh meat and they go as low as becoming sugar daddies of some young women. There are many fish in the sea and you can't run out of it so simply chose the ones that belong in your age bracket.
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November 28, 2017, 10:06:58 AM
Age signifies so much more than just a number: it can reflect your maturity, your stage in life, and your experience.  At the same time, age can be deceptive.Does  it matter if men date younger women? If so, how much of an age gap is an acceptable one?

It matters but sometime it is your love towards each other that will make it stronger.  As to how much the age gap will be, there is no specific year because there are many people who dates younger than them or older than them.  It is not on the age, it is on how much love you can give to that people.  Giving your time is the best way to say that you truly love that person.
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November 28, 2017, 09:58:44 AM
The only concern I'd have about a relationship with a large age gap is that the people involved may be at different stages in their lives and incompatible because of that. This is a pitfall regardless of whether the man or woman is older.If the folks in the relationship are happy, I don't really see how anyone else's opinion matters.
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November 28, 2017, 09:24:15 AM
It depends, how will you define that age doesnt matter! well what ever it is on my opinion age doesnt matter as long as 2 people are inlove to each other but dont get me wrong , age gap os ok but dont make it large than ever .. 10-20-30 years is good enough! dont settle for 50 years because as i kow you are happy now butlater on someone will suffer because of that really large gap !
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November 28, 2017, 09:03:10 AM
I think it's important. but the age difference is also important. I think it's a bit ridiculous if there is a difference of 20 years. 3 or 5 years is normal. the rest is exaggerated. I believe in age difference. There should not be much age difference in relationships. Of course, the scale of everything is not age, but it is still important.
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November 28, 2017, 07:53:45 AM
you can fall in love at any time and in anyone. what do the numbers in the passport mean?
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November 28, 2017, 07:47:08 AM
In addition, women also meet with guys younger than themselves. and they both enter into a connection, where one is charged with young energy, and the other is gaining experience Roll Eyes
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November 28, 2017, 07:29:06 AM
Age signifies so much more than just a number: it can reflect your maturity, your stage in life, and your experience.  At the same time, age can be deceptive.Does  it matter if men date younger women? If so, how much of an age gap is an acceptable one?

Its not really matter. Why? Many relationship was built without care with age and its running well.
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November 28, 2017, 05:55:09 AM
It's not so much the age that matters, but stages of life. (Which are often closely linked to age.)
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November 28, 2017, 05:53:16 AM
No. What matters for me is that you love and respect each other's differences. And you cooperate and help each other to work out your relationship for the better.
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November 28, 2017, 05:45:37 AM
Age signifies so much more than just a number: it can reflect your maturity, your stage in life, and your experience.  At the same time, age can be deceptive.Does  it matter if men date younger women? If so, how much of an age gap is an acceptable one?
Relationship age does not matter, you love to stand up for it. So it does not measure age or appearance of a person.
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November 28, 2017, 05:40:14 AM
Age doesn't matter when it comes to love. People who have partner that is 10 to 30  judge by the society. Maturity, respect and understanding is the important in the relationship and also the unconditional love.
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November 28, 2017, 05:38:43 AM
the age of a person may serve as a measure of maturity of experience, but it is different from the maturity of one's nature. I myself am living a harmonious relationship with the difference of age 16 years and we are fine.
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November 28, 2017, 05:21:07 AM
Age signifies so much more than just a number: it can reflect your maturity, your stage in life, and your experience.  At the same time, age can be deceptive.Does  it matter if men date younger women? If so, how much of an age gap is an acceptable one?

I don't think so because at the end of the day it is the love, honesty and faithfulness that matters in a relationship and other than that nothing else might possible affect a couples' relationship. Perhaps when it comes to deciding the younger one should always be open for any advice from the older since they have more experience.
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November 28, 2017, 04:18:45 AM
It all depends on one's culture and personal conviction. For me age does matter in relationships because no matter how u look at it, your age determines your perception about things generally and the way u approach issues. An adult that is in a relationship with a kid will not expect the same level of understanding on issues. And often, the two end up misunderstanding each other because of age gap. There is need to consider age proximity before entering into certain relationships.
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