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Topic: Does it bother you if your wife earns more in a month than you ? (Read 327 times)
September 06, 2018, 11:41:23 AM
August 29, 2018, 04:23:00 AM
No it don't bother me if my wife earns more than me in a month because it helps us allot ,In this time we are living in the woman earnings are also inportent to the family.
I would be so happy to hear that, because I would knew that she found herself in this life and she is enjoying it. I just want her to be happy. That's all. August 29, 2018, 03:39:41 AM
No i'm not bother. I'm only bother when my wife f*ck other man.
August 29, 2018, 03:22:49 AM
My wife also earns more than me, but it does not hurt me, because we both work for the common good!
August 29, 2018, 03:12:14 AM
It totally depends on the partners that make up the couple. If they can sort themselves properly, things will be fine. There are some cultures however that make it difficult for the man to be comfortable with earning less than the wife. Some women will naturally become arrogant and less cooperative with the husband. Some husbands too might lose some amount of confidence due to this. I personally will not like to earn less than my wife. The key, though is that both partners should be comfortable financially and understand each other too. Financial issues in marriage are really delicate.
August 29, 2018, 02:28:41 AM
She better earn more than me ! She is way smarter than me and I paid for some of her education. 
August 28, 2018, 11:05:13 PM
It does, definitely. A man must be the provider in the traditional sense. 
August 28, 2018, 09:28:49 PM
I feel like I would be kind of upset about it but overall its fine.
August 28, 2018, 08:37:27 PM
Does it bother you if your wife earns more in a month than you ?
Of course it does. She's still not earning enough so that I can quit and live in style off her earnings.
Of course it does. She's still not earning enough so that I can quit and live in style off her earnings.
August 28, 2018, 06:34:22 PM
Not necessarily! We both have equal responsibilities, but it doesn't necessarily follows we have same amount of share. It's not about the amount, but the value. Fulfilling our responsibilities is not a competition and is not based on pride, but rather it's based on love, understanding and respect. If she's more successful than me, then I should be happy for her and grateful to have her as my wife, and vice versa.
August 28, 2018, 06:14:26 PM
ok to my opinion it does not bother at all. It all depends on the woman . If she still shows gratitude and honor to you despite for the fact that she still earns more than you. However the only way you should be bothered is when she starts disprispecting you anyhow. She doesn't do what you want, she sees you as stupid and other worrying situation , then my friend you should be bothered and do something about this situation
August 28, 2018, 05:15:27 PM
No, why would it bother you? You'd have to be nuts to get bothered by that.
August 28, 2018, 02:48:54 PM
In as much as we have the understanding to live together as husband and wife, a man is more confident and proud to be the bread winner of his family. On the contrary if my wife monthly earning is better than mine it will definitely get me worried. As a man and the head of the family, watching my family depending more on my wife’s income will bother me a lot. Women are meant to assist their husbands and not shoulder the responsibilities. Even the bible made us to understand that any man who cannot provide for his family is worse than an infidel.
March 31, 2018, 02:47:17 PM
no, as long as he does not make me feel.
because the husband should be appreciated
because the husband should be appreciated
March 31, 2018, 02:32:34 PM
itu tidak mengganggu,
ketika kita menikah sudah menerima kekurangan masing-masing, tentu saja ketidakseimbangan ini bukan masala, ini akan sangat membantu keuangan keluarga.
ketika kita menikah sudah menerima kekurangan masing-masing, tentu saja ketidakseimbangan ini bukan masala, ini akan sangat membantu keuangan keluarga.
March 31, 2018, 12:32:17 PM
If self-respect and your love for each other is genuine then it is not a big issue and consider it as blessing, and if you can, earn on Bitcoin so you can match her a little.
March 31, 2018, 10:34:03 AM
For few husbands, yeah it bothers. Because they thought that if their wifes could earn more money than they could earn, their pride would sink. But as for me, having a wife that could earn money for your little family is cool. It would help a lot in your finances. You can back up each other back.
March 31, 2018, 10:12:19 AM
The bottom line is the income statement of the family.It is not bothersome
for my wife's salary to be more.It is very welcomed as the family would
not depend on my income alone.She being a wife shall support the family
very excitedly with her income.As long as she is that humble woman I know,
what she earns does not really bother me.With love and affection between us,
we make the most use of our income for our family's good.
for my wife's salary to be more.It is very welcomed as the family would
not depend on my income alone.She being a wife shall support the family
very excitedly with her income.As long as she is that humble woman I know,
what she earns does not really bother me.With love and affection between us,
we make the most use of our income for our family's good.
March 31, 2018, 05:47:08 AM
No it don't bother me if my wife earns more than me in a month because it helps us allot ,In this time we are living in the woman earnings are also inportent to the family.
It doesnt matter for the husband if his wife is earning more than his income. It only matters if their inlaws are watching them. Sometimes they are the cause why couples quarrel. This also matter when the husband and wife has misunderstanding. Their salaries came out. The wife will brag that she bring home a bigger amount of money and that shes the one who support her family.
March 31, 2018, 05:47:00 AM
No it don't bother me if my wife earns more than me in a month because it helps us allot ,In this time we are living in the woman earnings are also inportent to the family.
No, it will not bother me. I believe that we are already in an era where women have the same right and previlage same as men. Unlike a long time ago, only limited jobs and opportunities were offered to women. As long as it is for your family you should not be bothered.
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