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There are many factors that causes domestic violence. That person is suffering from traumatic experience he has experience in his childhood life. He should undergo treatment and psychological help. He needs help,  support and acceptance. He need to overcome his past and forgive the person who did it to him.

Domestic violence is caused by a psychological issue. Problems(especially financial factors) that make them go crazy and causes them to harm they very own love ones. The easiest way to prevent it to leave them, if you still stick with them after getting hurt many times then you're a martyr.

Obviously it occurs when there are dissatisfaction toward one's feelings. Addition for harmful drugs and alcohol, imbalance hormones, abnormally of one family member can lead to violence. Respect, self discipline, and iron hands of the government must be done in order to prevent the massive numbers of violence.

Domestic violence is the kind of violence happened in between the couple, children, the older members, or other family members. Domestic violence can happen to anyone and can be influencing the physical conditions and psychological victims. The violence will use fear, guilt, a sense of shame to suppress or hurt you and even threatening you or people around you

Well we can prevent it by the respect i think , domestic violence are most common on some workers abroad or also known as the OFW , those people that been experience it , still justice is the best.

And this is some causes of domestic violence , feel free to look at though https://www.healthyplace.com/abuse/domestic-violence/causes-of-domestic-violence-domestic-abuse .

I think it's lack of respect for human life that causes domestic violence. Someone who knows that life is a gift that should be cherished will not really be engaged in domestic violence. If every one can learn how to respect another human being, I think that can curb the issue. Also, if u know that you are involved in this act, you can see a therapist or a Guidance counselor to help you on this.

A lof of factors or things can lead to domestic violence. Financial problems in the home, economic instability, having a violent partmer (I mean some people are naturally violent) and so many other factors. One other fascinating cause is the lack of unity in the house. That is very dangerous and can lead to serious violence

Domestic violence is very rampant nowadays. People are suffering from this kind of violence. Domestic violence is a kind of violence that shows superiority and inferiority of the ones abusing and the ones who was abused respectively. This domestic violence leaves a traumatic mark in the life of the victim. It then causes psychosomatic and psychological problems and often leads to crime commitment due to the intensity of their worse experience. And as for the perpetrator, they must be given an appropriate punishment for the domestic violence to put into stop. I think thay the government must create law about this if there is still none and implement it effectively and with consistency.

Alcohol they say bring out the real character of a person that’s why a lot of people sometimes are very abusive to their spouses whenever they are drunk.

There are many types of domestic and family violence. It is violent, abusive or intimidating behaviour by a partner, carer or family member to control, dominate or cause fear. It doesn’t have to be physical abuse. It can be emotional, psychological, financial, sexual or other types of abuse.

It can affect anyone in the community, regardless of gender, sexual identity, race, age, culture, ethnicity, religion, disability, economic status or location

Domestic violence occurs when the abuser believes that abuse is an entitlement, acceptable, justified, or unlikely to be reported. It may produce intergenerational cycles of abuse in children and other family members, who may feel that such violence is acceptable or condoned. Very few people recognize themselves as abusers or victims because they may consider their experiences as family conflicts that got out of control.Awareness, perception, definition and documentation of domestic violence differs widely from country to country. Domestic violence often happens in the context of forced or child marriage.

 I think main causes are alcohol,stress and disturbed psyche,of course mostly violence comes from men and even taking in account all negative factors they should stay humans and not become animals who go into rage easily. Girls should do a right choice and not marry someone rude and violent,who seems to be a nice person in the beginning.

The main factor of domestic violence in my opinion is the lack of communication in a household that is open, so that when a problem arises in the "peak" condition, all the accumulated out of unresolved small problems followed by all forms violence both physically and mentally.

My advice to avoid domestic violence is to cultivate the nature of openness with communication in married life, to avoid accumulation of revenge and also with communication we can be more familiar with the husband or wife as well as the child who is a member of the family.

Domestic violence has been on societies for centuries. But, fortunately, now the people are willing to see what is wrong with abuse. Since the last decade, women are beginning to talk about what are they suffering in many houses. It has, also, a cultural component, so in many places, it is still well-seen to behave as a dominator, for it means "being a man".
Nevertheless, men also suffer from domestic violence. For instance, due to the legislation in many countries, a man has to provide everything to his ex-wife, or if a man is accused of domestic violence, he will be guilty before innocent is proved.

Anyway, this is a new state of society. Women have suffered from violence (and still suffer) historically in many ways, and now they have a voice. I think the next step is to give voice to men suffering from the same too and seek for equal policies that provide both genders a legal basement. The domestic violence is a serious issue and too normal, I 'm afraid, and it can happen in many ways:
- Psychological abuse, for instance, is one of the most dangerous. There is a phenomenon known as "Gaslighting" based on the abuse of a person above another: the abuser convince the other person to be crazy and positioned him/herself as the only one able to understand and support the abused. So, they make the other completely dependent. It is really difficult to prove and the victim takes much time to realize the nature of the abuse (if he/she ever realizes what's going on). Of course, there are many other types of phycological abuse, but this one is truly interesting and also dangerous, of course. You can read more about it: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gaslighting
https://www.theguardian.com/science/2017/mar/16/gaslighting-manipulation-reality-coping-mechanisms-trump
- Physical abuse is the most well-known and denounced one nowadays. It can be seen in a form of bruises in the skin, an, of course, is easier for people to believe the victim.

That's why the psychological abuse is one of the most dangerous, for it makes the victim even question his/her reality. Of course, it happens both to men and women.

The Domestic Violence Unit aims to provide quality social work service to adults and their children suffering abuse in family and intimate relationships. The Domestic Violence Unit is committed to the promotion of society with zero tolerance to violence.

Domestic violence occurs because of the lack of mutual understanding that results in discomonication. To solve the problem should be mutual communication, if there is a problem to be discussed so that agreement is reached and there is no dispute.

People just can't talk with each other. They start to use violence because can't express their mind
And they don't ready to solve problems. Easiest way - use a force

Domestic violence occurs as a result of ones past. One may inflict violence to his spouse or to his children because in the first place this is something that he experienced when he was little. Domestic violence had been a problem for many years now and have been accounted for many cases of annulment and divorce. Laws were formulated to address this and there are ways to resolve it through psychoanalysis, psychotherapy and mental rehabilitation (for the victims ).

Domestic violence is a common problem these days, especially in families. Mostly it happened because of the effect of alcohol. I've heard of many incidents when the husband beat his wife and kids to death. I think this situation might happen when a woman doesn't choose her husband wisely. Usually, people who take violence against others are more aggressive ( and this can be noticed after getting to know the person better). So please try to get to know the person you want to marry or live with a little better to avoid situations like this.

The first thing needing to be done is identifying it. What is domestic violence to one is not to another.

For example. There are many instances of a neighbor overhearing a heated argument of a couple who live next door. The neighbor called the cops. The cops cam, and the arguing couple forbade them from coming onto their property.

In other words, a heated argument might seem like violence to some, but it isn't to others.

In some of the above cop cases, there was even evidence of injury between the couple. But they sided with each other rather than with the cops and the neighbor. Same with kids. They often side with their parents rather than with CPS coming to take them away.