I totally agree with you mate, I've always been of this same opinion, but most people tend to focus on Elon musk, most even went as far as calling him names blaming him to the market crash.
The thing is almost every one was expecting bitcoin to reach $100,000 usd before any major correction happens, they all forgot the market does not work like that, this correction have been there, waiting for someone or something to trigger it, Elon happened to be the one who did trigger the correction, and since most people don't actually know what a correction is, they blame Elon, calling him names for being the mastermind behind the market crash.
Most of the people who blamed Elon are the ones that entered crypto believing that Elon could make them a quick buck but the opposite of it happened. Those who entered the market is most likely lack knowledge on how the market works. They have seen how powerful Elon tweets in the market and I think they are just thinking that Elon tweets would last long until their target price.
Elon could somehow affect the market, But it doesn't mean he is the main cause of the market crashes.