I guess that all depends on where you can spend your funds. Merchant adoption will also be one of the deciding factors. If XMR proves popular among merchants, then problem solved. Otherwise, more privacy in Bitcoin would be the next best thing.
Maybe not even privacy will attract as much as lower fees and faster transactions compared to BTC with *bonus* privacy for which people don't care that much until they face problems due to lack of it.
Actually, merchants could care for privacy much more than customer as some sales data could be uncomfortable to be transparent in face of competition.
Merchants can also not like the fact that their clients are spending a nice percentage on fees, money that could be spend in their shop.
They could also decrease the margin they earn per product/service in order to price in this fees to make it more viable for customers but that's just money lost.
Transaction fees are like tax, Bitcoin has a really high tax.
I can see why merchant adoption for Bitcoin could still rise because that's new revenue and a good way to advertise along Bitcoin.
But other than that, merchants are already drowning in multiple tax obligations before they can earn something.
Many shops to this day don't offer VISA/Mastercard due to additional costs and if they finally add this option, it's because they've lost too many customers because of lack of it.
Some merchants offer it because they are forced by the "adoption", I think it's really sad.
Cryptocurrency with low fees could help them earn more money and this could trigger higher adoption to lower fee cryptocurrency because the competition will have higher price for products when offering it for Bitcoin or less revenue if they lower the prices to price in the fees.
From a Merchant point of view, using physical FIAT/cheaper cryptocurrency, will give more revenue and people will choose the cheaper option to pay.
This is the extortion merchants have to deal with today when it comes to payment processors alone:
The cost of payment processing is a complex, multi-faceted subject, but we’ll try to keep things relatively simple here.
Payment service providers (PSPs) like Square, PayPal, and Stripe are popular all-in-one processing options for newer and smaller businesses, as you can quickly get approved for an account and a card reader. PSPs generally don’t charge monthly or annual fees for basic services.
PSPs typically offer flat-rate pricing. With flat-rate pricing, a percentage rate and (usually) a fixed fee are taken from each transaction you process. For card-present transactions taken with card readers/terminals, the percentage fee varies from 2.2% to 2.8%, while the fixed per-transaction fee, when it exists, varies from 5 to 15 cents. A few providers don’t change a fixed per-transaction fee.
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However, as your business expands, you may find that you require the kind of advanced functionality that only a paid POS system can provide. Should you need more than what a free POS can provide, the cost of POS software can run up to $300/month or more.
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https://www.merchantmaverick.com/credit-card-reader-fees/My friend has a shop for almost 20 years now, he has a card reader for only 5 years now because his revenue was too small to pay additional fees but currently most customers prefer card payments so he had to go with the times.