So i was thinking to disconnect myself completely from the network, install electrum wallet, create an address to receive bitcoins and send bitcoins from my online wallet to the electrum one that's still not connected to internet. Then ignore updating and just save the wallet file on pen drives along with 12 word password, also noting the 12 word password on some paper.
Would that do the trick? Would i still have the money on the wallet in a few years even though i did not update it before backing it up?
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Yes, but to be completely safe you should format your laptop and install clean OS after you've done these steps. So that there are no traces of your wallet/password on your laptop and no malware can mess with it. If you don't want to format machine, you can use live Ubuntu USB drive as someone suggested above.
Is it smart to add more words to the 12 word password?
No need. 12 word is much more secure than you would think.