I am just paranoid because I previously made a connection to a bad server, and there is a lot of btc in this wallet. Just need to be extra sure. I haven't used Electrum a lot and now I understand a lot better how it works.
If you want extra peace of mind, then the thing to do is to set up an airgapped Electrum wallet.
Essentially, you take an old computer or laptop and ensure that it will never connect to the internet again - remove the WiFi card, the ethernet adapter, and so on. Create an Electrum wallet on it and back your seed phrase in the usual way. Then export the master public key (xpub) from that airgapped wallet, transfer it on a flash drive or scan it as a QR code to your main internet-connected computer, and use it to set up what is called a "watch only" wallet in Electrum.
This watch only wallet on your main computer will only be able to view your addresses and coins, but will not be able to spend anything, even if you download malware, a fake wallet, or your computer is physically accessed. To make a transaction, you use the watch only wallet to generate the transaction, move it via flash drive or QR code to your airgapped computer to be signed, and then move it back again to your main computer to be broadcast.