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legendary
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November 24, 2019, 08:04:22 PM
#70
It is quite tough to handle the situation specially when you are in state of straight losing. It takes for about a days, weeks just for the individual to imbibe the clarity of controlling mindset whenever you gamble. In addition, sometimes it is not about learning but to an individual itself who taught and mold by culture of having a good mindset and perspective towards life.

If you can't follow your plan when you start losing you don't really have a plan or are too stupid to gamble.

Plan is there to be followed. If you know that you have to quit after hitting certain number and don't do it you should not gamble. What would you say a driver who has to go from point a to point b and then turns half way and gets lost in some woods? If he can't follow the path he should find another job.

definitely this!
discipline equals freedom.

if you're able to trace your first plan, follow it!
if you don't have a plan, don't gamble.

and NEVER hamble with money you can't afford to loose. like rent's money or somebody else's money.
hero member
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November 24, 2019, 06:09:06 PM
#69
It is quite tough to handle the situation specially when you are in state of straight losing. It takes for about a days, weeks just for the individual to imbibe the clarity of controlling mindset whenever you gamble. In addition, sometimes it is not about learning but to an individual itself who taught and mold by culture of having a good mindset and perspective towards life.

If you can't follow your plan when you start losing you don't really have a plan or are too stupid to gamble.

Plan is there to be followed. If you know that you have to quit after hitting certain number and don't do it you should not gamble. What would you say a driver who has to go from point a to point b and then turns half way and gets lost in some woods? If he can't follow the path he should find another job.
sr. member
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November 24, 2019, 01:08:07 PM
#68
The lucky things, i always have my own midset "Never doing a gamble using your own pocket" most of the money i used only from the payment freelance like Signature Campaign/Bounty. The reason i never using my own money, i don't want to get a crisis financial for my life because doing a gamble went i lose doing a gamble using my money (Payment from freelance) just feel i was really wasting my time.
So I would say your mindset is quite poor because this is in fact, your own money. Store it for a year and than try to waste it in gambling, you will see how hard it will be, just like "using your own pocket". I would advise you to stop lying to yourself. This is the exact reason why people develop problems with gambling. Honesty with thyself is the most important thing.
Fun and profits combined with the honest attitude that is, hard erned money wasting, is the best. Rationalising will only get you in trouble.
Every money is hard earned certainly. There is nothing wrong with gambling but no penny should be considered as free one because this is impossible to get cash without working hard for it. Most probably he earns through bounties for the sole purpose of using it in entertainment. I liked the division because he does not play with the other income source. So he is safe but must look for not becoming an addict.
hero member
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November 24, 2019, 12:50:11 PM
#67
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Why? it is simply because they are willing to risk everything just to get the money they want, they are even willing to offer their life on it, like borrowing money on loan sharks knowing that they could be killed if they couldn't pay their debt on time.
^ But for me, I won't generalize the situations. Because there are some gamblers that willing to risk a big amount of money but they can afford it. As they say, the higher amount you have been risking the greater the chances of profit you will get. Forget the profit, let's proceed to the words that can afford to lose even that is a big amount of money. Nevertheless, all of this is through controlling your self and that is very helpful for your own good.
legendary
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November 24, 2019, 12:49:32 PM
#66
Having a controlled mindset in gambling is indeed a great way to take precedence because a healthy mindset like that will at least make you able to use your money better or wiser, meaning not to spend too much money on gambling because usually those who don't having a controlled mindset will spend a lot of money in gambling and don't know when the right time to stop.
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November 24, 2019, 12:31:07 PM
#65
You cannot control your mindset if your greediness is stronger than your dedication on controlling what you want to control, you'll always lose if you are not going to be honest to yourself, another factor that affects people in gambling that destroys their focus is their adoration about money. Those individuals who worships money are the worst gamblers, even not gamblers.

Why? it is simply because they are willing to risk everything just to get the money they want, they are even willing to offer their life on it, like borrowing money on loan sharks knowing that they could be killed if they couldn't pay their debt on time.
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November 24, 2019, 11:02:17 AM
#64
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Controlling yourself while gambling is hard, especially if you are enjoying the game from your winnings and if you are experiencing a lose streak that you can't get back all of your lost, that is why a lot of gamblers are greedy and ends up getting addicted to it. I think the best way to control yourself while gambling is by limiting the amount of your money to avoid spending a huge amount of profit and to continue to play.
in what way to limit that? especially if the person is a heavy gambling addict, in my opinion the person needs a therapy, so that the person can choose when to stop (limit) so as not to spend all his money when profit or when losing. if not an addict, just a gambler, it might be easy to do that thing because from the beginning have mindset would not play too far (play safe) can limiting the amount of money and avoid spending a lot money.
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Is there any therapy services that offers that kind related with gambling addiction? Well, I don't thinks so, and  If I were to advice this certain problems that needs to be resolve seriously, limiting ourselves over gambling cannot be done that easy. Because when a person choosed to stop or limit himself, therapy is useless and will cost you huge amount of money. Every gambler who've already addicted, needs to seek any diversions of activities in many ways, that can be famlily time, events and anything that rehabilitates a person discreetly.
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November 24, 2019, 10:43:44 AM
#63
Controlling yourself while gambling is hard, especially if you are enjoying the game from your winnings and if you are experiencing a lose streak that you can't get back all of your lost, that is why a lot of gamblers are greedy and ends up getting addicted to it. I think the best way to control yourself while gambling is by limiting the amount of your money to avoid spending a huge amount of profit and to continue to play.

The thing is,,, try to make sure you have a maximum limit of loss, and always always bear in mind that your emotion and feelings will come into play 100%

But if you make sure your money loss is limited, then no matter what, you cannot lose more than you can afford. How to do this? Get a friend to be with you, get someone you trust to watch you, and return the favor.
hero member
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November 24, 2019, 10:21:48 AM
#62
Controlling yourself while gambling is hard, especially if you are enjoying the game from your winnings and if you are experiencing a lose streak that you can't get back all of your lost, that is why a lot of gamblers are greedy and ends up getting addicted to it. I think the best way to control yourself while gambling is by limiting the amount of your money to avoid spending a huge amount of profit and to continue to play.
in what way to limit that? especially if the person is a heavy gambling addict, in my opinion the person needs a therapy, so that the person can choose when to stop (limit) so as not to spend all his money when profit or when losing. if not an addict, just a gambler, it might be easy to do that thing because from the beginning have mindset would not play too far (play safe) can limiting the amount of money and avoid spending a lot money.
if the case is that the person has become a heavy addict it would be difficult to change his mind. we should have known from the beginning, the purpose of gambling for what, for fun or for needs.
because if for needs you must be disciplined by limiting funds and having a winning target. while having fun, you are free to gamble, as long as you can control yourself.
legendary
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November 24, 2019, 09:35:16 AM
#61
Ever had of a story of people who committed suicide or attempted it because they lost funds which is huge to them. Most of the stories are made up but also some a true and real.
I would never tell anyone to stop gambling come to think of it I gamble also myself but I will Ask we should be guided while doing so to avoid unseen calamity.
A chronic gambler will not commit suicide even if they lose a huge amount I read a story where a gambler loses millions of dollars and yet continues to live, as though nothing happens.

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How can you control your mindset while gambling, this is really not easy I must say you are drawn to playing it over and over again it doesn't matter if you are winning or losing
If you a responsible person and you know your priority, coming to gambling and controlling your time to gamble will be easy

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Get engaged in other things~ other than this helping out it can also fetch you funds that can be used for gambling or any other uses.
This is very important the urge to gamble will only be there if you don't have something to get busy in, like a business, a family a religious or anything that is interesting to you that is much better than gambling.

legendary
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November 24, 2019, 09:22:50 AM
#60
How can you control your mindset while gambling, this is really not easy I must say you are drawn to playing it over and over again it doesn't matter if you are winning or losing
This is what I'm doing when I decide to put some of my funds to gamble. Before I'm doing it, I will put my mind to a mindset that I will loss all of my funds. This will not work to other people but that worked for me. Yes I lose most of the time but still I controlled myself by not reacting anything as I lose my money into gambling. I'm still ok and will feel the same either I win or lose. That is how I think.

Set your target~ before a days gambling you should have in mind what you want to win or what you can afford to lose its easier send than done I know but with constant practice you might just develop the mindset.

Get engaged in other things~ other than this helping out it can also fetch you funds that can be used for gambling or any other uses.

Have time to enjoy your winnings~ I don't know if its also happens to anyone, when you you gamble
And you immediately win a sum that was above your expectations if this happens you can try enjoying your winnings and then latter come back
These are some of the good things that gamblers must do in order to control themselves because gambling is a game where the chances of losing are higher than the chances of winning Cheesy (in my experience).
hero member
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November 24, 2019, 09:21:43 AM
#59
Controlling yourself while gambling is hard, especially if you are enjoying the game from your winnings and if you are experiencing a lose streak that you can't get back all of your lost, that is why a lot of gamblers are greedy and ends up getting addicted to it. I think the best way to control yourself while gambling is by limiting the amount of your money to avoid spending a huge amount of profit and to continue to play.
in what way to limit that? especially if the person is a heavy gambling addict, in my opinion the person needs a therapy, so that the person can choose when to stop (limit) so as not to spend all his money when profit or when losing. if not an addict, just a gambler, it might be easy to do that thing because from the beginning have mindset would not play too far (play safe) can limiting the amount of money and avoid spending a lot money.
sr. member
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November 24, 2019, 06:31:50 AM
#58
Controlling yourself while gambling is hard, especially if you are enjoying the game from your winnings and if you are experiencing a lose streak that you can't get back all of your lost, that is why a lot of gamblers are greedy and ends up getting addicted to it. I think the best way to control yourself while gambling is by limiting the amount of your money to avoid spending a huge amount of profit and to continue to play.
sr. member
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November 24, 2019, 06:01:45 AM
#57
trading or gambling mind set is important , because situations will not be same everyday so as loss and  profit , so a gambler should be knowing how much money is risking or losing , greed paly a lot in gambling its just how our mind thinks when we gain 100$ or when we lose 100$ both situations have lot difference impact in our mind 
hero member
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November 24, 2019, 05:37:20 AM
#56
Easier said than done Cheesy it's really hard to predict what a person would do in such tempting situations lol. I myself tell others to know when to stop but in past I myself has hugely lost because of this same ever increasing greed xD
It is a fact that you will be tempted to gamble if you see some fancy odds but then again you can control the amount of money you are willing to risk, i am not a big risk taker when it comes to gambling and i will never spent more money for my leisure but there is nothing wrong in wagging small amounts which i usually does and majority looses their money thinking about making a profit, i never consider these as a quick rich scheme.
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November 24, 2019, 05:08:28 AM
#55
Gambling itself is not bad but what is bad is the addiction to gambling. Being addicted to gambling its one of the fastest way to become wretche, Poor and depressed. The easiest way to enjoy  gambling is to gamble with focus and discipline and avoid greed.  Set aside money you can afford to loose  you would want to use for gambling and stick to it no matter what,  thats where discipline comes in, do not ever exceed your budget for gambling. Always gamble without emotions and greed once you ser profit step and try another day don't be tempted to continue,  you might end up losing all you have made and even your capital
sr. member
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November 24, 2019, 03:57:30 AM
#54
Not just in gamble even in trading, for those who trade and not gamble too much. Controlled mindset is really needed. You must know when to stop and not be greedy when you already won. Some people got problem due to depression or guilt and regret in their decisions. They won already and still decide to continue until it all loss. So better set your focus in everything you do.

Easier said than done Cheesy it's really hard to predict what a person would do in such tempting situations lol. I myself tell others to know when to stop but in past I myself has hugely lost because of this same ever increasing greed xD

It becomes easy when the person has a self control because than discipline would always make him wise to do or not to do because the end results seems to be clear enough in such situation. But yes when one does not have control things goes haywire.


Of course, since they can limit themself so easily. Most of individual has no self control, we all know that having a self control is really hard to obtain especially when you enjoy yourself and you're trying to achieve to win. That is also the common problem of every gamblers, they don't know when to stop and when they will take an action. It is also true that without having a self control, then there is no chance to limit yourself and everything will be doomed.
Ucy
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November 24, 2019, 03:33:05 AM
#53
Nice one.
I wonder if "most" gambling sites allow people to gamble with bot. Ofcourse, I know people bet with bot on regular basis, but my point is to see if addicts can be encouraged to play with bot  while they rest for sometimes and allow their bodies to heal from the addition.
The bot works while the gambler stays busy with other more important things
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November 24, 2019, 03:23:38 AM
#52
Personally I battle fear and emotion when gambling however since I changed my mindset to gambling with the amount of money I can afford to loss then I overcome those fears, i.e mindset controlled  I just gamble for fun now knowing fully well that whatever money I made from it is extra income to buy some little stuffs I also took time to analyze my bettings just to avoid betting blindly although it is a 50:50 chance nevertheless I play it with a set rules.
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November 24, 2019, 02:38:02 AM
#51
suicide stories are real facts and not only made  up infact majority of them are always got featured on the national t.v or on radio's   . may these suicide stories give us a lesson that we shouldnt end up our live's because of this gambling mistake's  because every gamblers can still change at the end  . gambling with a control midset is always possible if we can organize oursleves ( e.g by putting timers , setting aside eneough money ,etc ) by doing these simple things , we cant indulge ourselves to play more  .
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