I was in pain today because of the incident that I saw in a physical casino shop. Although I am not a fan of going to physical casinos, I prefer playing my bet in an online casino, but today I wish to go to the physical casino so that I can see other gamblers and maybe get experience, but I end up sad.
In the casino, I saw an elderly man crying in regret. I was concerned to know what the cause of his tears was, so I woke up to him to ask, and then the man narrated what happened. The man told me that he works in a construction site from morning just to get something to feed his family, because they haven’t seen food since yesterday morning, so after work from morning to night, the contractor tells them that they will all be paid tomorrow, so he begs the contractor to give him some money for transportation. When the contactor gave him some money, he then had to take a walk to see the nearest casino so that he could use the money and stake a bet to buy something for his family to feed on. After he staked the money, he ended up losing the game. That is why he is crying in regret.
So I ask him, does he actually gamble? He said not at all; he just came to try his luck and find something to feed his family. Then I asked him, Can he still remember the mistake that he made when he staked his first money? Then he said he saw no mistake. All that is involved in gambling is luck. I said okay, I will give him money to try betting, because I also don’t have the money that will be enough to feed his family, so he staked another bet. To my surprise, he won the game and got the money he needed.
What I want to know is: Did I do a good job by using gambling to save him? Or do I just make him have an interest in gambling as a source of income?
In my opinion, you helped him as much as you could at that time, but I think that after he won money that allowed him to recover the money he lost, then you should have warned him that with his financial conditions, he should not get involved in gambling because he would be taking the money that would be intended for him to buy food and using it in gambling and losing everything, then he would be left without food, but the worst scenario was yet to come, which would be his wife if he found out that he took the money that was supposed to buy food and went to gamble at a casino, this could undoubtedly cause him to lose his wife as well. These are very frequent cases in which a marriage or relationship ends because the husband went to gamble with the money that was supposed to pay the bills and lost everything.