Just to clear the things,i never asked for any donation.I was very tensed just thinking what to do.Bitcointalk is a place where i spend some time so shared my problems here.Thank you for the replies and your concerns and now i am locking this thread,just pray once for me that i get out of this trouble some how,that may really help.
Thank you all
Topic: Gambling destroyed me....advice me what to do now..? (Read 853 times)
i just read OP story that actually you are given second chance to your parent but unfortunately you could not use this chance with wisely and stuck on the same hole and currently is not much you must do to prove yourself just be honest to your family and ask for help to them to stop this addiction because you could not do this alone needed somebody else to do so but first of all the strong intention is one of the primary factor if you want to stop gambling
i agree with rehab or go to professional medication mate i think 26.5k is really a huge amount and your addictioon cant be stop by your own will since you will keep chasing that big lost and try to recover it and it will results to another loses so better to accept the fact of addiction and surrender yourself to rehabilitation. its for your own good mate so accept the consequence.
Honestly speaking, I can't do that to my family,that's just not right. But since you did it already, suffer the consequences, If I where you, I'll tell them the truth than keep it. You should pay it back later. Explain it to them clearly, there is no way better than that. That's what you get when you gamble a lot and without thinking twice before acting. Ending your life? think twice. Better start to rehabilitate your self, that's addiction.
If your story is true, my goodness, you really into addiction. In the first place why they entrusted a large amount of money to you? Did you think twice when you received it? Or you are really happy that you received the money that you can make a money from it? They gave you a chance for you to change your image for them but you missed the opportunity to prove them that they are wrong about you. Hope you can settle the situation of yours, I know right now your anxious regarding on your problem. Just tell them about your problem might the will consider your status right now, good luck brother.
That's a huge problem dude, however the truth shall prevail. You have to be honest with your parents and admit you have a gambling addiction, as parents they will understand because you are their son, maybe you need a break dude and if your parents decided you rehab you, you must accept it openly.
You will not live a good life if you will not cure that disease.
You will not live a good life if you will not cure that disease.
Gambling has slowly destroyed my life and I am in worst situation now.In past I had lost about 20-25k usd in the gambling about one year ago and my family known because that addiction I started stealing things from my house.
My parents stopped talking with me and I had to face many bad times,no body was trusting me after that.But in one year I slowly got their trust back.
After few weeks there is my sister's marriage and my parents given Me about 1500USD to deposit in bank account and they said use them in some expenses to be managed by me.But now my gambling addiction I lost all of them again.
I am in huge trouble now I don't have anywhere to go.Sometimes thinking I should commit suicide but I want to live my life.But now if my parents know which they will in some time,they cannot face that specially my father who is a kidney patient under dialysis and already alot of Tension with them due to sisters marriage and my father's health.
What can I do please tell me I promised my self that I will not gamble again just god give me one last chance
Please help me with your advise and only genuine person post who are giving advice from their heart.
My parents stopped talking with me and I had to face many bad times,no body was trusting me after that.But in one year I slowly got their trust back.
After few weeks there is my sister's marriage and my parents given Me about 1500USD to deposit in bank account and they said use them in some expenses to be managed by me.But now my gambling addiction I lost all of them again.
I am in huge trouble now I don't have anywhere to go.Sometimes thinking I should commit suicide but I want to live my life.But now if my parents know which they will in some time,they cannot face that specially my father who is a kidney patient under dialysis and already alot of Tension with them due to sisters marriage and my father's health.
What can I do please tell me I promised my self that I will not gamble again just god give me one last chance
Please help me with your advise and only genuine person post who are giving advice from their heart.
ti is good that you are admitting this and have come to the understanding of your fault but at the same time since your problem is not a simple case of self control to stay away from gambling, none of us can help you out with your severe case of gambling addiction. i suggest you seek some professional help for that.
Everyone of us here gave a common advise and that is to quit gambling. But it's really upon on you if you're really willing to give it up and fix your life with your friends and love ones.. it's never too late to walk back on the right path as long as you live you still have time to do it.
You did not want to learn from your past mistake, I think you have a bad addiction already. You should start to stay away from gambling as soon as possible. I know it will not easy for you, but you should try it. Otherwise you will get more and more bad losing in the future.
I'm sorry to hear about your loss, but suicide is NOT an option. It doesn't even matter how much of their money you wasted, they still love you. A professional needs to help you with your big problem, I don't think we can. Look for a psychiatric somewhere around you and speak to him/her about the problem you're facing. This can be solved very easily. But first off, give all your money to the person you're giving with (IF YOU TRUST HIM OR HER!). Let them hold your money and tell them not to let you take any money for gambling. But be sincere to them, don't invent excuses to go to the casino instead. Gambling can destroy your life in a very easy way, don't let a stupid stack of paper take over your life. Stay safe!
Gambling has slowly destroyed my life and I am in worst situation now.In past I had lost about 20-25k usd in the gambling about one year ago and my family known because that addiction I started stealing things from my house.
My parents stopped talking with me and I had to face many bad times,no body was trusting me after that.But in one year I slowly got their trust back.
After few weeks there is my sister's marriage and my parents given Me about 1500USD to deposit in bank account and they said use them in some expenses to be managed by me.But now my gambling addiction I lost all of them again.
I am in huge trouble now I don't have anywhere to go.Sometimes thinking I should commit suicide but I want to live my life.But now if my parents know which they will in some time,they cannot face that specially my father who is a kidney patient under dialysis and already alot of Tension with them due to sisters marriage and my father's health.
What can I do please tell me I promised my self that I will not gamble again just god give me one last chance
Please help me with your advise and only genuine person post who are giving advice from their heart.
You are very addictive, friend. You should improve soon because it has been very detrimental to you and your family. Maybe you should stay away from gambling in total, looking bustle with your family like a holiday or doing other activities that can make you forget about gambling. The most important thing for someone who wants to quit gambling is the intention in itself, require the strong intention to be stopped. Enterprises harder and ask your family to help you to get out of gambling. My parents stopped talking with me and I had to face many bad times,no body was trusting me after that.But in one year I slowly got their trust back.
After few weeks there is my sister's marriage and my parents given Me about 1500USD to deposit in bank account and they said use them in some expenses to be managed by me.But now my gambling addiction I lost all of them again.
I am in huge trouble now I don't have anywhere to go.Sometimes thinking I should commit suicide but I want to live my life.But now if my parents know which they will in some time,they cannot face that specially my father who is a kidney patient under dialysis and already alot of Tension with them due to sisters marriage and my father's health.
What can I do please tell me I promised my self that I will not gamble again just god give me one last chance
Please help me with your advise and only genuine person post who are giving advice from their heart.
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its a big problem for you and my advice is you must stop to playing gambling, don't use your money for gambling, build new habit that will make you forget gambling forever, make relation with new people around you but not with people which have habit in gambling. don't forget to still pray to GOD because only he that can help you in any situation. my pray to you sir and i hope you can start your new life with better condition.
The only person who can help him the most is himself.
Not at all. He is seeking some advice because he can't control his urge to gamble, So how can be the only person to help him is himself if it is uncontrollable, The best suggestion to OP is to seek guidance to professional psychologist or religious leader to gave some meaningful advice, I think all the advice on this forum is just for the sake of signature earnings. I experienced what OP feels that's i'm suggesting what method i used to rise up again from ashes of failure.
No advice can save you. Just do what you should do I.e, Tell everything to your parents. And one more thing, as I said in my previous post, Empty mind is the house of evil. Keep yourself busy, get some job so that you will only concentrate on work only. This will help you to ignore and forgot your gambling addiction.
Gambling has slowly destroyed my life and I am in worst situation now.In past I had lost about 20-25k usd in the gambling about one year ago and my family known because that addiction I started stealing things from my house.
My parents stopped talking with me and I had to face many bad times,no body was trusting me after that.But in one year I slowly got their trust back.
After few weeks there is my sister's marriage and my parents given Me about 1500USD to deposit in bank account and they said use them in some expenses to be managed by me.But now my gambling addiction I lost all of them again.
I am in huge trouble now I don't have anywhere to go.Sometimes thinking I should commit suicide but I want to live my life.But now if my parents know which they will in some time,they cannot face that specially my father who is a kidney patient under dialysis and already alot of Tension with them due to sisters marriage and my father's health.
What can I do please tell me I promised my self that I will not gamble again just god give me one last chance
Please help me with your advise and only genuine person post who are giving advice from their heart.
My parents stopped talking with me and I had to face many bad times,no body was trusting me after that.But in one year I slowly got their trust back.
After few weeks there is my sister's marriage and my parents given Me about 1500USD to deposit in bank account and they said use them in some expenses to be managed by me.But now my gambling addiction I lost all of them again.
I am in huge trouble now I don't have anywhere to go.Sometimes thinking I should commit suicide but I want to live my life.But now if my parents know which they will in some time,they cannot face that specially my father who is a kidney patient under dialysis and already alot of Tension with them due to sisters marriage and my father's health.
What can I do please tell me I promised my self that I will not gamble again just god give me one last chance
Please help me with your advise and only genuine person post who are giving advice from their heart.
You should be honest with those that is most close to you. You need not tell all of them but one or two. 1.5k usd is not a lot and i believe you can earn it back within a month or 2. You can even take a bank loan.
I think what is more important is how you going to overcome your addiction. That is the root of the problem and if you dont solve it, the problem will keep coming back. You should consider getting professional help.
Almost all the needed advice are already said here. Just be strong and tell your family the truth. Face the consequences and show them that you are willing to change. This may take time but doing first step to change is the best option. You can start looking for a job if you don't have one, if you have, you can loan the money you lost that is for your sister's wedding. It maybe hard but believe me once they see your remorse and effort to change, it will soon get better.
I advise not to gamble anymore! Chances are you will lose more and more if you decided to gamble again. Just try to recoup it through working for it!
That's totally nuts dude losing almost $26,500? But don't worry as long as there is time, there is hope. May I know if you are working? Because that addiction can be done if you are doing some other things that can kill your time. And why not you are the one the take the full responsibility of taking care of your father's situation? Just show your full effort to sustain the care that your father's need and I guess that is the best thing you can do with your current situation.
You're fncked up dude!!! Why do that? You've experienced it before, losing too bad and broke... Then here comes your sisters wedding and yet you still do that? Well, I suggest you go outside, breath, then think a lot, are you going to lie to your family and produce money to replace what you've spent, or are you going to tell them the truth and accept what they will tell you? I suggest you go with the second option, remember, if you are going to lie, you are just going to make your addiction worst and keep on doing it... 
Never ever think about suicide, that's pathetic...
Never ever think about suicide, that's pathetic...
No one here will really help you. Because our words you read on your screen has not enough power over you. You can only seek real help IRL.
You don't need to diagnose your condition - you already know that you are addicted gambler on the path to self destruction.
That is why you need to reach out for professional help from your family, friends or in the worst case some non profit institution.
Heck even if you go to some AA meeting it will benefit you - as core addiction elements are always the same with every addiction.
Very true there isn't much we can do to help him because he could still gamble even if we give him advices like stop gambling , dont bet what you can't afford, etc. I doubt that he would even bother reading all of our posts because of his huge problem. The only person who can help him the most is himself. You don't need to diagnose your condition - you already know that you are addicted gambler on the path to self destruction.
That is why you need to reach out for professional help from your family, friends or in the worst case some non profit institution.
Heck even if you go to some AA meeting it will benefit you - as core addiction elements are always the same with every addiction.
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