If they have good boundaries and are consistent with maintaining them maybe it won't drain their finances when they do gambling activities. Because after all gambling must be played carefully, because it can drain a person's finances if they are not careful in gambling, also there have been many things that have caused a person to experience a lot of losses just by doing gambling that is not careful, they can spend a lot of money on gambling that is not clear about the victory, but they don't realize how much money they have lost because of gambling, successive defeats are due to themselves who cannot limit their gambling activities, by increasing gambling sessions and depositing more money on their own, It is impossible for it to be based on encouragement from others, and if you really want to be angry, just blame yourself, don't blame other people who introduced us to gambling, it's unethical if they blame other people for their mistakes, because after all, those who do gambling themselves are themselves not with other people, so don't blame other people who don't know anything, because the gambling that is done is not based on other people, they themselves cannot control themselves properly so that they can do excessive gambling. Excessive gambling will have a bad impact on the players themselves, but unfortunately they sometimes take it out on others, very irresponsible.
indeed, basically gambling should be done just for fun, if they gamble in pursuit of winning, just say they are addicted to gambling, because by pursuing victory in gambling it can really waste their money and of course that is considered a gambling addiction, and I I don't think you responded to my question, but maybe it's not that important.
I think you didn't respond to my question, but let's just say that maybe it doesn't really matter. Many people who gamble excessively are because they don't have a set limit and the losses they get are what they deserve, because in my opinion those who gamble excessively will never feel satisfied with what they get, even though they have won but I don't think they will ever feel satisfied, Because their goal is to get a big win so even if they get a win it won't make them stop, maybe they will continue the game to get a bigger win, in that way I think they will lose the winnings they have gotten because they might continue the game they will gamble recklessly without thinking about the big risks that will occur, it's a shame that they gamble without having good limits. Self-control is important especially with gambling which is strongly tied to money, and of course we as humans need money to survive, obviously if someone loses a large amount of money it might become stressful, but it depends on how people respond to it.
Yes, we must have clear boundaries when playing gambling so that we don't fall into the trap and end up using more and more money to gamble. However, we must be careful when gambling and always allow enough time to gamble so that once the time is almost up, we must immediately stop gambling and not look back or even look at the promotions at the casino. If not, we could be tempted to try to get a bonus from the promotion, which could cause us to deposit money again as a condition for getting the bonus and going back to gambling again. It is really not recommended because it will only make us deeper into gambling and will not be able to stop gambling easily. Many people have experienced this and it makes it difficult for them to leave gambling, even if only to rest for a while. Those who deposit more money into their gambling account and gamble until they finally lose cannot be angry with other people because it is their own decision to continue gambling. For this reason, we as gamblers must be wise gamblers so that we are not too passionate about gambling. And playing gambling excessively will only hurt us, and we will not be able to see that we have experienced a lot of losses.
Playing gambling is just for fun and there is no need to chase the win, especially as we know that winning requires many things that we must have. Chasing the win means we must be prepared to lose even more money, even though that is also not recommended.
I'm sorry I wasn't careful replying to your comment and missed something. Is this your question that you don't understand: "And with good self-control, we can avoid the temptation to continue gambling on other gambling games because we are not chasing pleasure."
If so, I'll try to explain it. We gamble to get pleasure and that explains that we don't need to be too passionate in pursuing that pleasure but let us get the pleasure that will come to us. It could be the same as waiting for victory to come to us. I hope I can explain it to you, and once again, I apologize.
And self-control is indeed very important in gambling because self-control can prevent us from gambling too much. We know when we should stop gambling and how to spend money on gambling so that we don't end up spending all the money to get pleasure from gambling. We also know that after enjoying playing gambling, we must immediately finish the gambling game before we are tempted to try other gambling games or try to get promotions offered by the casino.
This will not happen if they have good thoughts towards gambling, because many of those who use a lot of money to gamble are those who do not have good thoughts towards gambling. In my opinion, the existence of promotions or bonuses on gambling sites is normal because every company that provides products certainly has its own techniques to attract more people's attention, but behind that the control is completely on us, where we have to decide whether to look at it or not. ignore it, because the nature of people tends to be different, there are people who see this and do it, there are also those who don't care about it. with those who see bonuses or promotions, it is possible for them to deposit their money back and gamble again and this can happen over and over again because they do this to chase the winnings in gambling that all gamblers want. Yes, they win and lose a large amount of their money because they themselves gamble but are not careful, which makes them addicted to gambling, but without realizing it, they also won't admit that they are addicted to gambling, perhaps because they are embarrassed. Other people know that they are addicted to gambling and they should not take out their anger on other people, even on friends who introduced gambling to them, because the addiction was caused by themselves, not by their friends.
gambling by chasing victory is certainly a wrong principle, because if that is the case, they will only become addicted to gambling and spend a lot of money gambling, even if they have run out of money to gamble, they can take the action of borrowing money to gamble again because of the greed that exists it encourages them to continue gambling without caring about their own situation. You are right, self-control is very important in gambling because it will determine the future, and you can be sure that if those who gamble do not have self-control then they will experience many bad events happening to themselves and Of course this is detrimental to them. It's important to think of gambling as entertainment because that way maybe we won't become addicted to gambling, and this of course should not happen by becoming addicted to gambling. We should prevent it because prevention is better than cure. That's what you have to remember, because if you are addicted then it will probably be difficult to cure it.
Yes, it's okay, friend, it's just that I'm afraid many people will misinterpret your comments, just relax.