True, there is nothing wrong with hope, but certainly the hope must always be realistic, or do not exceed the limit. There is a difference between waiting and chasing and not everything must always be chased to get, this is gambling, chasing certainly involves more risk and of course it should have been thought about, and I am sure that no one wants to experience significant risk in anything, especially when it comes to losing money.
Being realistic as you said, it is very important and must always be maintained in mind, no other than by always being realistic then it will be able to restrain us from placing hope or doing an unreasonable action, or the intention is so that all our hopes and actions are within reasonable limits. The point is to gamble in moderation, maintain limits and awareness and also always be wise in making decisions, remember that when you chase victory then it is the same as you are calling a greater risk, while there is no certainty and guarantee of anything to be able to achieve victory.
Even into those casual day to day living decisions then we are really that hoping for something or trying to achieve some goal. It would really be that something that will really be just that typical.
The only difference on here is on what are the things that you are hoping for and on what kind of thing that you are really that involving into? Outcomes or results would really be neither be positive or negative
depending on what are your goals. Ex. in gambling on which you are hoping for winning, for us people who knows the truth will really be that basically tells that its not a good thing since it would really be bringing out that kind of desperation on which it will really be basically making you that desperate and just like the rest been saying that if you do find yourself having this kind of mindset then it would really be pushing you out of your limits or the thing that you had set out earlier on this regard. Gambling should really be fun and not something that would be stressful because on the time that you would be pushing yourself about being a winner then it would really be just that making you play even more despite of losing that big amount.
When doing gambling then your first priority should really be that wanting to have some fun and making money should really be on your second priority because if money is your first priority then you would be ending up on having that kind of desperation and on the time that you would be losing your bets then you would really be making even more deposit because you will be trying out to break even or you would really be that trying out to chase up those loses or even on how to win on which its not really that recommended on this case. Gambling is really that for fun and on the moment you do lose then you can just simply accept it because
you are already that expecting for it to happen.
True, it means that one or the other of those hopes depends on what your goals are and whether or not you have the right understanding of the gambling activity, simply if your goal is to get a lot of wins and from the start you don't have the right understanding of what and how gambling really is then I'm sure that you have the wrong expectations that tend to be excessive, but when it turns out that you have the right understanding that makes your goals not too significant to victory then most likely you will just wait for the victory to come by itself without forcing every situation.
As you said that something that should be prioritized is to have fun, there is nothing else that is more worthy of being a priority than that, because it makes no sense if you prioritize the goal of getting a lot of wins while gambling will always be an activity that can never be predicted and cannot always produce the victory according to what you want, that's why hope is something that must be limited.