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legendary
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June 09, 2017, 10:24:47 AM
#5
Seems like you don't have a purpose in life. That's the problem with most of the serial killers or drug addicts. They just simply don't care if they live or die so they gain bad habits eventually.

If you don't take the right steps at this very moment, you'll either end up as a drug addict or something worse. There are many ISIS members with EU/USA passports in the ME. Those people joined the terrorist camps because they had no lives in their native countries and ISIS gave them an ID.

Don't stay alone. Move with your mom and stay with your relatives until you figure things out. Losing a girlfriend at the age of 22 is nothing. Believe me. You'll find many more chicks in the future. There are many fish in the water. Tongue

Stop doing drugs, follow your mom (it is nothing to be ashamed of) and hope for the best.

I don't like to interact with people neither. I don't even like people. But I can fake it pretty well. You can try that too Smiley
sr. member
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June 09, 2017, 10:06:18 AM
#4
Pretty much, i'm a 22 Year Old Canadian  that lives in Toronto. I was dating a girl for a year then things broke off, moved back in to my mothers.Shes moving across the country in 19 days,to help my grandfather since my grams passed away.
Been handing out resumes like a motherfker, but to no avail.I'm trying to get my shit together and finish my high school so i can study computer science next Jan. I've been abusing my adhd meds recently and going on 2-3 day coding binges where i won't stop until i'm finished or my mind/body won't let me stay awake any longer.
I'm terrifically terrible at human interaction, and all my life i have been told i come off as a sketchy person.I'm addicted to cigarettes, weigh 120lb and am 6ft tall (lankyaf). Essentially i will get eaten alive in a homeless shelter.
I know it sounds cliche but i do not connect with society, nor have i ever truly connected with anyone.Such words are easy to say, anyone can say them but it is truly so for me.I feel as if from birth our minds are black boxes. Through our brains development we create rules/standards or "metaphorical bridges" to connect with others or to be connected to.And it all just went over my head.
Don't really know what i'm looking for in all this,
I have no idea what i am wanting to achieve in this post, i guess advice from an older person?or to know others feel as disconnected as i do?or a dank meme? I guess it makes no difference, feels good to release some stress.
Internet's the only place I've ever actually felt human.

Men this is really fucked up situation but would advise you just heed to the advise given by the above poster. With that being said, you really need to get your shit together. You still have enough of what life can offer at that age without any limitation. Drop those things and chart a new course for your life and I am sure you can still make the best of it.
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sr. member
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June 09, 2017, 09:52:15 AM
#2
Get a US citizenship and come to South Dakota?  Where I'm at there's a labor shortage and studio apartments are cheap. You could easily make it around here.  I'm one of the most introverted people at my plant. They key is accepting yourself and focusing on your strengths and the positives in life.. and give up the meds.  You have to have discipline. Set goals and rewards and achieve those goals. Focus on personal growth, especially at a psychological level.  I do not connect that much with society either, but even that is all in your head. What you think is your reality, so focus on the things you wish to achieve, focus on the state of mind you want to have...

I can tell you all this but it will take years of personal development work and practice to "get it" .. you are still young and have your whole life ahead of you. Consider starting exercising. Get a pull up bar and a set of dumbbells and a bench, do some compound exercises like bench press, rows, and lots of pull ups. Deadlifts if you can get ahold of a barbell. Clean up your diet.. ditch the sugar. All these things will make you feel good and boost your confidence, and it becomes a self sustaining cycle.

The key is making performance improving habits and making them a permanent part of your life. We are creatures of habit programmed like monkeys to repeat past behaviors and get stuck in a routine.. it takes work to modify a routine.
newbie
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June 09, 2017, 09:47:54 AM
#1
Pretty much, i'm a 22 Year Old Canadian  that lives in Toronto. I was dating a girl for a year then things broke off, moved back in to my mothers.Shes moving across the country in 19 days,to help my grandfather since my grams passed away.
Been handing out resumes like a motherfker, but to no avail.I'm trying to get my shit together and finish my high school so i can study computer science next Jan. I've been abusing my adhd meds recently and going on 2-3 day coding binges where i won't stop until i'm finished or my mind/body won't let me stay awake any longer.
I'm terrifically terrible at human interaction, and all my life i have been told i come off as a sketchy person.I'm addicted to cigarettes, weigh 120lb and am 6ft tall (lankyaf). Essentially i will get eaten alive in a homeless shelter.
I know it sounds cliche but i do not connect with society, nor have i ever truly connected with anyone.Such words are easy to say, anyone can say them but it is truly so for me.I feel as if from birth our minds are black boxes. Through our brains development we create rules/standards or "metaphorical bridges" to connect with others or to be connected to.And it all just went over my head.
Don't really know what i'm looking for in all this,
I have no idea what i am wanting to achieve in this post, i guess advice from an older person?or to know others feel as disconnected as i do?or a dank meme? I guess it makes no difference, feels good to release some stress.
Internet's the only place I've ever actually felt human.
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