Topic: Good manners and good favour. (Read 354 times)

Practicing good manners is a simple yet powerful way to navigate social interactions, fostering positive connections. Showing kindness and extending favors not only reflects well on your character but also contributes to a more harmonious and supportive community.
When you are polite to atleast one person, it creates a ripple effect, influencing others to reciprocate and contribute to a culture of respect. Whether it's holding a door open or expressing gratitude, these small gestures can make a significant impact, enhancing the overall atmosphere of any social environment.

I must say you have a good point here. I don't criticize the little efforts of my fellow beginners, as I see others undermining the fact that they are also newbies, using hash words on people, responding to corrections with bad manners, etc.
 
One thing I know is that the way you're in reality influences everything about you; hence, it will always show both in the forum and elsewhere. Some people are just rude, naturally, or bad-mannered, if I must say, and this causes a lot of issues (bad reputation) for them. Some are angry people in real life; therefore, they pass this anger on to this forum, attacking everybody for no useful reason.
 
If you must succeed here, you just have to be real with yourself and stop trying to impress people who are already past your level. If you do your best, the best will come to you. Be yourself and move on; don't depend on people meriting you before you make progress. The quantity of your merit isn't success; it just shows that you did something that was worthy of celebration and warranted your merit.
 
If I must put something in order, it should be the word favor. I guess in the manner in which you frame the content, it means merit, but favor isn't just merit; there is more to that than merit. For example, if I'm an amateur graphics designer and maybe I have a good reputation here in this forum, someone can just hit me up and hand me a project to do just to test me. If I can deliver, then I'm already favored because if a legendary member or so gives trust and feedback, people will surely start handing their own projects to you; hence, this is also a favor.
 
There are lots of things we will discuss here, but as time goes on.

This is correct, how could it be any other way? I have very rarely met people on the forum who do not know how to control themselves. Politeness and manners play a crucial role in our communication, no matter what line of work you are in and trying to excel in. Behaving arrogantly and preventing others from developing will only lead to bad consequences. Bad behavior creates obstacles in business communication and often gives rise to unnecessary conflicts.

Since you are paying attention to the people ahead of you in the platform, that is the good manners we are talking about here and the impact they will impact to you is the favour we are discussing here which is very important for newbies to develop this good manners to grow higher and to maintain the rules and regulations that governed the Bitcointalk.org. But when you make a good post that attract other people attention , some old members will like to merits you to encourage you for the quality post you made in that particular thread and it will make you to study  more so that you can develop more effort that will bring more quality post that will make old people to show you more love either by referring you to some links that will add value to you or refer you to some sector were you can get more answers to your question.

When you have that good manners in you, you will be able to follow their steps to achieve your dreams in the future but there are some newbies, they don't want to acquire the skills to enjoy what others are enjoying in the platform than to follow the short cut that will make them to regret for taking such steps to disobey the rules.

The practice of courtesy and manners is necessary to inspire the nation with new vitality and establish it in a seat of dignity. Etiquette has a very high place in the overall welfare of human life. Good behavior since joining Bitcointalk.org is up to the individual. Good behavior will be formed from inside the person's mind it is not possible to achieve it after any book. But even though they vary manners always aim to do the same thing to make other people feel appreciated and respected which helps develop friendships.

not just reading books but with people that has that attitude, meaning engage in good people and not just the books to read but in reality/
Not to all but choose those who have good views , prefer to have what made you feel better and comfortable  , because this is not something that will favor them but yourself .
you are the one who seek favors so you have nothing to expect in your time.
just read a lot , read more , and understand .

If beginners have the knowledge they get more outside the bitcointalk forum, maybe it could be like that, there are those who are late to enter the bitcointalk forum but technically they have qualified experience in technical cryptocurrencies or in terms of computing knowledge that is equivalent or even more, unfortunately it is too fast and chooses words as if advising, it is true that manners are the main behavior that is highly valued in any space, mingle and look for good language rather than just advising especially new members who instantly interact in the bitcointalk forum. Beyond knowledge of course a good attitude is a special impression for beginners. Not to patronize because if you enter this forum there is certainly other knowledge that beginners do not know. of course it is different to share ideas and opinions than to justify one-sidedly in a thread before editing from several responses even an expert. basically the unity of opinion in this forum is the main thing.

Manners comes with the environment we grew up and it can't be changed that easily by reading some books and anything else. Because it is something that we acquire throughout our lifetime so it needs a strong reason if it needs to be changed.

it is really hard to determine one’s character just based on a few words they have typed in to their computers and posted into this forum but upon entering the forum or any community for that matter, i have made it a mindset to not take everything personal sometimes we can misinterpret some things especially if our only basis is what we see on the internet

this forum, albeit can also form friendships, is solely for the purpose of sharing information regarding cryptocurrencies and i know that people in here just want to be able to share and receive helpful information

I always pay respect to the old timer, because  i have been seeing them since I was a newbie and I also see them grow with knowledge and support to us , though about the favour ? not sure if what does that mean to you but for me , as long as you are paying attention to the rules , as long as you are obeying what is needed , and following their footsteps ? then it will always come your way .

Good manners should be learned and taught first at home. While it's hard to extract and absorb teachings about good manners through books and reading.

It should be directly by somebody that you respect mostly and has been with you at all times. In this case, it is our parents. But for the unfortunate ones, if they don't have their parents with them then whoever has been with them like guardian or someone has took care of them.

Of course and that is to respect everyone's belief. And about the people who are more intelligent that us, if you feel that you are intelligent, no you are not as there's someone here who's more knowledgeable than you.

Even if you already know everything - but the best thing to practice is to be an empty glass in every meeting you have with more established users. This allows you to gain new knowledge - but it is human nature to be a know-it-all or to think that they know more than others, and in reality this only prevents them from developing.

But know this – these humans are never perfect. You can still hope for a change for the better and give them an education – but if they don't want to change themselves, then whatever advice is simply useless.

I think the forum don't really care about people's characters because it is an online platform where we discuss about bitcoin , we do not look into people's characters if it is good or bad. All the forum cares about and want from it members,  is for members to abide to the rules and regulations of the forum, respecting this rules one is considered to be a good member of the forum.
Howvto communicate in the forum is very important for every member,  not just the newbies,  like correcting in a way that shouldn't look like an insult, but pleasant and very easy.

Generally, I must say that good manners is an asset necessary to have if you must survive in any environment, and not just this forum alone, as it drives people towards you as a person of great value, respected by many. Hence, leading to unleashing unmerited favour from both God and man. So when it comes to Newbie here on this forum,  I must say that it's always been like that, as most times 70% of the Newbies you see on this forum, are first time Newbies to both the forum and Bitcoin at large, and as such you are likely to see low quality posts from this set of individuals until they grow and get adapted to how the forum works fully. So for me, I think this post should be a wake-up to all newbies here on this forum to not forget that even while been a newbie on this forum, with good manners and great ability to communicate effectively here on this forum, you stand a better chance of succeeding here.

If truly we want a change over the way we lived our lives then we also have to change the way we think and reason, if we have good manners, good favours shall also follow us because the law of nature makes everything work together along with it's kind, that is why we gave to be very deliberate on the way we live our lives and what we do, in other not to make ourselves be the repellant of our favour because of the manners we have.

Often time I have seen the importance of a good manner of approach to things, and how important it is to cultivate good behaviour because that is the reflection of who you are and always try not to rush things, take time to think before you react to any situations because it is very important to always think before you act since your actions are the reflection of your person.
The reason why, it is very important to say that you should treat people the way you want to be treated, maintain your boundaries, not allow anyone to take advantage of you and know your right, if one cultivates this practice and follow the forum rules, he/she won't have any problem as long as the forum is concerned.

The greatest identity of a man is his behavior. Your manners are good means you are a very good person as a person. Good manners cannot be done by everyone, every day we meet different people on the way but not all people have the same manners. When we meet new people along the way, some people are very kind and some people are rude and some people abuse other people unnecessarily. I've found it a few times that when I treat others well, I am sure to be treated well in return. Any difficult task can be easily done by good usage and good words. When you want to shop in different showrooms, the customers are treated very politely from the showrooms, but if the customers were treated badly from a showroom, people would not go to that showroom for shopping, and this is one of the greatest virtues of good manners.

This forum does not call for respect because is not a town hall stuff , this place is all about normal discussion and interaction and I believe that what is needed here is to throw more insights or light of development of bitcoin mostly been innovative and also introduced a method we can apply to solve bitcoin problems, now the fees of bitcoin transaction is higher so we need to at least understand and learn the possible measures we can apply in order to pay a low fees for our transaction to be confirmed not a respect

Every good deeds begins from he mind, when you're determined for it, it will not be that difficult for you to face the challenges that might comes along the way, some don't know that it's their attitude that chase good things away from them, this all begins from the way we handle other's people's things in our control, the way we handles ours as well and what we always have in mind to doing them, they are what brings in favour to us through the manners we have about doing things.

What do you mean by favour? Is it merits or a good reputation?  I’m thinking this is another how to earn merits thread and you’re talking about merits but for some reason you replace the keyword merits with favour. Your merit history isn’t that impressive, would you say the reason why is because you haven’t found favour from older members or that you lack manners? Ass kissing merit sources and flattery could get you some merits but it can’t take you far.