Well yes, actually when I also play that is my first premise, then if I start inventing and try to make it out to be Superman, the other thing that stops me is that in my case, a family depends on me, and I am not able to read home and say that I couldn't buy the things because I started playing because I lost it playing, that for me is the handbrake, there is no other way, whenever there is failure, middle-aged children, I think that's it the motod that makes many of us move, there is no other way, when one is alone, single without commitment even without family, one does not care, because in some way things can be resolved, but when there are no obligations in which as a parent You can't fail, you have to work hard and not spend money on pleasure, but for me it's them, and everyone who has had a family, we know that there are times when things get very difficult, hard, and there is a way to avoid giving up.
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Naturally, commitment to your family is an important factor in preventing you from losing too much at gambling. Of course, a family man, and especially one who is raising his small children, simply cannot afford to constantly play when he is at home and generally not do anything in the house, not even communicate with the children.
But I think there are such people too. In general, gambling takes first place among their life priorities in their lives. And this is all due to his internal attitudes that he is a breadwinner and he gets money by winning gambling, which, as we all understand, is a lie and appeases the ego of such a player. In some cases, such players leave the family and the family is destroyed. And then his ex-wife blames it all on gambling. And in general this is fair.
But another reason, of course, is the weak self-control of such a player.
Without a doubt, when there are children involved and even only my wife herself, well that is already a responsibility, we cannot be inventing doing inappropriate things, because in itself that is all we are looking for at some point, to have our children. , a family that is well consolidated, there is no other, in any case sometimes there are parents or people who do not give importance to this, they do not only start with the casinos, because the casino itself, then if the addiction is created it is bad But there is something when they get other types of additions such as liquor, that under the effects of muism sometimes they get into things, and because they are all drunk, they do something they don't, fight, guitar, and that's what the people see. children, and that is not a good example for them and that remains engraved in their minds for a lifetime and that affects them in any area, be it in the field of education or it can form them as children who lack their security, among other things that can cause them such as trauma.
In the casino, a person who becomes addicted while having a family, is entirely to blame, there you have to be very considerate, it's good that these are things that happen, that they are things that are part of life, no, but there are responsibilities. that cannot be left aside, things must always be carried out well by responsible people, it is not allowed for a father or mother to go to a casino to spend money or income for their family, including money for their children. food and for their primary medical needs, this is what should never be done, that's why I say that addiction will always be first the fault of the person themselves, and second for not controlling their impulses, or feelings because that's where it is, It is something or an act of irresponsibility, and that is when the person must stop, because if they continue at that pace it will not do anyone any good.