These "government deception" theories are nearly always bullshit, and you don't even need to understand the tech to realize why:
We live in an age where the consumer tech market is incredibly rich and powerful - gone are the days when esoteric technology had to be researched in secret labs funded by NASA et al. Now it is researched by multi-national tech companies like Google and Samsung, and they want to make as much money as possible by bringing the newest tech to the market, as quickly as possible. Capitalism is a bitch, but it's fucking fast.
Because the market is so lucrative, a really good idea WILL be tested by a consumer tech company, and the simpler the idea, the more likely that a tech company will research it.
Because the market is global, no single government can effectively suppress any secret technology, especially if said technology can make major profit in the tech market.
BADecker, unless you are an aeronautical expert (I'm talking at least PhD level), then you have NO authority to comment on technology such as this in the way that you are. Helicopters are designed to be maneuverable and to have VTOL capabilities. They do this at the expense of lateral speed and weight. Your insinuation that helicopter tech is purposefully archaic is laughable, and as I have shown above, makes no logical sense.
The main reasons that everyone doesn't have a personal flying machine are:
A. They're pretty hard for the average person to build, and very expensive to buy.
B. There is a huge amount of red tape that you need to get through before being authorised to pilot any personal flying machine. Just look at flying cars: They exist, but the market for them is very small because you need a pilots license/driving license/suitable landing strip next to your house.
The reason we don't see everyone flying around is because it would be a total fucking disaster, not because the gov is suppressing any "Large Rotary Wing" technology.