You shouldn't give out any part of your seed at all.
A mnemonic seed is a way to encode (represent) a bitcoin private key, and it is deterministic meaning that the same seed will always generate the same private key and thus the same bitcoin addres(es). (Which is why it's called a "seed": it will "grow" into the tree of bitcoin private keys)
It's also a one-way function: you can generate a private key from a seed but you can't generate a seed from a private key.
TL;DR: a mnemonic seed is an easy way to abstract (represent) bitcoin private keys for easy storage even though they're not literally the same they are equivalent because you can produce the private key from the seed.
You seem to have a lot of (basic) questions about bitcoin.
I suggest you read Andreas Antonopolous' book Mastering Bitcoin
It will help you a lot to learn about how bitcoin works.
You can get a soft copy from Amazon or you can read it online for free here:
https://github.com/bitcoinbook/bitcoinbook/blob/develop/book.asciidoc